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Cable
May 25th, 2006, 11:09 PM
Well Wednesday morning I was all like "Today I'm not a f'ing pussy, Im going to go ask her to the spring formal" And then I was rushing to get ready so I wouldnt miss the bus, and I f'ing cut my lip with the razor. Stupid! So then I felt too stupid to even go up to her, and now I don't know...
Man I really like this girl and I know Spring Formal is the perfect chance, the LAST chance for that matter, before summer starts. Its the weekend after next, and as far as I know she doesnt have a date.
Its just... i dont know. I have a bigass cut above my lip (Stupid!) and I... ugh.. I dont know.. Im afriad of embarassing myself...
I know you're all going to say "Go for it!" ect, ect. ANd thers no way you could honestly tell me what my cahnces are considering you dont know me or her...
Maybe some tips? I dunno...
MoveAlong
May 25th, 2006, 11:23 PM
You need to go for it. If she asked what's with the cut, tell her what happened. You have to take this chance. I know you said that you knew we would say this. But go for it man! You said it yourself it was your last chance. Embrace that. If it doesn't work out, your life isn't over. You're probably going to get married to someone else anyway. :P
Cable
May 25th, 2006, 11:49 PM
Thanks man. Tommorow morning... *prays*
Ill tell you guys what happens. Now I gtg get some sleep.
MoveAlong
May 25th, 2006, 11:50 PM
Good luck. :agent:
Cable
May 26th, 2006, 04:53 PM
MOFO.
She wasnt there today.
Aηdy
May 26th, 2006, 04:55 PM
oh well thats a bit unfortunate for you
MoveAlong
May 26th, 2006, 06:19 PM
Hmm...Is there any way you can get to her? Or was that your last chance? And I don't know what MOFO is...:' (
Cable
May 26th, 2006, 06:26 PM
Eh, she lives two houses down. But I have no idea when she will be home, and I would feel weird just going up to her house. The dance is weekend after next, so I can ask her on teusday i suppose.
MOFO= mother f'er
Elokyn
May 27th, 2006, 12:47 PM
Just be yourself, if she asks about the cut, laugh it off. Tell her what happened and I'm sure it'll be no big deal!
Just be as calm as possible before you ask her. Good luck!! hope all goes well!!
lub lub
NYkole
Cable
May 29th, 2006, 12:22 AM
Ugh. We dont get back to school until teusday, and I have drivers ed right after school teusday-thursday, and I usually only see her after school. I can always ask her in the morning, ugh, its just that she hangs out with a group of people I dont exactly feel comfortable hanging around. Not that they are bad, in fact many of them are my friends, but a lot are also judgemental... it makes me feel very selfconsience.
But really thats my only shot, I cant wait around, the dance is next weekend. I could ask her tommorow but I dont know if she will even be home.
Thanks guys.
MoveAlong
May 29th, 2006, 12:23 AM
:O Friends arn't judgemental! Friends don't judge, they like you for who you are.
But I can see why you would want to do it when it's just one-on-one. Try to make it that way. It's alot easier :D
Cable
May 29th, 2006, 12:28 AM
Yeah thats the hard part. Like I said, the only chance I have one on one is after school, but teusday-thursday i have drivers ed. I could always just go up and ask to talk in private for a minute in the morning?
The ones who are judgemental are the ones who dont know me and judge me by rumors. When I go into that group, my friends will accept me but the way the others avoid me is just a little unsettling.
~Dazed&&Confused~
May 29th, 2006, 02:38 AM
The ones who are judgemental arent your friends... if they don't like you for who you really are.. then their not worth bein your friends.. and yes in the mornin just get her away from her friend.. less embarassin and just ask her.. if she says no then at leadt you know you tried.. if she says yes.. then nice one.. and dont forget to tell us how it went :)..
Cable
May 30th, 2006, 07:51 PM
Oh My God.
I dont deserve a penis.
I stood some ten feet away from her this morning, for half a fucking hour. I had every chance in the world, but I just stood there, then the bell I rang and I had to go to class. fuck.
I geuss there's always tommorrow...
dude101
May 30th, 2006, 08:04 PM
dude just go for it ! its the only way its going to happen. other wise your goin to keep putting it off and off until your married or something ! haha its normal to be nervous but the worst she can say is no and there are many other girls in the world thrust me. dont sweat it !
Cable
May 31st, 2006, 10:54 PM
Aw fuck. ONce again, I chickened out.
Perhaps giving me a dick was just God's idea of a creul joke.
Plus, I cant sleep at night. Im stressed out about it, and even though I realize that, I still cant sleep. Today I was so spaced out thinking about it that I missed my bus stop and had to walk some 5-6 blocks home.
MoveAlong
May 31st, 2006, 11:00 PM
This is your last chance. You have got to do it. Just say something. Just say her name. Look into her eyes. But stay calm man! Just talk to her. Ask her how her day was, and just sneak it in there somehow.
Now for sleeping, listen to some calming music or get some really good exercise in the day. Then you'll sleep :)
Cable
May 31st, 2006, 11:33 PM
Okay. Thanks for all the support guys.
I am going to do this. Hell, I can get the nerve up for this. Ive done harder things right?
Cable
June 1st, 2006, 09:29 PM
Fuck this shit.
I just found out that I have to go work on our lake property all weekend anyway. I probably could skip out on that if I got a date, but i figure its too late now anyway. Damn drivers ed tho. Seriously, when we get off the school bus, I am actually alone with her for a minute, but with drivers ed, i dont take the bus.
You think asking her tommorow would be too late? The dance is on Saturday. Ugh.
MoveAlong
June 1st, 2006, 10:31 PM
Just go and do it! Yes you can! Go COX cable! :D
0=
June 2nd, 2006, 12:39 AM
Go for it man, or you'll regret it later, and hell yeah cox owns.
MoveAlong
June 2nd, 2006, 04:50 PM
And Cable, if you don't do this you might hate yourself more than if you just tried and got turned down. :|
*~Donnie\))
Cable
June 3rd, 2006, 12:45 AM
youre right. But now its too late. Ugh.
Maybe ill just tell her that i was going to ask her but couldnt get the nerve up...
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