porn or the GF

[chazzrox2]

Hi i'm in a stable 2yr relationship with a girl the same age (i.e. sex, love, gonna get married, have children, die, have our atoms spread acroos the universe in complete and unifying final act of love)

But i keep wanting to ( and DO) look at porn an j/o off to it...sometimes gay as well...is this a problem at all?
What should i do about it?
Does anyone else do it?

thanks

p.s. she doesn't know either.....

[cherry_boi]

hmm well if it's not affecting r relationship then i guess there isn't a "problem" per-say

but some people (myself included) wud consider this a form of cheating....

re-examine ur relationship, because ur obviously not getting something u want out of it, find the reason you feel u need to look at porn...what feeling does it give you that ur relationship with your gf does not?

i do sometimes watch porn, but my urge to do so goes away completely when i'm in an active relationship

i'd also keep her in the dark about this for the time being....not worth it to potentially get her upset over something you don't understand urself and wudn't be able to explain the her....

[Rutherford The Brave]

Hi i'm in a stable 2yr relationship with a girl the same age (i.e. sex, love, gonna get married, have children, die, have our atoms spread acroos the universe in complete and unifying final act of love)

But i keep wanting to ( and DO) look at porn an j/o off to it...sometimes gay as well...is this a problem at all?
What should i do about it?
Does anyone else do it?

thanks

p.s. she doesn't know either.....

Yeah uh no. Just because you are in a relationship for 2 years doesnt mean you are going to get married. Odds are you wont even come close.

Anywho. No what you do privetly is your own damn business.

[Kitty Purry]

Well like cherryboi said some will consider it a form of cheating, some will not. Really its what u and ur gf think about it? So ask urself and see what u think about it.

[charlie3322]

its not cheating to me. lust for another is something u cant help and thats all porn is about its not like u love the person in ther porn

[fordfan67]

i would sat its wrong but its all up to you

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[Antares]

No, not a problem at all.
I mean, I would imagine she doesn't want to have sex so you need it from somewhere. IF she were open to sex, then why would you want to j/o.

Its fine either way. Masturbate with porn to your heart's content

[charlie3322]

exactly

[Sumitup]

There is absolutely nothing wrong with watching porn while in a relationship. Many couples, myself and my girlfriend included, watch porn together. Anyone who thinks this is a form of cheating is ill informed in some way or another.

[NeverLetGo]

hmm well if it's not affecting r relationship then i guess there isn't a "problem" per-say

but some people (myself included) wud consider this a form of cheating....

re-examine ur relationship, because ur obviously not getting something u want out of it, find the reason you feel u need to look at porn...what feeling does it give you that ur relationship with your gf does not?

i do sometimes watch porn, but my urge to do so goes away completely when i'm in an active relationship

i'd also keep her in the dark about this for the time being....not worth it to potentially get her upset over something you don't understand urself and wudn't be able to explain the her....
I couldn't agree more. He has it right on the money. +Rep.

[curtiszor]

Not cheating in my oppinion

[Ham32bino]

Unless your married or engaged I don't have a problem with it.

[Gavin]

There is nothing wrong with looking at porn and jacking off to it..

[BlackBetty]

Does she tell you when she masterbates?? She might watch porn, (slim chances) and you don't even know about it..

Go ahead, live life to the max and watch some porn.

And I don't think it's cheating.

[BigBulge]

many married men watch porn

[Giles]

If it isn't affecting your relationship then I don't see the problem.
Continue masturbating to your hearts content.

[ray8806]

Trust me, even a 2 yr relationship doesn't necessarily last. I had one for a year and a half and it didn't last. But if it does, congratulations!

I don't think looking at porn is cheating. To me, fantasizing about my girlfriend feels like I violated her in some way. So I try to avoid doing so. Though, like someone above me said, the want to look at porn dies down a bit when in a relationship. :)

[Mental]

You should be honest with her, and ask her if she's OK with it. Some women consider porn an indirect way of cheating.

You're indirectly lusting for the girl/guy in the porn video.. so yeah.

[djdude]

yes, it kind of is a problem. you will be focusing more attention to porn than your girlfriend.

Thats kinda a problem....

[dantheman5000]

well... its risky business to look at that stuff if your in a 2 year relationship. if you love your girlfriend so much then you would choose her over porn.

[Jesusb]

As long as you don't pay more attention to the porn then your girl

[Shineforlife]

A lot of guys even in active relationships watches porn to get rid of their sexual urges such as getting interested in other 'realistic' women and also for self pleasure. Your not cheating right? So don't be afraid..

[StraightAcE]

you need her permission though