I am NOT normal.

[DarkWingedAngel]

I am NOT normal, I had to have been born on some other planet maybe a different universe, I mean does any other girl have there sex as male on everything, I am not a girl, I refuse to admit that im a girl, I have the mind of a guy, the brain of a guy and I dress like one, it's official im a guy, NOT a girl, I cant be, I mean why else would I like girls, because im a guy thats why. I am NOT normal, even if you say I am, im not.





what the fuck is wrong with me?

[charlie3322]

well not only girls like guyz hun im a guy and i like guyz. doesnt meen ima gal

[DarkWingedAngel]

im not a fucking girl tho
I'm not
i mean i cant be

[Lifeguard18]

We know youre not a girl. If u mean by not normal and you like guys instead of girls you're probably gay and you hate to admit and accept it. Everyone has a hard time doing that. Even I did. And I am happy. And like Charlie3322 said not all girls like guys. You have to give yourself time to think this through and eventually accept it or you will start to have a lot of problems like stress depression you'll be tired a lot etc. You have to give yourself time and a lot of thought into accepting yourself.

[sztegosz]

what is the question?

[NextToNormal]

not all people actually identify with the gender the doctor says when youre born. just because you do not consider yourself a girl, does not mean youre not normal. it just means that you are coming to terms with who you really are. you have to understand that not everyone is the same. i have met other people just like you, and they are just as normal as everyone else. you could just be a transgendered person...you dont consider yourself the gender specified by what is between your legs. and theres absolutely nothing wrong with that.

[ShatteredWings]

We know youre not a girl. If u mean by not normal and you like guys instead of girls you're probably gay and you hate to admit

Desi was born female...Miss the part that reads "I mean why else would I like girls, because im a guy thats why."


OK, YOU, first off, liking girls alone doesn't make you a guy. There's losta lesbians who are fine with it, there are other trans guys who like men.
But I know you too well... None of this is new. We've talked about it before.
This is what you want, why not go for being able to live a life where you don't have to feel like you're lying to people?

[DarkWingedAngel]

my friends are clueless
they think im bi
well no for one im not, i like girls
they think im a major skater girl
well theres one thing wrong with that im not a freaking girl
im not about to tell them "oh hey guys im not bi and im not a girl" they will then think im the biggest freak alive

[sztegosz]

i think a doctor could answer to your question better, than us.

[ShatteredWings]

I don't think you're the biggest freak alive... and yes youre weird but that makes you you.

i think a doctor could answer to your question better, than us.
can I ask for clarification? Doctors tend not to be very good at decerning physical sex from the person's mental gender

[DarkWingedAngel]

;752637']I don't think you're the biggest freak alive...
well your just well weird
because if i tell anyone of my friends i will be a BIG ass fucking freak

[The Batman]

;752637']
can I ask for clarification? Doctors tend not to be very good at decerning physical sex from the person's mental gender

A psychiatrist could probably...

[ShatteredWings]

A GENDER THERIPEST could, but most psychs would just try to say its another mental disorder or try to 'pray it away' (total bullshit)
Family GP is going to be clueless.

[The Batman]

Whatever makes you happy is fine with me as long as it isn't hurting anyone. My cousin is dating a girl that dresses like a boy, acts like a boy, and goes by her nickname which is a boy name. Sometimes my other family members call her a guy because that's what she's more comfy as I guess.

[ShatteredWings]

Boyish girl and boy born in girls body are two very different things tom

[The Batman]

She could possibly be a boy born in a girls body(which I really don't know I didn't bother asking). The point of what I'm trying to say is that there are people that will accept desi for whoever or whatever(gender wise)she feels like she is.

[charlie3322]

im sorta confused... do u hava vagina?

[cherry_boi]

there are alot of people who feel they are a male born in a female's body, or a female born in a males body, there is a medical term for it but i don't remember what it is, lol google it!

hundreds of people are born every year who will end up feeling like this, so YES you are normal, but u are def not in "the norm" if that makes sense....

if u feel that you are one of these people who was born with a mind different from your body then i suggest you do what makes you happy, some people take hormone injections and have surgery to alter themselves so they feel more comfortable, others just dress differently, and some even switch back and fourth between acting like a male or female

as this is somewhat uncommon i'm i don't kno alot about it, but yea do some research, but always remember to do what makes you happy, don't try to be something your not, and it's ok---in fact it's awesome to be different!!

[charlie3322]

i luv u because ur dif!! ><><

[StraightAcE]

your fine

[rageingecho]

capt'n skittles
your a lesbian.the type people call dykes(which isnt a nice word)
you are a female in gender.no matter what,you are a girl.

[Ryhanna]

No one's normal, that's what makes us normal.

Fact is, you're a girl. Fact is, you can change that. You just need to be sure of what you really want.

[Country-Cowgirl]

ok Im a chic I was raised by guys and when I'm not "dressing to impress" I dress like a guy. Because I was raised by guys I was taught/trained to check out other girls. however I am straight. your not odd and no one is "normal" there is no such thing as normal.

[Inconvenience]

u sound like a lesbian

[manlymadness]

Do you think for 1 minut every in the world is normal?!?!

[Jean Poutine]

Gotta love how the more verbose, artistic kind of guy never gets called a "girl", but girls that happen to have male interests do.

There are many guys who love fashion. They're called "metrosexuals", not "women". I happen to like chick flicks and heartfelt discussion, as well as traditional romance. Am I a chick? Hell no.

What I mean to say is, don't jump too quickly to conclusions. There may be more wiggle room than you think. You're certainly a tomboy, but a male?

[CuriousDestruction]

dylan, i don't know you. i don't know your friends and i don't know you very well on VT. but here's what i do know. if you like girls, that would make you lesbian. however, if you feel that you are actually a guy and born into the wrong gender, which many people believe, you are transgendered. this is perfectly okay and quite frankly, normal. now there is of course plenty of middle ground. if you have the mindset of a guy but still think of yourself as a girl then you are gender queer. still normal. i know this is all very confusing for you and if you want some professional advice you should visit a gender/sex therapist. if you wanna talk about this, please feel free to PM me.

[Pudd]

She could possibly be a boy born in a girls body(which I really don't know I didn't bother asking). The point of what I'm trying to say is that there are people that will accept desi for whoever or whatever(gender wise)she feels like she is.

If youre worried also about getting an operation because you wont find love then i believe that there are plenty of pansexuals about.

[miranda_cutie15]

u have a vagina, your sex is female.
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