Cousin

[SomeRandomDude]

My cousin and I are both going through puberty (tho he is a little older and definitely more developed, especially for his age).

Anyways sometimes when we are sleeping over at each other's houses we have pillow fights or something in his room usually naked or sometimes in our underwear. I'm a little nervous (probably because I don't want him to see me way less developed than him) but I kinda like seeing his y'know, it kinda makes me want to develop faster and look like his.

We have never directly touched any of each other's genitals or anything, nor do I want to ever.

At our cottage we sometimes go piss beside each-other outside also when no one's looking and see him there also.

I was just wondering if this makes any of us gay or if it's normal to want to see each other naked.

P.S. I do have crushes on girls and not boys and for what I have asked him he is also interested in girls.

[Thrash Bassist]

My cousin and I are both going through puberty (tho he is a little older and definitely more developed, especially for his age).

Anyways sometimes when we are sleeping over at each other's houses we have pillow fights or something in his room usually naked or sometimes in our underwear. I'm a little nervous (probably because I don't want him to see me way less developed than him) but I kinda like seeing his y'know, it kinda makes me want to develop faster and look like his.

We have never directly touched any of each other's genitals or anything, nor do I want to ever.

At our cottage we sometimes go piss beside each-other outside also when no one's looking and see him there also.

I was just wondering if this makes any of us gay or if it's normal to want to see each other naked.

P.S. I do have crushes on girls and not boys and for what I have asked him he is also interested in girls.

If you are attracted to him, then you are bi (Since you like girls too)
But, I think you are jealous of him and want to be his size. Maybe you are just curious?

[SomeRandomDude]

I am not really attracted to him I just like seeing him. Wait , is that the same thing? He seems to want to have the pillow fights also

[Thrash Bassist]

I am not really attracted to him I just like seeing him. Wait , is that the same thing? He seems to want to have the pillow fights also

Well, maybe he is gay.
Its not the samething, I think you are just curious.

[ray8806]

Maybe he is just a little curious to homosexuality(not gay or bi but curious) and that is why he wants to do the pillow fights nude/in your underwear.

And you, you may be a little curious but nothing more. I think it is more envy than an attraction. You just want to grow older and be as developed as him, that's all. That or you are mentally comparing his genitals to your own. Nothing wrong with that, just comparing.

[ray8806]

Personally, I think it is cool that you two are so open with your body/nudity. Not to the point of being a nudist, but open.

I am too, but I don't have anyone to be open with. (If you can understand my point. lol. Couldn't type the right words.)

[Fruit_Tart.]

Hmmm... Well u want to see him that way because ur either jealous or ur really curhous i don think that makes u gay jus curhous... So don worry its prolly jus ur guys hormones... :p

[SomeRandomDude]

Well yes I definitely think I and him are curious and I sometimes catch glinces in the changeroom (I don't try to) and like comparing me to them. Like I said before, I'm not attracted to them. I also really enjoy catching glimpses of girls bras in school and one time I saw a girl's boob who either forgot to or didn't wear a bra yet. I did try to see it as long as possible if you know what I mean

[ray8806]

Haha, yea I know what you mean dude. Nice. LOL

[SomeRandomDude]

It was awesome :) I feel bad for girls who don't really have a good way to see personal parts of boys ;)

[charlie3322]

lol im sure they hav ways ;)

[SomeRandomDude]

Yea probly but still it's less obvious for them. The best they could maybe do is see underwear or something and if they wore boxers they might be able to see the genitals if they really tried lol

[charlie3322]

lol ya

[SomeRandomDude]

Alright thanks guys for lettin me know and being so nice I really appriciate it. It's been a good first day on here (well I've been on here reading the posts before but I kept forgetting to sign up :)

[IAMWILL]

You are perfectly normal, not gay, bi, or anything. Its just puberty and hormones, it happens to everyone, and quite honestly, a lot of guys would say your lucky because they're curious like you are.

[SomeRandomDude]

Thanks again. I really don't think my cousin is gay or bi either he's pretty normal.

[sixinches]

Only you have the ability to label yourself. Remember that what you are is based on emotional as well as physical feelings toward same/opposite sexes. At your age, being this close to a guy (especially a brother or cousin) could be confusing, but you're probably just wanting to experiment/compare with someone you know in the same stage as you.

[rzz1993]

U don't seem gay or bi to me..

[ACQD139F83J]

NO! I don't know how many times people ask this question but the answer is always the same. YOU HAVE TO BE EMOTIONALLY ATTRACTED TO SOMEONE OF THE SAME SEX TO BE GAY OR BI!!! otherwise you're just curious.

[socaldude127]

Its called messing around bud, no worries! :) I did it too

[itsandrew_]

It doesn't make you gay! Its curiosity!

[Giles]

Not gay. Just because you enjoy looking at another males penis it doesn't necessarily mean that you have feelings for him.
Unless you have emotional attraction and sexual attraction towards men, you're Straight. Just curious.

[lysiaboy]

yeah mate it just means that your curious, completely normal

[charlie3322]

gawd i want to hav a pill0w fight like that.....

[Antares]

Boys Puberty :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[SomeRandomDude]

Ok sorry for posting in the wrong one!

[YOUNGDREAM]

U will grow out of it im sure..

[SomeRandomDude]

Yea, and it's not like it's every week. It's been about 1 year since we've had a pillow fight (he lives quite a distance away)

[SmileyGirl]

If ur attracted 2 him, then ur bi. If ur just curious then no.
And either 1 is perfectly fine.

[charlie3322]

o well if ur attracted to him...

[dahardy9]

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[shikachunin]

It probably just means that your curious. As long as it DOESN'T develop into anything sexual, it shouldn't be a problem (incest is illegal & frowned upon in most places).

[SmileyGirl]

idk if i already ansrd this so srry if i did. its possible ur bi but it may just be that ur nervous that he mite make fun of u an/or ur jealous that hes more developed than u.

[StraightAcE]

you said it yourself you have crushes on girls so most likely your striaght and curious

[JoshL]

no.just curiosity

[ryanb]

you are normal

[johnuwish7878]

It's more likely to be curiosity. We all looked before just to see if someones private areas look similar or different..Its perfectly normal..It's just looking its not like you're touching..

[impact_75]

Of course it's normal. You're going through puberty. Raging hormones!!!

[Dramakingdc]

Youre just curious!

[IDGAF]

Being gay means liking someone of the same gender, I think you're a bit jealous of your cousin... If u don't like other guys, your not gay

[emt.Cam]

I used to play doctor with my male cousin when we were growing up. You're just being curious with the normal process of human nature, to most anyways -I say "most" because there are some people who don't go through puberty" It doesn't make you gay nor bisexual, you just seem to be fascinated because we only see ourselves nude, normally we don't see others of the same sex nude. You're doing fine bud, no worries.