Ladies, I need your help!

[mistral]

Well...there's this girl I really like. We've been really close friends since we were both 4. I only started crushing on her since 2008 (I was 12, I guess puberty was starting to kick in, eh?). Anyways, when I finally gathered the courage to tell her, I said it shyly and unclearly. She said, "Oh, that's not a really big deal." and brushed it off easily.
Maybe a month later, i finally recovered from all of the anxiety i was suffering from trying to tell her how i felt about her. I remembered about that day and she felt like she was comfortable with it, so I was curious to see if this relationship wasn't one-sided. So, I popped up the big question (over MSN, BIG mistake:(), and she gave me the whole "You're really nice, but..." speech. My life was over as I knew it
Fast-forward one and a half years, and we haven't spoken about it since then. I have a huge feeling that she has lost interest of me. But my feelings are still the same.
And here I am, BEGGING for help.


Now, the actual question:P. Honestly, what can I do to make her like me? I've thought about almost everything, looked all over the internet, but I'm too shy to do any of that without actual assurance and opinions.
Please, HELP MEEEEE!!!!!

[DaretoFallup]

Honestly, if the feeling isn't mutual, it doesn't make sense to dwell on it and poor you heart and soul into rejection. Don't get caught up in just one girl. Be yourself, if she likes you too, then good. If she wants to remain friends, that's good as well. It's best not to ruin your friendship.
Basically what I'm trying to say is, while rejection hurts, and you want to pursue your former crush, it's best not to, it'll only hurt more.

[mistral]

aww....sometimes, you just gotta let go...
well i have one more question. is there a way i can KISS her (cheek/lips) without the moment being too awkward? because that is what ive always wanted to do to her...<3...BUT IM JUST TOO SISSY!!!...any advice?

[DaretoFallup]

Like I said before, if she doesn't like you as well, that could ruin your friendship.

[Blue63]

I know I'm not a lady, but I've been in your situation.

I really agree with BurningInspiration here, she's absolutley right

I know how you feel, believe me. Try and simply get over her. I did that with a girl I liked for...7 month-ish, it's hard. However I salvaged the friendship and it's great. If you kissed her, there wouldn't be a friendship to go back to. I think that would just be crossing a line. I know you want to believe she's playing hard to get, but sometimes it just doesn't work. Rejection hurts, it can tear you apart if you dwell on it and keep giving in to it, so I really suggest to just go back to being friends

The best of luck to you, if you ever want to talk just pm me!

[mistral]

too bad for me i guess.
well, thanks for the advice burninginspiration and blue63. at least im not confused anymore.

[SmileyGirl]

Theres no way to make her like u. She either likes u or she doesn't. She may like u n just not admit it (as us girls do) or she just doesn't like u.
She probably feels awkward around u now and the only way to fix that is to wait.