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green
January 17th, 2010, 02:20 AM
Ok so heres the deal. This friend, we're not the greatest friends but we'll say hi to each other when we pass at school and stuff. But hes always making gay jokes and giving me shit for not have a girlfriend and I'm alright with that because its how he treats everyone. Now i was checkin my facebook page and he had asked his friends what he should buy with his christmas money and I left a joke about him buying some balls which is basiclly his insults tonned down alot. so i was just talking to him on msn and he seemed kind of angry so I asked him what was up and he just said that I was a dick and logged of. Im kind of left there like WTF? So can someone give me some ideas as to what hes so angry about cause i cant see why he should be able to call me gay and tell me to stop hitting on guys and Im not allowed to make a dumb joke about him not having balls which he knows is just a joke.
cheers, Green
Kitty Purry
January 17th, 2010, 03:54 AM
idk y he is acting like this. i always mess around with my guy friends. Most guys are fine with it. mayb he is easily insulted idk
LunacyFringe
January 17th, 2010, 04:02 AM
Sounds like he's trying to vent out his insecurities by making everyone else feel insecure about themselves. He could be having trouble coming to terms with his own sexuality which would explain his reaction to your joke or he might have been bullied as a child and is now trying to 'get even'.
Random_oso06
January 17th, 2010, 04:11 AM
He could be acting like a child saying crap to anyone until someone talks back and you instantly become there enemies so basically he's can't take insults and when he gets them the acts like he never does it and your the bad one
guacamole24
January 17th, 2010, 08:03 AM
I think maybe he's extremely sensitive... or maybe you shouldn't have posted it on facebook...
DaretoFallup
January 17th, 2010, 08:32 AM
Maybe he is sensitive as others have previously stated. But also remember, two wrongs don't make a right. Have you ever tried to tell him that his "jokes" bother you.
A friend of mine, we ended up making a "contract" for and she actually listens to it. I'm not saying to try this. I'm saying, talk to this friend tell him that his jokes bother you and that you regret what you said on facebook..
TheTruth
January 23rd, 2010, 09:17 PM
Yeah this guy sounds like one of those can make jokes about others but can't take a joke himself. But it does sonud like he's innsecure about his own sexuality so he try's to make out that your gay so no one will notice anything 'gay' about him. Personally, i wouldn't worry.
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