Girl problems

[runner4life]

Ok, so I am new here so, forgive me for any mistakes.

So, I have been out with 2 girls. 1 was regrettable. the other I love soo much. This summer she broke up with me. At first she said she just didnt want a bf over the summer and i let it go but now she tells people she dosnt like me. what do you recomd i do to get her back?

[DaretoFallup]

It's best not to, if she doesn't like you anymore. You've got plenty of time to find someone who truly loves you. Being in a relationship where the feeling isn't mutual is just a waste. PM if you want to talk more, I'm not much help right now.

[zoom zoom]

Really if shes not in to you why would you go for someone like that? its like saying if you dont like a certain food why would you eat it? so really if shes not that in to you why would you waste your time with her when there are better girls out there?

[Englishrose]

Okay, so she did like you, but that attraction on her part is no longer there. If you really think she might just be making excuses, and she still likes you, go for it, but don't go straight into trying to get her back boyfriend wise, try and get her back friend wise and then move on to boyfriend.

However, if she is totally serious about the attraction no longer being there, move on, your wasting your time.

The only way to find out the truth is to talk to her, ask her why the relationship ended and if she says it was because of the summer just say "ah okay, it's just that I heard it was because you just didn't like me anymore". Talking solves the majority of problems, I just wish more people did it though I know just how hard it can be.