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ErikaRae
January 15th, 2010, 06:03 PM
One of my friends has been acting differently.
At school he's always touching me, and he's
constantly telling me that im 'sexy' and he wants my..woman area,
and he asks me out, but I don't really want to go out
with a guy who treats me like that.
I don't know how to say no, but I don't want to ruin our
friendship. I still want to be his friend, like the way it was before
he got all... Touchy Feely. He wasn't like that.
Any advice?
2D
January 15th, 2010, 06:11 PM
Tell him how to feel. That you don't want to go out with someone who acts like he is.
venom832
January 18th, 2010, 08:01 AM
Ive seen that happen before and sometimes its hard to tell a guy no because we do take it the wrong way and sometimes act very irrational. But if hes really your friend maybe he will understand because for a fact no girl likes to be treated like that. It may just be a phase. Don't play along with him because then if you do its like your giving signs that you want him. Just give him clues that you just want to be friends and maybe he will give up. :)
Contra
January 18th, 2010, 11:54 AM
If your friendship is meaningful, and he is really your friend, he will accept that you are not comfortable with those situations.
It really sucks, sometimes I don't say everything I want, because I'm afraid of losing friends.
Art_dude
January 18th, 2010, 12:27 PM
One of my friends has been acting differently.
At school he's always touching me, and he's
constantly telling me that im 'sexy' and he wants my..woman area,
and he asks me out, but I don't really want to go out
with a guy who treats me like that.
I don't know how to say no, but I don't want to ruin our
friendship. I still want to be his friend, like the way it was before
he got all... Touchy Feely. He wasn't like that.
Any advice?
Tell him exactly what you told us. If he really does value your friendship he'll drop it. The only thing that makes me a little fishy, is that he explicitly told you he wants your....woman parts.... It doesn't sound like an innocent friend wanting to ask you out and form a relationship...Would you ever feel comfortable around this friend after he says something like that?
The Joker
January 18th, 2010, 01:40 PM
It doesn't seem like he's interested in friendship, drop the loser.
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