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Baudelaire
January 14th, 2010, 06:36 PM
I'm really disgusted with myself, my dad, who I never really got along with, but I still loved him, we're family, he just had a seizure, and I was scared for him but I didnt...cry, and I dont feel as bad about it because I should have cried, does this make me a bad person? I mean i dont care for his personality but I dont want to see him die, at the same time though, I feel like I've lost interest, is there something wrong with me?
haibekah
January 14th, 2010, 07:00 PM
i went through a smiliar thing. my dad had like.. 4 seizures at once and all i did was pack my bags and left. there was someone there to care for him. i got to a point where i just didn't care anymore. there's nothing wrong with you, don't worry!
mitchboii7
January 18th, 2010, 01:35 AM
man.. my dad hasn't done this so i'm scared if this will happen..
you love him and that's what matters, right?!
Mr. Smithers
January 18th, 2010, 01:56 AM
Just because you didn't cry doesn't mean you don't feel bad for him. You are showing your sadness in a different way. I'm very sorry for your Dad and for you and I hope that he gets better.
BeautifulDisaster
January 28th, 2010, 12:32 PM
Try not to feel bad, you don't need to cry to feel worried / upset about something.
nick
January 28th, 2010, 12:52 PM
Crying isnt always something you can control, you cant cry just because somehow you think you should. It doesnt mean you have no feelings. Sometimes the crying catches you out at an unexpected time and just hits you later on.
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