I think im striaght but not sure! please Help!!!!!

[Broadway]

I am new to Virtual Teen but need some help please. I rele confussed and get rele upset sometimes because of this and my mom always asks why i am upset but i can never tell her. So here is my Stroy......Ok so i have had a few girlfriends but we were nerver too serious.So im with a girl now and we are pretty serious. But I feel awkward at times because i kinda like guys........ ok so feel like everytime i see a guy that is rele good looking or muscular, or with a big"package" i think rele sexual thoughts about them i dont want to but i cant help it. I feel awkward thinking about friends that i think are hot when i am in the mood(like when masturbating) I dont want to be attracted to them but i cant help it. I want to tell a close friend but im affraid that they will slip it to someone else but then i know the whole school will find out and it dont want to be called gay because i already do plays and dance. I have no idea what to do and i dont want anyone to thinkk of me differently. HELP PLEASE!!!:what::(

[Mr. Smithers]

Well you should be more open and happy about your sexuality. You are bi-sexual and there is nothing wrong with that. It's your choice whether or not you want to tell anyone you like guys, but if your friends end up leaving you then they weren't your friends. You shouldn't be worried about being called names. I was always called names I just roll my eyes that those kinds of people.

[Broadway]

FEZZIE, ive read a lot of your posts, and they really seem to help people. Thanks for the advice its helped me alot already. Your right, i will try not to worry about everyone else. Thanks and great advice!!!

[nick]

Hi Broadway, welcome to VT. I cant really answer you questions without knowing a bit more background. I've been through the same confusion myself and would be happy to talk to you and see if I can help. Drop me a pm if you want to talk more.

[KaelKaos]

Broadway, I think you're just a normal teen experiencing the normal effects of hormones. I think almost all of us here at VT, and elsewhere can admit that we've all had urges to do things with the same sex, it's only natural. My advice for you is to not worry about it, let time run it's course, and eventually you'll know. And with your girlfriend, there's no need to feel awkward, she's your girlfriend, she likes you for who you are.

[Clayburn Chic]

You should accept your sexuality. Being Bi isnt anything to be ashamed of, many people are bi, so your not different. we all have times were we are attracted to the same sex.

[manlymadness]

First all guys think of guys while masterbating! And a say it alot but there is nothing wrong with being gay!!!if your friend goes and tells some1 after you tell him not too then hes not your friend!!renember if you are gay and you got a problem with being gay that means you have a problem with your self!!

[Nelson]

Embrace your sexuality dude, if your bi, your bi, if your gay, your gay, if your straight boohoo. If people have a problem with it, tellem to stick it :)

[CuriousDestruction]

well, it's probably a stage of curiosity at this point. loads of teens go through it. you just need to be content about your sexual curiosity at this point. go where the wind takes you and don't worry about friends. a true friend will keep your secret.

[Pudd]

Why get upset? You are who you are, take it in your stride, it's nothing to worry about.

[nycbestkid]

Well me and you are sort of going through the same thing. Well here goes the thing that I will say everyone has bi sexuality in them but some don't act on it. I used to have sexual thoughts about my friends and guys like I was real young but when I turned 16 or 15 it kind of faded away. I love lesbian porn and big tits about women but I kind of find men with 6 pack abs attractive. But I don't want to have sex with them it all about what you want in your heart not what people might say in society or your friends just say to your self did you like the time you had with your girl friends things like that or if not if your gay or bi then hey your still a person. There are a lot of people who are bi and are married its just all in your heart

[TAC1]

Hmmm...It sounds like you're going through the phase of bi-curious- since you say that you are mainly physically attracted to guys..Being bi is having a sexual and emotional attraction attraction to someone. So kinda take it easy right now..

[Scarface]

Embrace your sexuality dude, if your bi, your bi, if your gay, your gay, if your straight boohoo. If people have a problem with it, tellem to stick it :)

word man listen i'm gay and i'm very proud of it. i don't care what people have to say because it's my preference and if they don't like it they do not have to associate themselves with me period. I want people who accept me for who i am. As for finding out weather you bi or not i just think your curious and there is nothing wrong with it nor something to be ashamed of

[CarnivorousBat]

if you are worried with what people think then be very careful who you tell. a very very close friend