Am I gay or bi or straight I really don't know!

[Angusyoung95]

Ok do I'm 14 and had quite a few girlfriendS and I enjoyed goin out with them and I am atracted to girls. But I'm confused because I'm really really sexually attracted to a couple of guys my age. I don't know if I'm bi because I've noticed that I only like boys my age that are "late bloomers" I really like there hairless armpits and get aroused when I think about their hairless bodies. I don't know if I'm just relating them to girls or what?
What do you think?
Has anyone else ever felt this way?

[BigBulge]

Somebody should move this to teen sexuality

[Kitty Purry]

Your proabaly straight curious but idkN

[Ryhanna]

First of all - I request this be MOVED to teen sexuality.

Secondly, we can't really tell you what you are. Thats something only you can really know. Yeah, sure, we can guess at it for you but that's not really going to do any good.

[corey_USA]

a lot of times guys going through puberty have thoughts about men, as they are curious... that doesn't decide you sexuality---you do

[SurfDudeJason]

Agree...wrong place for question but your a young guy. I would not worry about it at this point. Everyone gets curious..18 Str8 and still do time to time. teen sexuality better place for question

peace

[blingibong]

rite dude i have the same thing well i found out that im extremly curious well i jst call it been straight curious :D

[josh93]

well i know how you feel in a way and i belive iam bi it hard to chosse like i have sexual feelings for a boy at school than sometimes its hard to chosse part of you says its worng but anouther says its good and feels right so just go with what you know is right.

[charlie3322]

i wish tha whole world was gay for one day so everyone would know wat sexuality they like best

[Watta Tem]

you are just curious...

[Giles]

If you have feeling and sexual attraction towards either sex and that sex alone then you are either gay or straight (Relative). If you have one for one gender and the other for the other gender then you're bi or just curious in general.
If you have both for both genders then chances are that you're bi.
Unless you've felt this way for years, there's a chance that it could just be your hormones screwing around with what you think you feel.

[Tiberius]

p101 :arrow: teen sexuality

In reference to all of you who posted that this was in the wrong section, there is a report button on the left side of the page near the reputation button.

[KaelKaos]

Ok do I'm 14 and had quite a few girlfriendS and I enjoyed goin out with them and I am atracted to girls. But I'm confused because I'm really really sexually attracted to a couple of guys my age. I don't know if I'm bi because I've noticed that I only like boys my age that are "late bloomers" I really like there hairless armpits and get aroused when I think about their hairless bodies. I don't know if I'm just relating them to girls or what?
What do you think?
Has anyone else ever felt this way?

The part I've highlighted makes me believe that you're just a normal teenager. People who are gay are attracted sexually/physically and emotionally to only guys. You just seem to have a few little "crushes" (That's a horrible word, I know) on guys. To me it really sounds meaningless, it's just a normal part of puberty and growing up.

[tyler1993football]

you are not gay

[charlie3322]

im thinkin bi

[TAC1]

Well, you said that you are sexually attracted to guys. To be bisexual, you are both sexually and mentally attracted to both guys/girls. Therefore, at the moment, you are curious; if you are bi, you will eventually become mentally/emotionally attracted to guys.

[Carter]

Dude... I totally feel the same way. And the worst part about it for me, I "think" about some of my closest friends. I figured if they knew, they would treat me slightly different.

[rzz1993]

I would classify you as curious sirr.

[StraightAcE]

i think you're bi

[Alex17]

Yup ur bi. I struggle with the same problem. Boys that are late bloomers or less developed than me really turn me on. Now me being 17, I can't and wouldn't do anything with a not that young because that's considered abuse and I actually think it's morally wrong. I try to stick to boys around my age.

[Eltoro123]

Yea dude if u like dem den no big deal.u decide wat u r

[Hoshwaa]

People should stop saying, "yeah you're bi" because you have no clue of what they really are. Fair enough to the one's saying "I think you might be", because thats just opinion, and thats what he's asked for. Only he can know what he really is, and for most boys his age thats going to be a near impossible task. I have the exact same feelings as he does, only liking the late bloomers, but that doesn't make me anything.

In my opinion, I think that, like most boys, you are probably curious. However, this could simply be a phase, or just your hromones are raging. Give it time, you've still got alot of puberty to get through, and it could go either way. It could simply be a phase, or something more. But at the moment don't worry. only yyou can know what you are, and in a few years, you probaby will know.

[Fiction]

I had a very big crush on this one girl about 2 years ago. She was more masculine than most girls. I haven't had a crush on a girl since and i have had many on boys. I'm thinking that only time will tell for you :)

[CrissCross]

just go with ur feelings