is this love?

[Kelsie]

would you give up your life for love?

[haibekah]

how can you be in love, if you're dead? in a sense, saying that you would die for someone could be love. i don't think that it's a very good way to show that you love someone. you can't love someone if you're dead.

[Mr. Smithers]

What do you mean by life? Like give up my lifestyle, or actually give up life like die?

Well the answer to the first question is yes, depends on the person, the second, well if he was Jesus then yeah probably.

[Evermore]

Death is a stupid way to show love. Do you really think that person would prefer you dead rather then alive? If so, they aren't worth loving. Death is the end(unless you have otherwise religious beliefs)There are no do-overs. Romeo and Juliet may sound romantic to some but to me and several others it's stupid. Juliet fakes death, and because romeo thinks she's dead he kills himself. When she wakes up to his dead body she kills herself(only literally this time)? To me it sounds like an overly dramatic misunderstanding. Enjoy life while you can, it is possible. Even without romantic love.

[Kelsie]

what if the only person that really mattered to you died? would you be so depressed that you would take your life? my boyfriend is actually like this because if it wasn't for me he would be dead. i'm the only thing he's got left to live for. :(

[haibekah]

what if the only person that really mattered to you died? would you be so depressed that you would take your life? my boyfriend is actually like this because if it wasn't for me he would be dead. i'm the only thing he's got left to live for. :(


my dad killed himself. it was just me and him. i was the only thing he had, and he died. i didn't go out and kill myself to be with him, or my mom for that matter.

[Evermore]

what if the only person that really mattered to you died? would you be so depressed that you would take your life? my boyfriend is actually like this because if it wasn't for me he would be dead. i'm the only thing he's got left to live for. :(

No matter how much your life sucks. It's not worth dieing over. He has more to live for then just you. Show him that by taking place in activities. School Band, Karate, Girl Scouts, whatever. Once he sees your busy he'll make himself busy too. But make sure not to push him away. If he's suicidal like you say he is. Then make sure to stress that your relationship is perfect. Just that you do have a life and it's not completely revolving around him. Soon he'll do the same(get some activities), make some friends, and he'll realize he has more to live for then just you and if you were to die, move, or dump him. He'd still be sad but he wouldn't have to kill himself.

[Kelsie]

yeah but the problem is that my life does revolve around him. he's the only one who's made me feel special. in a weird way, i saved his life. i'm the only person who has ever loved him... he did have other girlfriends but all those girls did was lie and cheat. his family are dicks and his friends are mean to him. he almost killed himself about a year ago before he met me. all he ever wanted was to mean something, to be loved. he wont kill himself if i break up with him, he'll just tell himself there's someone better out there... but if i die, he told me he would never love again... and he would die. nothing in his life matters more than me... this saddens me cause he means so much to me. i dont want him to ever die.

[Mr. Smithers]

Yeah I had a ex boyfriend that was like that. Then I realized, he's just a guy when you think about it. Guess what, I met and loved an even better guy so I was right.

[Kelsie]

Yeah I had a ex boyfriend that was like that. Then I realized, he's just a guy when you think about it. Guess what, I met and loved an even better guy so I was right.

yeah but i really don't think I'll find a better guy. everything about him is perfect in my eyes. he thinks just like me and that's something rare. I dont want anyone else. i'm happy that i have him. :)

[haibekah]

it's good that you're happy to have him. but there are plenty of fish in the sea. you're still a teenager though, so by the time you're out of your teen years what you see in a guy may be completely different then how you feel now. don't think that one guy is the be all and end all of your existance. there's a whole world out there.

[Kelsie]

it's good that you're happy to have him. but there are plenty of fish in the sea. you're still a teenager though, so by the time you're out of your teen years what you see in a guy may be completely different then how you feel now. don't think that one guy is the be all and end all of your existance. there's a whole world out there.

i know i'm still a teenager but i only have about a year and three months until I'm an adult. this boy is actually older than me. he's 21. i know most people would think i'm stupid for going out with a 21 year old when i'm 16 but i don't really care. age doesn't matter when it comes to love. what matters is the law which wont matter once i'm 18. and my ideal guy has been the same since i was little so i dont think my feelings for him will change. i dont get bored of people.

[haibekah]

i dated a guy from 14-17. i mean, i have his baby ffs. i know you don't think you'll get bored of him, and you might not, but don't be suprised if you cange a shitload in the next couple years. i did. i'm totally a different person compared to when i first started dating him.

i'm not trying to tell you to not be with him, i just sharing some of my experience.
:]

[Kelsie]

i dated a guy from 14-17. i mean, i have his baby ffs. i know you don't think you'll get bored of him, and you might not, but don't be suprised if you cange a shitload in the next couple years. i did. i'm totally a different person compared to when i first started dating him.

i'm not trying to tell you to not be with him, i just sharing some of my experience.
:]


thank you for sharing that :)