I cant think of a better topic name.

[Daedelus]

Ever since i can remember.
I have had problems with the gender i am.
For years and years, i had just buried the fact that i do not feel like a Male.
Until i met my current girlfriend, she is beautiful, and i do, love her very much.

She is the first person i have talked to about this.
Since we got together, i hadn't really felt bad about being biologically male, it felt good to be able to connect with someone, on such a level. That was until i heard of Kim Petras.

http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_5s67MJWOeAg/SyAibA16I6I/AAAAAAAAB70/11Cdo5YkyOc/s400/kim-petras-2.jpg

She was born a Male, yet she is one of the most gorgeous females i have ever seen, after seeing this picture, i began to spiral back into depression, and im not sure what i will do, as this could ruin the only thing in my life i have been truely happy about.
If i were to lose my girlfriend, i would have no support, i rely on that support, as i have tried to commit suicide before, only to have been found in time.

I'm just really not sure what to do..
I beleive these feelings will ultimately destroy me in the end.

[anime Freak]

well when you get old enough i would just get the procedure done, two make you what you what to be.... it is your life live it the way you want to live it

[jess_undead]

If you truly feel like a female, then that's what you should become.
There are many forums and websites that support people who feel like this.
You're not the only one and you'l feel happier if you do follow your dream.
Think about it alot, make sure it's definitely what you want, then when you feel the time is right, sit the important people and discuss it with them.
It might come as a shock to them first, but if they truly care for you, theyl come around and support you anyway. Just give it some time. Good luck.

[CuriousDestruction]

i have a few transgendered friends who live full and happy lives now. they don't regret their decisions at all and most have come to the conclusion that the people that truly love them understand their decision. i say the same thing to you. the people that truly love you, will understand if you choose to become biologically female. however i don't encourage you to make the decision quickly. nor will any doctors. for now i recommend you try wearing more feminine clothing and perhaps go to your doctors to ask about trying some estrogen. see how that feels and if it's you, great! if not, maybe you should reconsider. i hope you find some form of peace with this. PM me if you wanna talk about it.

[2D]

If you feel the same way in 10 years then go ahead with it.

[Ryhanna]

I believe that everything happens for a reason... and you were born male for a reason. Yet, you feel this way for a reason. Destiny, my friend. You create it yourself.

You have 3 obvious choices:
1: Stay the way you are and pretend you don't feel this way and hope the feeling changes.
2: Think of yourself as a woman/man (cross dressing, I suppose..)
3. Become a woman. It's your life, and what happens happens fora reason. But you chose the reason.

[Zephyr]

Interesting you bring this up.

There's this guy named Stephen in a couple of my college classes this term. He's a male by all means, except he dresses like a teenage girl. Skirts, uggs, tights, makeup, everything. Despite the fact that he's balding, he still dresses like this. Now for part two: he's happily married to a woman and has two children. Normal guy by all means, he's smart, funny and really nice. He's very secure about who he is, and everybody seems to understand that, and I haven't heard of anybody harassing him.

You never said anything about homosexuality, and that you love your girlfriend very much, so I'm assuming for the time being that you're straight, correct me if I'm wrong. But it is possible to want to be in touch with your feminine side and still be a male. It's considered psychologically deviant, yes, but it doesn't mean that you can't be happy.

You mentioned that you've told your girlfriend about these feelings before. Why don't you try talking it over with her again? If she's been able to accept these feelings of yours before, then why not now? I'm sure she'll bu supportive still, and glad to support you through this.

You can always try talking to a therapist about these kind of things, cross-dressing and trans-genders are something that they had to learn about when getting their degrees. You can look them up in your area and see if anybody specializes in it, that always helps. Just remember that you don't have to go through the depression and these feelings alone hun, there's always somebody out there who can and will help you and be supportive :)

After a long period of consideration, decide what you want to do. Think over it carefully. Stay as you are, get the transgender operation, cross-dress... you have options. Make sure of how you truly feel down the road and do what makes you happy.

[ashleighhxbby]

awww, i dont really know what to say /: