Taking It To The Girls (:

[Squisheee]

Scenario, Im at the mall.
I see a cute girl, I want to approach her BUT OHYEAH.
What if shes straight?
So lets just say I go up to her and "lay the cards on the table"
and get flushed :(
In other words I try to flirt and get her number.
She has a spaz attack.
There I am, no number and completely humiliated.
Okay, So maybe Im not humiliated, but just down.

So my question is, can you ever really tell if a girl is Bi/Les?
No Im NOT going to go up to her and ask her.
Anyone care to help?

PS.
My Brain Is Happily In A Pretzel .. YUM! :yummy:

[Mal]

Nope, you can't really tell if a girl is bi/les. Well, you can if she's with her girlfriend, but you probably don't want to go flirt with her in that case.

Apparently most places have local lesbian/gay groups nearby or something, never had any experience with that though so I'll let someone who actually knows what they're talking about tell you about it.

[DoveGreySands]

I myself have never found out a way, i mean there isn't exactly a sign about our heads saying bi or gay is there? lol. Most of us, particularly bi's, dress up just like straight girls so there's always going to be an unfortunate time when you get turned down due to sexual preferences. It's just something we have to live with i'm afraid. Unless we could sell something which made it known you were bi and looking, that'd be big bucks... :)

[hanson123]

Go for it. You don't know her you don't know her? Worst that could happen is she says im not lezbian and you return back. who cares if she shuts ya down, because its worth the risk. Without taking the risk how are you ever going to find that special someone? you never know she could be Lezbian to and you and her might end up having a long lasting great realtionship. You know? :)

[vic203140]

go for it. You don't know her you don't know her? Worst that could happen is she says im not lezbian and you return back. Who cares if she shuts ya down, because its worth the risk. Without taking the risk how are you ever going to find that special someone? You never know she could be lezbian to and you and her might end up having a long lasting great realtionship. You know? :)

i totaly agree thats how i do it win sum loose sum