What do I do??

[Soapstud]

I am 14 with a small dick. Maybe 3 1/2". Here is the thing, I have dated but have not gone too far cause of my erect penis size And I like girls, but the only thing that gets me really horny is gay porn. I dong know why. Just watching girls strip doesn't work. I am sure that I would never do anything sexual gay things but I do watch it. Should I refrain from gay porn or.... PLEASE HELP!

[Jay.]

You shouldn't deny the feelings it'll just give you problems. Just try a guy one time & if you like it, keep doing it. If you don't, don't do it anymore.

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

:arrow: P101

[zacharooo]

Let me tell you from experience, I have been through the same exact stuff. I have to tell you this. If you are feeling bad because you are getting horny over gay porn, try not to feel bad because what it did for me was put me through a year of straight depression. It may or may not be natural feelings but I believe the best thing is to just see where that takes you. I really do.

[nick]

It seems to me that you have two different questions here:

1. should you hold off on sexual experience because you're embarassed about your size?

That's up to you. I wouldnt worry about your size, your 14, plenty of time for it to grow. In the mean time if you feel under pressure to do something and you dont feel comfortable with the idea just say that you dont feel ready for that yet.

2. does your reaction to gay porn indicate that you are gay ?

No, not necessarily. Lots of straight guys enjoy watching gay porn. The experience of watching a porn vid is nothing like the experience of being in a real life intimate situation, your reactions might be completely different.

[enzenzz]

I think your only fantasizing about being the guy with the big penis than actually wanting to have sexual relations with a guy.

As for your girl problems, you either have to wait until you grow older or try your luck and find a girl who loves you for you and not what you carry behind your underwear.

[chrisB463]

My opinion is that your just curious about other males. Its normal. Why dont you try it with a guy once and see what its like.

[Giles]

Penis problems: Having a small penis at 14 is not bad at all, everyone develops at different speeds. You might be really hairy, or have a deep voice before/if you get a large penis.

Gay porn: Watching gay porn and getting aroused doesn't make you gay. You might just be curious about the other guys. If you have feelings as well as a sexual attraction towards guys then you could be gay/bi.

[charlie3322]

thts how i started finding out i was gay.

[Bekah Likes Chatting]

I like small dicks not just big dicks. Size doesn't matter, just how you use it ;)

[ray8806]

Yea I have watched gay porn too. I found out that it isn't the fact that they are gay and having gay sex or much of the fact that they are guys. It is just the fact that they seem more into it than straight porn. Most of straight porn it too fake for me.

As for the penis size thing. Dude, your only 14. Sex shouldn't even be considered...okay well we are guys, so it will be considered. But it shouldn't get that far. Your penis will grow. From when I was 14, and I am a month from 16 now. It has grown a pretty good bit, and I still have a little puberty left in me. So don't fret about it.

[BlackBetty]

I like small dicks not just big dicks. Size doesn't matter, just how you use it ;)

A girl just answered your penis question!! :)

Just because you watch gay porn doesn't mean anything about being gay. If you have emotional feeling to a guy then you may be gay/bi. But, since we are not in your body we cannot tell you what do and don't like.:D

[Soapstud]

Thanks everyone. I didnt think anyone would actually understand.:D

[hiker1992]

For the topic of you feeling insecure about your size, I'd say don't worry about it. Obviously you're probably not going to do that, but really, you will grow. Right up until you're around 21, in fact! You have a lot to look forward to, and really when it comes to girls, if you treat them well enough, and actually make sex more than just a physical experience, size won't matter. It's been said before, and it's because it's true: "It's not how big it is, but how you use it."

On the topic of your getting aroused by gay porn, I'd say don't worry about that, as well. Haha, again, it's gonna be tough, I know, but it's really common for straight guys to be turned on by that sort of thing. One of the most common reasons behind that, in my experience, is because they say that guys in gay porn seem SO much more passionate, that there's an actual emotion, and it doesn't seem as fake as girls do. That's probably because it's a lot easier to get a guy off than a girl, but regardless, it's because gay porn is probably a little more passionate and emotionally intense than straight porn, which, believe me, is something any man would take an interest in. If you're truly confused about your sexuality, I'd say give it a while! You're young, you have raging hormones that cause your emotional state to fluctuate, as well as your sexual drive. You're gonna get horny over a lot of things you wouldn't normally, it's just part of life. It's kind of cliche, but again, it's true! It seems like everything right now is gonna last forever... that you'll always feel insecure, or that you'll always be confused, but the truth is when you grow, your mind grows. You mature, and you grow up in more ways than one. Soon enough, you'll realize and accept who you are, for all of your flaws and shortcomings, and when that happens, it'll be a hell of a lot easier for the rest of the world to accept them as well. ;)

[socaldude127]

Dude you're only 14, for both penis size and exploration, you have time to grow. Now are the years for you to explore. I did the exact same thing at your age and I'm really happy with who I am. It's just part of growing up. See where life takes you.

[StraightAcE]

dont deny it or you'll never be satisfied

[Ham32bino]

Don't worry about your size because you are young and will grow much more.

[MarshallManiac10]

when you are 14 ur hormones are going crazy. looking at anyone involved in a sexual act will cause ur body to react... my one piece of advice is dont let your penis choose who you are attracted to... its not some sorta signal... its a reaction to wat you see.

[Eltoro123]

YEA.IM BI BUT IVE ONLY DATED GRL SINCE IM IN THE CLOST .BUT I RATHER WATCH GAY PORN..BUT DONT STOP WATCHIN JST CUZ.IF IT MAKES U FEEL GOOD KEEP WATCHIN..IF U NEED TO TALK [email protected]

[gone]

Give in to the temptation, give it a try

you could very well be gay.

[BigBulge]

many str8 boys, myself included, get horniest watching gay porn, no matter how disgusted we may be by it