Asilentsuicide
January 10th, 2010, 01:58 PM
firstly i apologise if i have posted this in the wrong place but o well, o and i also would ask you to forgive my spelling if i spell things wrong for i tend to but this isn't the point.
I have been seeing this gurl for 2 yrs and we have had sex and we have been really close lately. But a a little ago at a party we both got a bit tipsy and decided we would have unprotected sex. Well after she stayed at mine for a week or so but when she went home she panicked. she called me at quater toi midnight and told me she needs me to go and see her. my parents are really laid back and i go out when i want. so i got dressed and went straight to hers. i knocked on the door and she opened it in tears, she just collapsed into me, so i carried her back into her house. she took a good 20mins to calm down enough to tell me what was wrong. she looked at me and told me that she was scared, i looked confused and tol her what ever it is i will help her, so she tells me she is pregnant. this shocks me a little, it was out of character for her to cry over something like this, she loves children and many times she has told me she wanted one and we have spoken about having children. so i asked her what she wants to do. she told me that she wants to keep it but she also said that if her dad found out she would be on the streets and never aloud to see her little brothers again. i told her no matter what she has always got a place at mine, for how ever long she needs it. but she is also so close to her younger brothers and after their mum died she kindof raised them. i told her that it is her choice wat she does and that i will support her with whatever choice she makes.
she calms a little andcomes over to mine the next day. she asks me what i want to do, i told her i think she should keep it because she wants to and to be honest it is something i want to do in my life to, she looks at me and cries. i ask her what the matter is and she says she told her dad she was pregnant after he over heard our convo the prevois night and she told me he hit her. so i told her to come and stay with me for a while so she does. a week after that everything is going great until my mum calls from france. and Tammy (my girlfriend) walks in just as she hears me tell my mum i miss her. tam gets the wrong idea and she stormed out of the house anddidnt come back and tlk to me until a week after. she told me she is keeping the child but she doesn't know if she is keeping me. so i told her about the call and she cried agen and told me she was sorry i told her sh doesn't need to be sorry.
so i think things are going well btween us but she keeps having these horrid mood swings, i am doing everything i can for her, but i can't stop worrying
anyone no what i should do that could help more or anything i could say to comfort her?
I have been seeing this gurl for 2 yrs and we have had sex and we have been really close lately. But a a little ago at a party we both got a bit tipsy and decided we would have unprotected sex. Well after she stayed at mine for a week or so but when she went home she panicked. she called me at quater toi midnight and told me she needs me to go and see her. my parents are really laid back and i go out when i want. so i got dressed and went straight to hers. i knocked on the door and she opened it in tears, she just collapsed into me, so i carried her back into her house. she took a good 20mins to calm down enough to tell me what was wrong. she looked at me and told me that she was scared, i looked confused and tol her what ever it is i will help her, so she tells me she is pregnant. this shocks me a little, it was out of character for her to cry over something like this, she loves children and many times she has told me she wanted one and we have spoken about having children. so i asked her what she wants to do. she told me that she wants to keep it but she also said that if her dad found out she would be on the streets and never aloud to see her little brothers again. i told her no matter what she has always got a place at mine, for how ever long she needs it. but she is also so close to her younger brothers and after their mum died she kindof raised them. i told her that it is her choice wat she does and that i will support her with whatever choice she makes.
she calms a little andcomes over to mine the next day. she asks me what i want to do, i told her i think she should keep it because she wants to and to be honest it is something i want to do in my life to, she looks at me and cries. i ask her what the matter is and she says she told her dad she was pregnant after he over heard our convo the prevois night and she told me he hit her. so i told her to come and stay with me for a while so she does. a week after that everything is going great until my mum calls from france. and Tammy (my girlfriend) walks in just as she hears me tell my mum i miss her. tam gets the wrong idea and she stormed out of the house anddidnt come back and tlk to me until a week after. she told me she is keeping the child but she doesn't know if she is keeping me. so i told her about the call and she cried agen and told me she was sorry i told her sh doesn't need to be sorry.
so i think things are going well btween us but she keeps having these horrid mood swings, i am doing everything i can for her, but i can't stop worrying
anyone no what i should do that could help more or anything i could say to comfort her?