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Modus Operandi
January 9th, 2010, 04:42 PM
My ex and I broke up on peaceful terms, we just weren't talking much, etc.

Her friend got dumped around the same time and was hurt badly emotionally by her ex. There were signs that my ex and her ex liked each other for awhile, and they just recently started going out.

I was just wanting a few outside opinions on this situation. Not: "No, that's not right". I know that. Just how to handle this situation. Not for me, I'm being passive about it, but for my ex's friend.

Rutherford The Brave
January 9th, 2010, 05:51 PM
These days boys will think with their penises. It is a sadly reality.

maddii-may
January 10th, 2010, 07:16 AM
i guess its up to them what they do but people will do crazy things for someone they love! personly i think its sorta wrong to do that straight away but but im the future when she has got over them its fine but not like that

zoom zoom
January 10th, 2010, 10:49 PM
ouch well i know how you feel. umm before i moved to where i live now i had a Ex and when i was moving i asked if this could work out as a long relationship. and she said no so it kinda hurt, but we went on peace terms. so the last week i was at school. she was making me look like the bad guy and making me sound like i didnt want it to work anymore. so in stead you started to date my best friend a week later. not fun but i live far away from her so im safe. so i hope you can work with it. because what i think she did was pretty low but i find girls sometimes move on faster then guys do. and for the girls that might read this i hope you dont take any offense to that .

Soccer Girl 13
January 11th, 2010, 01:44 AM
Justin, No offence taken. But yes its true, not for all girls tho. Some girls find it harder to move on than others.
And that was pretty low what they did, but it seems to me they were 'IN LOVE' for a while. Sorry mate, hope your ok.

maddii-may
January 11th, 2010, 07:01 AM
being a girl i no that depending on why we broke up and stuff when someone did that to me i found it hard as my boyfriend thought it would be good to get back at me maybe she doing that ?

Modus Operandi
January 11th, 2010, 04:10 PM
Just to clear things up, I'M fine, it's my ex's friend I'm worried about. She took it pretty hard.