breaking up

[Argonautica1]

im sure there have been plenty of these posts but i dont have the energy to search for them. my boyfriend of over a year broke up with my today becuase he wanted a chage of things. and it sorta shocked me becuase thingshad been going really well, or so i thought. do any of you have any tips for coping with this becuase it really broke my heart. please help.

[Glasgow]

Aww, sorry to hear that. I see you are gay, so that changes everything. This probably wasnt a typical breakup, my friend who is gay, his bf broke up with him because he was goin through some problems, u goin through any problems?

Second, i think you should do some serious thinking. Why did he break up with you? Think about it, and then just try to forget about it if u can. Good luck

[Argonautica1]

yeh i have been going through alot of problem at home and socially. he said he got tired of them and of me. and he was my first serious relationship. so im really sad and i dont know what to do becuase it every wher ei look something remind me of him

[Argonautica1]

I'm sorry that the break-up happened
But don't sweat him.[/QUOTE]

i know you are right its jsut hard and lfie seems different now and not sure what to do. i was probably pretty dumb to build my life around it, and things came falling down around me. so i guess its the grief that i need adivce on coping with.

[MoveAlong]

:hug: it's ok!
You can cope with it. Concentrate on other activities. You don't nessisarily HAVE to find a new boyfriend right now! Come and post with us! I love VT : )

he said he got tired of them and of me
You don't need to put up with that. If he said that, he is good as gone. YOU shouldn't have to put up with somebody that mean.
Keep posting here and tell us how it's all going for you. : )

*~Donnie\))