why dont boys understand girls feelings

[maddii-may]

why is it that nearly all the guys have been with or know dont undersatnd how i feel. like this one guy imparticualer we broke in november 2009 and yesterday i told how i felt about him but he doesnt want anything to do with me but idont understand why he nos how i feel and my friend think that he is listening to is mates not him and i dont no what to do as he is making me feel really down. it makes me really annoyed:mad::(:mad:

[StraightAcE]

peer pressure, but maybe he does has some feelings towards you but then he doesnt want to embarrass himself infront of his friends

[Rutherford The Brave]

why is it that nearly all the guys have been with or know dont undersatnd how i feel. like this one guy imparticualer we broke in november 2009 and yesterday i told how i felt about him but he doesnt want anything to do with me but idont understand why he nos how i feel and my friend think that he is listening to is mates not him and i dont no what to do as he is making me feel really down. it makes me really annoyed:mad::(:mad:

Not all guys do not understand how girls feel. Why dont you take a moment and reread your paragraph. You broke up with him, and you wonder why he doesnt want to talk to you. Why are you annoyed? He has every reason to be upset, you however, well I do not see your reason why.

[Quick_Sylver]

You hurt his ego, so he's now punishing you.

[alex95]

i understand all girls feelings... not all guys are like that..

[The Batman]

P101 :arrow: Relationships and Dating.

[Bougainvillea]

You hurt his feelings, and pushed him away. It's not that he doesn't understand. He doesn't care. He moved on. He's stopped mourning over you, and moved on. You didn't want to be with him, and he understood.
It's time for you to move on. He won't just take you back immediately.

Sorry for being blunt.

[nick]

You hurt his ego, so he's now punishing you.
Well that could be true, but then again you could have really hurt him if he really loved you. If you really hurt someone they dont want to take the risk that you might do it again.

[Kaius]

Not all guys do not understand how girls feel. Why dont you take a moment and reread your paragraph. You broke up with him, and you wonder why he doesnt want to talk to you. Why are you annoyed? He has every reason to be upset, you however, well I do not see your reason why.

Gregs right, Also hes probably moved on to other things and different people.

[Sapphire]

I think this is more a case of you not understanding his feelings, rather than him not understanding yours.
Just because you have told him that you still like him, doesn't mean that he has to (or will) reciprocate these feelings. He has that right and you have to respect that.

[XxHaViiK]

You broke up with him, and now you wonder why he won't talk? That should be common sense.

[maddii-may]

i no most of that but the thing is he still loooks at me in the same way and when we talk he always wants to go on cam and stuff ?? im confused about is nd mine tbh alex i no you doo

[Sapphire]

Maybe he doesn't want to risk you hurting him again.
Maybe he is confused about what to do.

The ball is in his side of the court and all you can do is wait to see what his next move is.

[maddii-may]

he knows i wont hurt him again as i told him that

[Sapphire]

Look, just because you have told him X, Y and Z doesn't mean that everything will magically fall into place again.

There is more going on here than what you are thinking, feeling and promising. He will have his own thoughts and feelings about everything that's happened too. You have done all you can for now. The rest is up to him and so you have to be patient.

[maddii-may]

yepp i will try too be

[Modus Operandi]

What you have to realize is that he may be more sensetive than you thought. You may have hurt him and not even known it. He may not say it because it would be embarassing for him to show he's hurt.

And for your original question, sometimes girls don't make it terribly clear how they feel, and not all boys can read subtle hints and signals.

[Jst_me]

I'm a guy and it's true i don't understand how a girl feels.
But when was the last time a girl "try" to know how i felt?
I haven't had a crush in like 5 years? and i haven't even had a girlfriend in my life. U can call me a "coward" or w/e but we guys have feeling too you know ^_~

[maddii-may]

i no guys have feelings but it hard to explain what i mean

[kenoloor]

i understand all girls feelings... not all guys are like that..

I'm sorry, but this made me laugh. I don't mean to go all Mariah Carey on ya, but it's impossible to 'understand all girls feelings.' Some girls don't even understand all their feelings, much less the opposite gender that 'understands' them. No.

And I agree with Gregory when they said that YOU broke up with him, so of course he's feeling upset and doesn't 'want anything to do with you.'

[DoveGreySands]

I'm going to agree with ocean challenger on this one. You broke up with him, you broke his heart, so it's only right that he won't get back with you. If you want boys to understand your feelings, you have to be respective of theirs.

[maddii-may]

you dont get i broke with him because HE HURT ME . thats why we broke up and i do repsect his feelings he nos that

[maddii-may]

yeaa i mean he wanted a proper realsonship so did i

[maddii-may]

yeaa xx thanks

[The Joker]

How did he hurt you?

[maddii-may]

he was being a twat flirting with my best mates and having a go at me say i had changed and stuff and it really hurt me

[Hoppy2429]

Just because you've had a bad experience with one guy, don't go saying "all" guys don't understand girls, because obviously that's not true.
Don't tarnish us all with the same brush.

[maddii-may]

i no all boys are diifernt it just seems all the guys in my school are the same

[Evermore]

The ones that do understand you won't touch. You want a bad boy and a bad boy is what you get. There are a few guys far and between that you won't touch because they're too nerdy, young, look like a fag, hang out with this person, or whatever. They're usually the one's that'll treat you like a princess and understand you're feelings they're the ones that you break they're heart and leave them in the dust because you want more excitement. Try to get past looks and look for the shy guys.

[maddii-may]

i no looks dont matter but he broke my heart as well its all very complicated

[Evermore]

i no looks dont matter but he broke my heart as well its all very complicated

First learn how to spell, Second, if it's one specific guy why are you saying that all guys are like that?

[maddii-may]

one im dislexic two most are

[2D]

one im dislexic two most are

Okay, one that's a setback not an excuse.

And two, you're not going to have good luck with guys if you already presume that most are assholes.

[maddii-may]

i dont just most off the guys in my school are and i no that from my mates dates with them nd stuff

[Rutherford The Brave]

i dont just most off the guys in my school are and i no that from my mates dates with them nd stuff

Something isn't right here.

[maddii-may]

what do you mean

[Rutherford The Brave]

You said that you do not think that most guys are assholes but most of them. There really is no change your just labeling the majority as assholes because you dislike them

[maddii-may]

i no what i mean i cant explain most of them in my SCHOOL are

[Rutherford The Brave]

i no what i mean i cant explain most of them in my SCHOOL are

I reiterate your just labeling the majority of males as assholes.

[maddii-may]

im confused and i never called them that x

[Rutherford The Brave]

Okay, one that's a setback not an excuse.

And two, you're not going to have good luck with guys if you already presume that most are assholes.

i dont just most off the guys in my school are and i no that from my mates dates with them nd stuff

stated in this post as a response

[maddii-may]

but its the truth most in our skl our

[Rutherford The Brave]

To you yes, to others probably not. Just because you say they are doesnt mean they actually are.

[Evermore]

Go for the quiet ones the ones that don't radiate meanness. The reason you see no one but jerks is 1. You're going through something so your grouping all guys into one group, and 2. You're going for, the popular, loud, cool guys that radiate confidence. Go for the quiet guys they're usually nicer.

[maddii-may]

not popular boys

[Evermore]

You really need to give more information that. I have no idea if thats supposed to be an argument or not?

[maddii-may]

im confused

[SadAngel]

It depends who broke up with who? him or you? if it's him I would say he's not interested,doesn't care,moved on,found someone else maybe and moved on If it was you that broke up with him then he probably moved on already and doesn't want get another heart broken with you ever again best to leave him alone and join the group with all the other girls who lost there lovers and takes one step at a time to just move on and learn to let go. We all have to let go sometimes in life. If he doesn't want give you another chance or he doesn't want be with you ever again it's his loss at least you express yourself to him about your feelings. Guys move on quickly and girls just come along wanting them back saying how much they miss erm when really they let go already and now the answer is always there in front of you saying Move on it's for the best you're not the only one who's been through losing someone and has there heart broken. Wish you the best

Edit- I don't think it's about the feeling's he doesn't understand I just don't think his heart is just not in it for you and he doesn't care anymore.

[Saosin]

i no most of that but the thing is he still loooks at me in the same way and when we talk he always wants to go on cam and stuff ?? im confused about is nd mine tbh alex i no you doo

Just because he might be sexually attracted to you doesn't mean he wants you back... Those are two separate feelings.

[bambino]

Just because he might be sexually attracted to you doesn't mean he wants you back... Those are two separate feelings.

this is true. It'll take you a while to learn, but you can't be careless with someone elses heart- eventually it'll bite you in the ass when they hurt you. Take it from someone with experience. You get out what you put in, be kind to people especially the people you love.


guys dont always understand girls, girls don't always understand guys. Humans don't always understand each other. That's life.

[Ambrosia]

Please don't bump old threads! =) :locked: