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iamniokekun
January 9th, 2010, 06:25 AM
okay so 4 some unknown reason my mom walked in my room 'cause she wanted to talk to me and my older bro about sex. But she wants 2 ask the weirdest questions like, how big are you guys? are you guys sexually active?*who the hell says that anymore anyway*..how often do we masturbate? the list goes on.
she said we're gonna have some flippin' truth circle and discuss it. I don't wanna.
whaddo i du??? :/

nick
January 9th, 2010, 06:40 AM
That is pretty wierd to my way of thinking, if I was in your position I would want to say "Sorry, but those things are private and I dont want to talk about it".

I can understand her being a bit curious about whether you're sexually active, but to ask about your size or how often you masturbate is just plain nosey, embarassing and none of her business,

CairAndros
January 9th, 2010, 07:44 AM
I agree with Nick. If you feel uncomfortable talking about such things then say to her that is the case. Also, talk to your brother about it cause chances are he will be thinking the same as you about it and if he is then you can both go to your mum and go "look, we don't feel comfortable doing this and we really don't want to answer some of the questions".

enzenzz
January 9th, 2010, 08:22 AM
Lie. Or give her the answers she wants to hear. The questions about the size are a little weird coming from your mother, you may either just tell her that you don't know and don't care or just tell her to stop with the inappropriate questions.

I don't know how open your family is but if you don't want to answer just tell her.

scuba steve
January 9th, 2010, 08:26 AM
i see it as a complete breach of your privacy and is a very delicate topic that even parents are not alowed to tread accross, so if i was in your shoes i would say to your mother that she has no right to do this and that this truth circle sounds rather perverted and i would encourage your brother to say the same

Giles
January 9th, 2010, 08:50 AM
Lie. Or give her the answers she wants to hear. The questions about the size are a little weird coming from your mother, you may either just tell her that you don't know and don't care or just tell her to stop with the inappropriate questions.

I don't know how open your family is but if you don't want to answer just tell her.

Don't lie. Not about this kind of thing, and definitely not to your parents..
Just check with your brother if he is ok answering the questions, if he is then either go along with him. Or just tell her that you don't want to talk about it.

If your brother also doesn't want to talk about that kinda thing then both of you go together, that way you'll have a stronger argument.

oakleighboy
January 9th, 2010, 08:58 AM
id tell her to puck off and find a forum :)

maddii-may
January 9th, 2010, 09:28 AM
its really werid but i guess she is just worried about you i mean she must care but dont say anything you dont want to if you dont want to tell then dont. she might just feel like she needs to no so she can protect you if that makes sense. but dont be presureized into anything:)

Shineforlife
January 9th, 2010, 09:33 AM
Tell your mother that you have learnt all of the issues that she has brought up whether you got it from school or general information from hospitals. Tell her you are concerned about these issues and you have full understanding of it and you know what is happening around it. That way she'll think you're smart and well prepared lol and she'll stop bothering you.

BigBulge
January 9th, 2010, 10:48 AM
Tell her she shouldn't put you into that kind of situation.

thrust of trust
January 9th, 2010, 11:39 AM
why does mom wanna know your dick size? not something my parents would ask.

XxHaViiK
January 9th, 2010, 11:53 AM
I could understand her asking if you masturbate, and if you're sexually active. But size is really none of her business.

BlackBetty
January 9th, 2010, 11:57 AM
Just see what your brother has to allow about his POV and see if it is the same as yours.

iamniokekun
January 29th, 2010, 02:13 AM
I managed to avoid the talk about it, but i showed my bro the forum and stuff. He says he wont - especially not with mom. Flippin' gross

dantheman5000
January 29th, 2010, 11:32 AM
well your mom loves you enough to care about it your sexually active because shes a mom. but the masturbation thing and all that just tell her mom i love you but that stuff is way to personal and i dont want to share it with you. nor dad.

cody2010
January 29th, 2010, 11:44 AM
i too agree with nick. this is no ones business but your own. if my mother started to ask me these questions, i'd just tell her how weird it was for me to answer these questions.

Severus Snape
January 29th, 2010, 05:52 PM
1. Stand up.

2. Walk out

3. Scrub the insides of your ears with a sponge

Pudd
January 29th, 2010, 06:48 PM
deny everything

curiousteen
January 29th, 2010, 08:29 PM
my mom did something like that we were watching tv then it was a commercial and she ask if i were a virgin and i said yes(which i am) and the she said i masterbate and i froze and said not rite now but iys up to u and some stuff needs to be private

Salvi
January 29th, 2010, 08:55 PM
You should just tell her you're not comfortable talking about it. my mom tried to ask me that and I told her I wasn't comfortable and she let it go

StraightAcE
January 29th, 2010, 10:13 PM
its your choice to say what u wan
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Hollywood
January 29th, 2010, 11:40 PM
thats invading ur privacy

just tell her "no, thats my business, not yours"

Freshprince
February 17th, 2010, 09:16 PM
Thatsis kinda weird u should tell her that u want to keep it to urself not telle everyone about it.

sportsguy1997
February 17th, 2010, 09:44 PM
Looks like she is gunna ask until this talk happends!!! The more u answer the more u will become comfortable. My parents ask me questions all the time!!
hahahaha, do our parents know each other???:wub:

agentv
February 24th, 2010, 07:34 PM
just go along with it. it is parents being parents

jojo11282
March 25th, 2010, 02:22 PM
welll about this it is uncomfortable but mabey like with the whole thing about size she probly thinks u guys might be unsure about if u have a normal size and asked u both at the same time becuase she wanted u both to feel it was near to normal and i tottaly agree about her asking about the sexually active moms worry about stuff like that, and then the subject if she you guys and the whole how often do u masterbate thing well its gross but i get where she is cummin from (no pun intended but i am to lazy to fix it u kno waht i will fix it just get off my back comming) (also no pun intended) she is like asking u becuase if u masterbate alot that shows alonesss and meeknesss statistics show and u are being robbed of a childhood and fun 'cause whille ur masterbating over 1/3 of the world is still doing the same but 1/3 is watching t.v and 1/6 is being active aand 1/6 is actually dieng soa ur odds of doing something else is pretty big :)

CarnivorousBat
March 25th, 2010, 02:46 PM
WTF. I wouldn't do it that is toooo weird

Gumleaf
March 26th, 2010, 02:18 AM
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