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Wolfy B
January 8th, 2010, 12:29 AM
Got some questions for you guys might be long idk but I appreciate any help you guys can give me. Ok this new girl just moved to my school (btw im a sophomore in high school) and she is in 2 of my classes. She is pretty good looking and seems really nice and also it is 2nd semester for us so we switch teachers. I just switched to a class with this really hot girl but she seems kinda out of my league and ive never talked to her and she probably has never noticed me. Also im not the most popular person in school but in my small group of friends im always the funny guy and the jokester and fun to be around (so ive been told). But i always think everyone thinks im emo just because i have long hair not to long just the normal like down to the bottom of my ears with bangs sweeped to the side and not very talkative. She seems kinda popular also what do you do if you try to ask a girl out and then her friends are like "your gonna date that loser?". But if shes a good person she wouldnt listen right she would stand up for me and give me a chance so if she listened to them she wouldnt be worth it right? Also how should i approach asking someone out that i dont even know especially since she might not even know my name lol or do i try to become her friend first and if so how would i go about introducing myself to her in a way that wouldnt say "oh a guy trying to become my friend so he can ask me out" or something like that. These questions pretty much apply to both girls but should i go for the girl i like more or the girl i think would be easier to get thats a really dumb question and i pretty much am going to probably go for the girl who i thought is kinda out of my league who i like more. Also do you think me being shorter than the girl like by and inch or two maybe again i think you would have to be shallow to care about something like that. Also if i do go for the new girl should i be like "hey, so since your new here if you need anything just ask me and by the way my name is Brandon (and then she will tell me her name)" i only seen her once so dont know her name. I think the other girls name is Holly, not sure but she even has a hot name lol. Sorry for the wall of text :eek:. I NEED HELP, thank you in advance for any help at all. BTW unless I wasnt clear I think Holly is hotter and seems more my type also i am very shy and she isnt very talkative like me unless that is just in that class. So give advice with me being shy in mind please.

Mr. Smithers
January 8th, 2010, 01:28 AM
Here read this thread.

http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=30402

That should be able to solve most of your problems. Just remember to not rush things. You have plenty of time to find a girlfriend or a relationship, its really not the end of the world if you don't end up being with her. Good luck.

Wolfy B
January 8th, 2010, 06:16 PM
Yes I have read that but I was just hoping for more personalized advice but thanks anyway. So if anyone has any other advice I talked to Molly (thats her name not Holly lol) although not too much I just asked her name and then made up that I needed some help on one of the questions on the homework. I pretty much think that I like her more, also sorry if this is inapropriate or something please don't ban me but I think that last like Wednesday this week I was reaally horny or something like that lol. Kinda like when you get drunk (so ive heard) and everyone appears waaay more attractive than they really are because the other new girl isn't that attractive and also just wondering, when you like someone do you like them even if they have some faults like things you don't like appearance wise. Because I got to look at her more closely and I still like her and think shes really hot but she doesn't have the most attractive face ever by any means but its not like "ewwww im not touching that". Thats probably kinda shallow and it doesn't even make me think about not liking her or anything just something I noticed. So any advice, tips, whatever. I've never had a girlfriend or had my first kiss yet but I dont need help on the kiss part just saying so any help at all is appreciated. Thanks in advance.

Mr. Smithers
January 8th, 2010, 08:39 PM
I'm sorry I couldn't help you. The only thing, that I would say to do would be to be yourself and try not to rush things when talking to her. I mean, think of if the girl was me, would I date her? Try to just play it slow and ask her questions like what kinds of tv shows she likes or tell her that you seen her around. Let me know how it works out.

maddii-may
January 9th, 2010, 12:37 PM
i think you should go forthe one thats more like you as you should have more in commen and it dont matter about looks x

Wolfy B
January 11th, 2010, 06:47 PM
If anyone still wants to reply I realized that I only like the new girl who just moved here so if anyone has advice on how to flirt or how to like introduce myself to her please post it.
Thanks in advance.

Mr. Smithers
January 11th, 2010, 09:51 PM
Get to know her. Talk to her. She's new to you. You are new to her. Don't rush things. Try to just have a friendship with her, not so much of a boyfriend girlfriend thing with her. I'm glad I solved your first problem, I'm always here to talk.