Serious Regrets.

[iCookie Jar]

I came out to a coupleof my friends a few days ago. But now I wish I hadn't. is there anything I can do to stop rumors spreading, because my brother is at my school too, and if he finds out I'm gay then I'm fucked. I don't want anyone else finding out, because one of my friends has already told someone (bastard). and now I'm worried I've made a huge mistake.

Thanks for the help!

[charlie3322]

hey man.. look up my post coming out man my stories on there

[Mr. Smithers]

It's not really that hard to stop rumours. Just don't admit to what they say. Eventually, when you are ready, you should be able to come out. But since you are uncomfortable, right now just deny whatever rumours people say about you.

[Lifeguard18]

There's no way to stop the rumors. Unless you make a fake story but that will make it 100xs worse. You didn't make a mistake. Coming out is a huge accomplishment and it shows you have extreme confidence. if your brother finds out try to talk to him in priate before he gets to your parents. Tell him that you dint want them to know yet etc. etc.

[nick]

I dont think there's any turning back now. My advice would be to talk to your brother yourself rather than have him hear things from other people.

[Lifeguard18]

In sorry I forgot. If you find the person who started them tell them to tell no one else. Confront him and ask if there's a way fir it to be fixed. He can start telling the people he told it was none of his/her buisness and it was something private that I shouldn't have said. Maybe that wiLl work. Usually people who hear the person who started the rumor and they see that he apologized it will probably stop. Idk if that works well or not

[charlie3322]

jus tlk with ur bro man i came out today and believe me u cnt stop the word from getting out nnow im srry but its true.
GOOD LUCK!¡!¡!¡

[iCookie Jar]

the problem is. I don't think I have the confindence to talk to him. He's only young (three years below me).

[woody92]

There's no way to stop the rumors. Unless you make a fake story but that will make it 100xs worse. You didn't make a mistake. Coming out is a huge accomplishment and it shows you have extreme confidence. if your brother finds out try to talk to him in priate before he gets to your parents. Tell him that you dint want them to know yet etc. etc.
I dont think there's any turning back now. My advice would be to talk to your brother yourself rather than have him hear things from other people.

I agree with the two posts above.I think you should tell him.

the problem is. I don't think I have the confindence to talk to him. He's only young (three years below me).

I think that you should just tell him before he finds out from someone else and i know that if my sister was a lesbian i would want to know through her (but she isnt) but i am gay and my sister is a year below me (i know its not much of a gap as you and your brother) but i think that he would probably want to know from you not someone else. GOOD LUCK!!

[Zanra]

Deny deny deny, or talk it out with people

[charlie3322]

y shuld he deny it. believe me once it gets out if u deny peopl will think ur trying to hide it and it makes u seem like ur ashamed of it... i still say tlk 2 him even if hes younger

[woody92]

y shuld he deny it. believe me once it gets out if u deny peopl will think ur trying to hide it and it makes u seem like ur ashamed of it... i still say tlk 2 him even if hes younger

Totaly agree REP+ I think you shouldnt deny it at all

[KenFisher]

Have a bard song.
*Deny, Deny, Deny, Deny that you have said you're gay*
If I can get away with kissing a guy by denying, I think it'll be alright for you.
Talk to your bro. maybe in a way that he'll understand perfectly.
That person you told, right? I believe you entrusted him not to tell? Well, then, is he really your friend that you can trust with things like this, when he told people? I think you're gonna have to reevaluate the relationship between you and him.

[charlie3322]

thnx woody×D