question for bisexuals

[Chris693]

i like guys and girls...should i tell my girlfriend that if so how

[charlie3322]

no it wuld only confuz her dude hapned to me except wit my bf

[Carfreakjack]

no it wuld only confuz her dude hapned to me except wit my bf

Ya I agree but it's up to u and think about if ur ready to be openly bi cuz what u two have a bad brack up and she tells evryone

[charlie3322]

yea my bf didnt knowhow to take it at first he thought i wnted to break up wit him

[Carfreakjack]

I wish I could come out to everyone that im bi. Well atleast I'm telling a bunch of strangers that i'll never meet lol that's a step

[Zanra]

Well don't tell her unless you two are really close or there is a good reason to

[charlie3322]

zanra luv yo sig sory tis is random but that is me and my bfs song....

[Mr. Smithers]

Well if she is your girlfriend, you should be able to have conversation like that with her. Just sit down and tell her how she's feels about those types of people. Then just say that you might be attracted to guys. Do you still want to be with her or not?

[Antares]

Moving to teen sexuality

[ACQD139F83J]

You should be able to tell your girlfriend that... just make it clear that it doesn't mean you're going to be cheating on her with guys any more that you would be with girls. Many people confuse bisexuality with polygamy.

[nick]

I dont think you need to tell her unless your planning on two-timing with a guy. If you're in a relationship dont cheat, thats the same for bis as for anyone else.

[thepieman]

It depends on how close you are and how you think she would react - it could go either way. Personally I would tell her, but explain that she is the only love of my life. However I understand that she may freak out over it if she feels uncomfortable. Ultimately it's up to you what you do.

[BiBoy13]

Well it's up to you. If you two are really close and you love each other then just sit her down and tell her. If for whatever reason you don't think she'd 'accept' (sorry can't think of a better word) it then don't tell her until you know you can trust her and she will be accepting of it. But as has previously been said it's up to you!

[Hrnyboi]

I wouldn't tell her unless u guys r in a really serious relationship

[Soccer Girl 13]

If my boyfriend was bi, i would want him to tell me. Actually he is bi, and im so happy he told me. You should be honest with each other

[WaahZombie]

if i were you i wouldnt tell her.

[CuriousDestruction]

if you think that she would understand and it would bring you closer then i encourage it. if it would make either of you uncomfortable in your relationship then maybe you should wait.

[Fourth Dimension]

idk when i first started coming out to my friends i had a hard time telling my then gf and well she didnt find out until we were broken up shes the really religious type and i was afraid she would hate me her sis accidentally told her im friends with both and actually she didnt care lol but not when i start dating anyone i let them know

[Carter]

Well... you can't just keep it a secret from her... if she's your gf... you should be able to trust her.

[Soccer Girl 13]

The guys say you shouldnt. The girls say you should. You should trust her enough to tell her. Just be honest with her man.

[Wiwwm0]

I had a girlfriend and I was gonna tell her that I'm bi but I didn't, she foud out somehow and she dumped me! She said she dumped me not because I was bi, but because I didn't tell her. Soits better to say it just straight and just howbit is...

[enjoying_my_insanity]

well my bf was the first person i told i was bi and i think you should tell her cuz if youre in a serious relationship you should be able to talk to her about this kind of thing and she should understand that just because you like guys too doesnt mean that you are going to cheat on her with one thats not what being bisexual is! explain all of this to her and it can only make you closer because you wont be keeping a secret from her...i hope this helps and good luck! :)

[Tiberius]

Bump from January :locked: