I dont get it!!

[Baudelaire]

Ok, for the past few months I've been really attracted to guys but when school started I met this girl and i dont think about her sexually, but I love being around her because shes really pretty and nice, but I dont find her sexually appealing, shes just really good looking and shes nice, and I get this warm feeling when I'm around her, but I dont get an erection, I dont get how this works.

[lalivre]

sounds like you're more attracted to males, but like a female presence. This could mean that you're Bi. This could also mean that you're just not physically attracted to her. If not either one of these then you're gay.

[Mr. Smithers]

I don't think that you are attracted to her. You might just be really comfortable around her even though you probably don't feel that way to other girls.

[daveywavey]

sounds like you're more attracted to males, but like a female presence. This could mean that you're Bi. This could also mean that you're just not physically attracted to her. If not either one of these then you're gay.

i dont agree with telling anyone what sexual orientation they are, guide them dont tell them, the only one who knows what sexual orientation they are is them, all judgements aside, with that being said just do what feels right, but in my past ive noticed that gay guys like to be surrounded by girls just as much as straight guys, so who knows man? you are born with whatever you are born with , play the cards you are dealt, theres no folding in this game of life bro lol

[The Batman]

To me it just sounds like you made a friend

[thepieman]

To me it just sounds like you made a friend

Yeah I agree, I love spending time with my mates but it doesn't mean I fancy them. That shouldn't change your sexuality, go with how you feel sexually and emotionally.

[Giles]

i dont agree with telling anyone what sexual orientation they are, guide them dont tell them, the only one who knows what sexual orientation they are is them, all judgements aside, with that being said just do what feels right, but in my past ive noticed that gay guys like to be surrounded by girls just as much as straight guys, so who knows man? you are born with whatever you are born with , play the cards you are dealt, theres no folding in this game of life bro lol

They weren't telling, they were suggesting. Besides that was the whole point of the thread.

Op: It sounds like you are just close friends who are comfortable around each other, unless it becomes sexual; I think you're still bi/gay.