How do we tell her?

[xluvlyx]

How do me and my best friends tell this girl we don't want to be friends with her?
We tried telling her but she ran off crying to her mum who works at the school and then we were pressurised into becoming friends with her again.When we went to see her she was shaking and crying.
Now we are afraid that she will break down completely and we don't know how to get rid of her basically.
She has become really selfish and 'too big for her boots' her personality is just not as nice as how it was and i know people change but why should we be stuck with this girl for the rest of our school life? Its not fair on us

[Rutherford The Brave]

How do me and my best friends tell this girl we don't want to be friends with her?
We tried telling her but she ran off crying to her mum who works at the school and then we were pressurised into becoming friends with her again.When we went to see her she was shaking and crying.
Now we are afraid that she will break down completely and we don't know how to get rid of her basically.
She has become really selfish and 'too big for her boots' her personality is just not as nice as how it was and i know people change but why should we be stuck with this girl for the rest of our school life? Its not fair on us

Yeah but no one needs to be alone. She needs you evidently, and if she is bugging you at school or something ignore her. Do not just dump her on the side of the road. You need to learn how to deal with people with different personalities. It is evident that you do not, and this might come back to hurt you. Just try to be her friend, try to understand her. Maybe have a talk with her personally and if things get worse then you can do it

[Reflection.]

Explain to her mom that she has been annoying you and ask her to talk to her daughter and tell her that she has to stop bothering you.

If that doesn't work, you have to be straight up with this girl. Some people just don't get it and wont ever give up unless you confront them directly. You sometimes has to be an a*shole to people like this, just because they need to understand.

[lalivre]

Avoid her, but don't make it obvious.

[xluvlyx]

Yeah but no one needs to be alone. She needs you evidently, and if she is bugging you at school or something ignore her. Do not just dump her on the side of the road. You need to learn how to deal with people with different personalities. It is evident that you do not, and this might come back to hurt you. Just try to be her friend, try to understand her. Maybe have a talk with her personally and if things get worse then you can do it

I know that and we all feel really bad. We didnt just 'dump her on the side of the road' we just did small little things and she kept storming off. We didnt tell her that we didnt want to be friends with her :/
Its not fair to make someone change their personality for you, which is clearly what you are saying in the last sentance. Isn't it better for her to find friends who actually like her?

[laurita_21]

well just talk to her and tell her that she's changed alot and maybe she will understand =/
i know it is really hard but you are right, its not fair on you and your other friends to HAVE to stay friends with her.

how about introducing her to new people ? i dunno XD

[AllThatIsLeft]

This is so middle school material. I haven heard of dumping anyone in so long.

You need to send a message that she just doesn't fit there, and if she doesn't like being there SHE will storm off bug someone else. The old "We don't want to be friends with you anymore" is cruel, and it makes you look like bitches.
Think something up, or TRY to this girl. It wont hurt you. Diplomacy is key,

[Sage]

we were pressurised into becoming friends with her again.

why should we be stuck with this girl for the rest of our school life? Its not fair on us

You gave into pressure. This is what followed. Deal with it.

[CairAndros]

Sit down and talk with her. Tell her that you are not wanting her to be with you all the time, which is what I gather she is doing, but that you wouldn't mind talking to her/going around with her every once in a while. That way you would be getting "rid" of her for a period of time but not throwing her away in a manner that might cause her to break down. Also, her having her mum at the school is a double edged sword. On the one hand she can use it to help her but you can also use it to help you and your group of friends, go to her mum and tell her that her personality is cause your group discomfort and that you really don't like it and wonder if you could talk to your daughter to make her aware of the situation and see if that helps the problem any.

[sabotaged111]

just say "You're not my idea of a good friend, i dont think we should hang around anymore" if she cries, let her cry, and if she tells, let her tell, just when your getting pressured into being her friend just refuse and say no, they cant "make" you.

Connor.