Dont want to do stuff with guys..

[tom_93]

Well - I am bi (Im not one of those hormone-bi's).
But, if I get the oppurtinity to be with a guy, I seem to make every excuse I can not to do stuff with the guy. I just get this feeling of regret. Now, I really do want to stuff with a guy but I just cant. Am I scared? I just dont know :( Its so annoying!

[The Batman]

Well - I am bi (Im not one of those hormone-bi's).
But, if I get the oppurtinity to be with a guy, I seem to make every excuse I can not to do stuff with the guy. I just get this feeling of regret. Now, I really do want to stuff with a guy but I just cant. Am I scared? I just dont know :( Its so annoying!

You just aren't ready yet. Being with another guy is something that both your body and mind need to be ready for and by the looks of it your mind isn't. Just give it some time mature some more and when you find someone that you do want to be with it'll happen when you're ready for it too.

[tom_93]

^Thats actually makes perfect sense.
Thanks :)

[nick]

Perhaps you're just not the sort of person that wants casual encounters or experiences but needs to find the right person to develop a relationship over a period of time. Maybe if there was someone that you really loved and felt comfortable and relaxed around then things would change.

[Squisheee]

You seem like me, except I'm the same with girls.
It's like I really want to do things, but I get way to shy or way too nervous
and back out.
-.-" We're on the same page.

[Mr. Smithers]

Just wait until you think you can handle talking to the same sex. You are probably just really nervous of being attracted to something your not used to.

[thepieman]

As above really, you just need to wait for the right person and the right time.

[ram93]

i felt that way too wen i fist did it and wen i first experienced it wit a guy because im not used to it,.
but if u give yurslf a chance trust me yull love it.
all the regrets went away.