What's wrong with me?

[lostea]

I'm 15/f/.

I have never kissed a boy.

I have never been in a 'true' relationship. I am not shy. I am usually nice- but I can be a little snippy with pervish boys. I have alot of friends. I am athletic. I usually like about one person a year, I am NOT about to go out with someone I barely know. People say I'm pretty. I'm not abnormally short/tall. I sometimes act clueless. I don't have very big boobs. :( In general I am confident.

I just don't know what is wrong. Am I too picky? Am I intimidating? Should I just wait? I want a relationship for sure but not a sexual one. Is that the problem? I don't know.

[Sugaree]

To me, you seem extremely approachable. I don't think it's that you're picky, you might be intimidating to some (but not all). I would wait for a while and see how it goes. Perhaps you could try to go up to someone and ask them if they'd like to do something? It sounds like you are counting more upon someone asking you rather than you asking them. Breast developement has nothing to do with this, so you can throw that into the garbage can. If you come across any, as you call it, "pervish" type of guys, wave them off. They are nothing more than a waste of everyone's time. If you truly are confident, then do it. Best of luck to you.

[Aspiringanonymous]

Nothing is wrong with you. You have yet been presented with a suitable opportunity, that is all. Things like this will come when it comes; rushing leads to unsatisfactory results much more often than not. You seem to recognize that already.

Just relax. There are plenty of people who, voluntarily or not, stayed single all throughout their high school years, and for a small minority, even beyond that. It only appears that almost every single person has had some form of experience with romance, because those who have not are much more subtle about it.

[Mr. Smithers]

First off, why is having a boyfriend that important to you? If you really think about it, what would having a boyfriend change in your life? Sure you might have someone to hang out with on the weekends, but really nothing. You should really just put your mind toward school. If you even do try and find someone you love, relationships don't last long when your young. That's how I look at it.

[lalivre]

Just be nice to guys, flirt with them a little, and find common interests, when you get in a relationship and you're dying to kiss him just play with his shirt or his hair, stare at his lips, play with your hair, bite your lip, if all else failes JUST KISS HIM!

[sabotaged111]

to be honest... there is nothing wrong with you at all, before my current girlfriend went out with me, she had never kissed a guy and i wonder to myself why cos she is beautiful and athletic, im guessing, very much like you. All in all, i couldn't see why guys weren't pouncing on her at every corner. In the end though, its been 8 months and 15 days since me and my girlfriend started going out, and she is the love of my life! :D basically, what im saying is theres nothing wrong with you. I'am glad you dont like pervish boys cos personally, i want to punch fuckk
(pardon thy language) out of them. I believe a guy should be a proper gentleman to a lady :P you dont have to change at all, you especially dont need to get into a sexual relationship, because that would just cause problems, and youd regret it later in life. In conclusion (:P) You have nothing wrong with you, maybe just flirt around a guy or two and be generally more friendly.

hope i helped,
Connor.

[Evermore]

I'm 15/f/.

I have never kissed a boy.

I have never been in a 'true' relationship. I am not shy. I am usually nice- but I can be a little snippy with pervish boys. I have alot of friends. I am athletic. I usually like about one person a year, I am NOT about to go out with someone I barely know. People say I'm pretty. I'm not abnormally short/tall. I sometimes act clueless. I don't have very big boobs. :( In general I am confident.

I just don't know what is wrong. Am I too picky? Am I intimidating? Should I just wait? I want a relationship for sure but not a sexual one. Is that the problem? I don't know.

You sound perfect. The only thing I can elp you with it maybe lighten up the not about to go with someone you barely know thing. The point of dating is to get to know the person. Be patient someone will ask you out eventually. Ask other girls on tips on dropping hints.

[sztegosz]

i think you look nice :) so be patient

[1_21Guns]

I'm the exact same, don't worry about it, when it'll happen, it'll happen, everyones right. you're a pretty girl, you'll find the right boy. Theres nothing wrong with you hun, some things just take time, don't rush into them, you'll only get hurt. don't think something is wrong with you, you'll make yourself worse off, trust me.

[cherry_boi]

I'm the exact same, don't worry about it, when it'll happen, it'll happen, everyones right. you're a pretty girl, you'll find the right boy. Theres nothing wrong with you hun, some things just take time, don't rush into them, you'll only get hurt. don't think something is wrong with you, you'll make yourself worse off, trust me.

exactly, i love girls who r like this, not at all attracted to the girls who r shallow or willing to conform to things just to fit in

be different!! u'll stand out

same is boring

nothing wrong with u, i'm still waiting for the right girl/guy too and i'm a year older then u lol so yea

just be patient :D

[zoom zoom]

well what r you saying. there is nothing wrong with you. and to do with the boob size shouldnt really matter if a guy would like you. so you shoulodnt really put yourself down like that. you r a good person all around.

[giggle.xo]

Hi i have kissed a guy but i realy like this guy in my class i have 4 like 6 years and he doesnt like me tipsss?
And i bet u need to give it timee

[Englishrose]

There is nothing at all wrong with you, and from your picture you look like a very beautiful girl. Don't feel that you have to be in a relationship, though I can totally understand the need to have a boyfriend. You seem like such a nice girl, the believe me, there are so many girls you age worrying about the exact same thing. Don't believe all you hear in school about what girls and guys are doing/have done to each other. It's completely untrue, I wouldn't even say a quarter of it actually takes place. Don't worry, there are so many girls in the exact same boat as you.

Don't stop waiting for that nice guy and go for second best, then one day, a guy is going to appear out of nowhere and your going to wonder what all the worrying was for. However, I know that you really want a relationship, so the only advice I can give is to just get yourself out there, make yourself available for all those nice guys looking for a relationship, smile at guys you pass in the corridor at school, talk to them, and when you go out, don't just go out with groups of girls, make sure the guys are invited to. And it will happen for you, because you look and talk like one heck of a beautiful girl, inside and out.

[1_21Guns]

and to do with the boob size shouldnt really matter if a guy would like you.

He's right hun, not every guy wants big boobs. A guy will come along that likes you for who you are, and how pretty you are. Don't worry about silly little things like that, you are what you are, and someone will like you for it.

Hi i have kissed a guy but i realy like this guy in my class i have 4 like 6 years and he doesnt like me tipsss?

Hun, maybe you should make your own post to ask for help with this, so people might actually read this, not everyone reads down, this could easily be missed. (:

[SmileyGirl]

I don't think anything is wrong with u. I think that mayb ppl just...don't know your looking. Spread the word a bit.

[Choke-Chain]

although 15 and never having kissed a boy might seem abnormal i wouldnt worry about it. You seem perfectly nice and without and mental disorders. so i think you should be fine. I agree with SmileyGirl spreading the word that your intrested right now might be a good idea.