I messed up, but it was the best night of my life.

[SnowWolf]

So, i just need to get this off my chest, and just talk to others about this. This guy ive known now for quite some time(and liked him) came with me on a road trip with some other friends. Truely, with him I am happy, and I could care less about anything around us. For the first time in my life, im in love, not a simple high school crush. Hes 17, im 15. We get along so well, and I know he likes me. I am not just saying that to myself, I do truely know he does. All of our mutual friends say we look good together, they say he looks at me with sincere care and love, differently then he does at others. We go well together, always helping each other out, always keeping in touch, always making ourselves laugh. Anyway, on this trip, we had to spend a night in a hotel. My friend and his GF got a room, and me and him shared one. When it came to go to bed, we were goofing around and started playing that nervous game. Its where you touch someones body to see when they become nervous. I actually enjoyed it, and i know he did too. No, when I say this, dont think it was a sluttish move. I had a tank on, and he only felt my chest through my bra and top. It was started out as two friends goofing around, and it became something more. We ended up falling asleep together, but he went to his bed during the night since there was no room. I dont know, it was just that he was looking into my eyes and we were together. It wasnt a hookup or anything, it was real. Next morning, him and i shared the mirror as he got dressed and i was doing my hair and makeup. We spent the day with friends snowboarding and he kept joking and smiling and looking at me, not to mention talking about me to his friends. The only thing wrong in this scenario, he doesnt think he can keep a relationship, like hes not the player type guy that hooks up with chicks and leaves them, he just worries to much. He knows I like him since i have told him before. What would have happened if i had kissed him when we were together, whats going to happen now? I dont know, i just wanted to share this, maybe get some advice. Thanks guys :)

[AllThatIsLeft]

TWPR:arrow: Relationships&Dating

[Underground_Network]

I don't think you messed up, you don't want to go too far right away Kseniya.

I think it's obvious he likes you, but just give him time. Maybe tell him how you feel if you're ready, but if you're not, let him make the first move. Just be careful. If he likes you it shouldn't matter what you exactly say or do, just let him know that you like him back. Don't let things turn physical before they turn emotional or you'll only get hurt in the long run (i.e. start dating before doing anything REMOTELY sexual, if you're looking for this to be a serious relationship).

And that's about all I have to say. Good luck Kseinya, I think it's obvious he likes you, but he's 17 and you're 15, and that's not a huge age gap, but I just want you to be careful. Be loving, but be safe. Best of luck. :)

[SnowWolf]

I don't think you messed up, you don't want to go too far right away Kseniya.

I think it's obvious he likes you, but just give him time. Maybe tell him how you feel if you're ready, but if you're not, let him make the first move. Just be careful. If he likes you it shouldn't matter what you exactly say or do, just let him know that you like him back. Don't let things turn physical before they turn emotional or you'll only get hurt in the long run (i.e. start dating before doing anything REMOTELY sexual, if you're looking for this to be a serious relationship).

And that's about all I have to say. Good luck Kseinya, I think it's obvious he likes you, but he's 17 and you're 15, and that's not a huge age gap, but I just want you to be careful. Be loving, but be safe. Best of luck. :)

Oh Adam, you always do help! thanks! :D
I think, no i know he likes me back...problem here...i just already want to be with him, i want us to be a couple. Its a bunch of emotional, crazy stuff. lol. I agree, nothing sexual before the relationship, but personally, that night was like a wine tasting. You take a daring sip before gulping it down, you taste it first. LoL. Im sure im not gonna be doing that anymore, its eigther take it now, or miss out.

[donniedarko]

i dont think you messed up at all. i think that what you guys did was really good. i also think its really good that you guys didnt end up like having some sort of sexual thing happen. if this guy likes you like you say he does, than i think you guys are great together. i think that its a great thign when you guys are able to connect so stronly without any sort of sexual thing happening. i think that is a real connection.

[SnowWolf]

i dont think you messed up at all. i think that what you guys did was really good. i also think its really good that you guys didnt end up like having some sort of sexual thing happen. if this guy likes you like you say he does, than i think you guys are great together. i think that its a great thign when you guys are able to connect so stronly without any sort of sexual thing happening. i think that is a real connection.

I agree, connecting is great, but having a real relationship would be just much better. :(