Why are they so threatened?

[Squisheee]

I'm bisexual,
I've excepted that, yet it seems like every guy I get into a relationship with is threatened, and thinks I'll leave them for a girl.
yet I'm NOT that type of girl at all.
Anyone want to try and help me figure this out?


I've also come to the point in which I feel I'm not interested in guys at all, Im single at the moment, and feel most guys I encounter want nothing more then to just get into my heavenly pants.
Which NONE have gotten into.
Anyone feeling what I am?

[Billy15]

hi squisheee

i think everyone is a little insecure and when you throw an additional threat in there (whether you would really do that or not) it's probably going to make the guy feel even more insecure. Im not sure what i am yet but i am pretty sure i am gay and if i had a bf who also liked girls, i think i would always be wondering if he liked me or the girls more and i dont think thats to unusual to assume. we all try to be confident and secure but when you have to deal with cute guys and girls, i would just think that that would make it twice as hard to handle. thats what i think anyways.

[sildavin]

Well put Billy. All I have to say is really a repeat of what he said.

My GF knows im Bi (atleast, I think shes does XD ) HAHA anyway;

People are more insecure about it because they have to deal with twice as many people you might be looking at (cmon, we're ALL at least guilty of looking) also, from a guy perspective, lets say you DO leave him for a girl, and word gets out, it'll make him look as if he turned you off from guys because he was just THAT BAD.

As far as my GF, if my eyes arent planted on her at all times. I get a punch in the tummy :( you just gotta look at it from his perspective is all. and If you are loyal, then all is fine :)

[Mr. Smithers]

Well many bi people usually decide which sex they like more. Maybe you like girls more at the moment. There is no shame in that. It is very hard to find a guy that doesn't want to just have sex but its hard. You just have to get with a guy or girl that is open with you being bi-sexual.

[Squisheee]

Thanks for the responses.
I've put myself in his shoes, they were a bit big.. \:
I'm kidding,
I've thought about what you all said and it makes sense to me.
Thanks Guys.
You've made my life a bit less confusing.
And as far as deciding which sex I'd like lean towards, like be straight or gay.
Thats a tough one..