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superstar2067
January 3rd, 2010, 06:20 AM
I plan on asking my crush out and she knows I like her cause she asked and I asked her back and she said she dosent know and dosent want to ruin our friendship, how long should I wait before I ask her out?

Baudelaire
January 3rd, 2010, 11:18 AM
you are the only person that really knows the answer, imo, because you know her so you,ll be able to tell when the time is right.

Stewart
January 3rd, 2010, 11:35 AM
As stated above, nobody can really answer that, just go with what seems right.

Rutherford The Brave
January 3rd, 2010, 12:07 PM
Why not try to build up the relationship you two have. If you rush her towards it, she isn't going to want to do it. Build it up and she should respond possitively.

superstar2067
January 3rd, 2010, 05:57 PM
Ok thanks for the advice everyone

teh crazy man
January 4th, 2010, 02:29 AM
i'd say just go for it. if she says no build up your friendship some more and try again.

Sage
January 4th, 2010, 03:44 AM
Sooner the better. Being spontaneous is attractive.

superstar2067
January 4th, 2010, 03:50 AM
I guess I'll wait until school starts again, as we won't see each other much over the holidays

Sage
January 4th, 2010, 10:58 AM
I guess I'll wait until school starts again, as we won't see each other much over the holidays

Why? Do it now, give her something to think about over the holidays.

laurita_21
January 4th, 2010, 12:11 PM
Dont rush in to it, be like... a gentelmen around her...like complements and politeniness (:D) and stuff then just randomly bring it up.. gd luck ! xx

mattvt94
January 4th, 2010, 04:00 PM
I completely agree with everyone who said wait. I am in the exact same situation but don't let her slip away to another man or even worse one of your best friends