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Achie
January 3rd, 2010, 03:00 AM
Help.

kyle56
January 3rd, 2010, 03:02 AM
yessss ur always a virgin until u r involved with intercourse

nick
January 3rd, 2010, 01:53 PM
Well if you were a guy it would be simple, Kyle's answer would be correct. You remain a virgin until you have sexual intercourse.

Being a girl there's also the physical aspect of the hymen to consider. Now in some cultures and in former times if your hymen wasn't intact when you got married it would be assumed that you were not a virgin and that would be very bad news. Depending exactly what you do to yourself there might be a chance or a risk that you have broken your hymen, you would probably know if this had happened.

Now most modern thinking people dont pay any attention to that anyway, it can get broken in other ways like through doing PE, so its not really an indication as to whether you've had sex.

Sorry if this is a confusing answer. Basically what I'm saying is that as far as most people are concerned Kyle's answer is correct. You are a virgin until you have sex.

XxHaViiK
January 3rd, 2010, 01:55 PM
Everyone is a virgin until they've had sex. Nick pretty much explained it all.

Antares
January 3rd, 2010, 03:05 PM
You are a virgin until you have any type of sex (in my opinion), if you have only masturbated then that means you are still a virgin. If you have had anal sex, oral sex, vaginal sex, etc. then you are not a virgin anymore.

Some people don't consider oral and anal as a loss of virginity but in my opinion any type of sex will make you lose it.

xluvlyx
January 3rd, 2010, 05:48 PM
People have different opinions. The most common is until you have sexual intercorse then you remain a virgin. You may her the phrase that someone has popped their cherry meaning their hymen is broken but this doesnt nessacerily that they have just lost their virginity.

Stewart
January 3rd, 2010, 06:08 PM
Yes, you remain a virgin until penetration from a penis.

hollisterboi95
January 3rd, 2010, 06:38 PM
Yes of course I mean how is it possible to lose your virginity by yourself???

Affliction
January 4th, 2010, 12:21 AM
agreed

Brighteyes
January 4th, 2010, 12:28 PM
You will NOT lose your virginity UNTIL you have had SEXUAL INTERCOURSE.

In other words until a MALE penetrates you with his erected penis for the first time, you will be a VIRGIN..........Simple as that. :)

Dragoon Lagoon
January 4th, 2010, 10:09 PM
Yes of course I mean how is it possible to lose your virginity by yourself???

:eek:
:lol:
no

Achie
January 26th, 2010, 01:59 AM
Now in some cultures and in former times if your hymen wasn't intact when you got married it would be assumed that you were not a virgin and that would be very bad news..


i'm from philippines and girls who are no longer virgin before they get married is not really accepted here. how do i know if i already popped my hymen?

StraightAcE
January 27th, 2010, 01:37 AM
yes u can unless u have sex

Englishrose
January 27th, 2010, 01:52 AM
Okay first, I advise some people to look up the hymen on google or something as there are quite a few misinformed people.

Secondly, you are a virgin until you have sexual intercourse. Simples.

DayBreakArt
January 27th, 2010, 03:37 PM
I say you're a virgin. You've only lost your virginity if a guy puts his penis in you.

Beautiful Obsession
January 27th, 2010, 04:10 PM
Yes, Your A Virginn Until Yourr Actually Have Sex,, x

sara1220
January 30th, 2010, 03:20 AM
like every one else is saying.... you are a virgin until u get a dick up your pussy dildo's dont count... and the status of your hymen has nothing to do with whether ur a virgin or not i broke mine long before i had sex

Giles
January 30th, 2010, 11:21 AM
how do i know if i already popped my hymen?

It's not popping, it's breaking.

Generally the breaking of the hymen results in light bleeding from your vagina, although you don't always bleed. It's so damn confusing...

You can break it in loads of ways... Pe (gym class), horse riding, athletics, masturbating etc..

mitch17
January 30th, 2010, 01:37 PM
Nope ur still a virgin dude. U have to have sex with another perzson to not be a virgin

Hannahgurl
January 30th, 2010, 04:48 PM
I have a friend she is a virgin even though she masterbates and has done stuff with guys but still havent had one in her vigina yet

hannahd96
January 31st, 2010, 09:22 PM
I never even thought about this. Sorry but seems strange 2 me! Losing your virginity is with a guy - not on ur own.

CuriousDestruction
February 1st, 2010, 03:02 AM
i'm from philippines and girls who are no longer virgin before they get married is not really accepted here. how do i know if i already popped my hymen?

its difficult for a woman to know if her hymen is broken.
you can try looking using a mirror. but it is still difficult to know, because different women have different hymen.

some almost entirely cover the vaginal opening, and have to break to allow intercourse, but many hymen are crescent moon shaped accross the lower part of the vaginal opening, and often just stretch when tampon or fingers or speculum (gyno tool ) is inserted.

sorry i can't be more help.

BeautifulDisaster
February 1st, 2010, 11:21 AM
You're a virgin even if you masturbate.

DarkWingedAngel
February 1st, 2010, 11:33 AM
Yes, you remain a virgin until penetration from a penis.

You will NOT lose your virginity UNTIL you have had SEXUAL INTERCOURSE.

In other words until a MALE penetrates you with his erected penis for the first time, you will be a VIRGIN..........Simple as that. :)

I say you're a virgin. You've only lost your virginity if a guy puts his penis in you.

like every one else is saying.... you are a virgin until u get a dick up your pussy dildo's dont count... and the status of your hymen has nothing to do with whether ur a virgin or not i broke mine long before i had sex

ok there is something wrong with all of these.
Yes a penis going into a girls vagina would deffinatly make them lose that v-card but thats not all it takes


if it took a guys penis to lose virginity then a guess all the lesbians out there still have there v-cards, no that is no true

now yes dildos count, as long as it is a 2 person job if it is another person shoving a dildo up there as a sexual act then you lose your v-cards



that is all

i just had to point out that there is more than one way to lose your v-cards, it doesn't always have to be a dick

nick
February 1st, 2010, 11:51 AM
i'm from philippines and girls who are no longer virgin before they get married is not really accepted here. how do i know if i already popped my hymen?
Sorry, it seems as if everybody is ignoring what you said here, its obvious that what really matters to you is whether your hymen is intact and all these answers saying you are still a virgin because you havent sex are kind of irrelevant to that. I'm sorry but I don't know how you would tell, a doctor could examine you and would be able to tell but I'm guessing you dont want to do that.

mango2020
February 5th, 2010, 01:24 AM
though only way to remain a virgin is to not break your hymen! if you dont break your hymen your still a virgin, and you' ll know if you break your hymen because you will bleed if you do!

sara1220
February 5th, 2010, 01:41 AM
though only way to remain a virgin is to not break your hymen! if you dont break your hymen your still a virgin, and you' ll know if you break your hymen because you will bleed if you do!

first off, this is so not true... the only way to remain a virgin is to not have sex.... as i mentioned i broke my hymen long before i lost my virginity, second of all i'm not saying that it definitely wont happen, but i did not bleed when i broke my hymen....

why do guys have to post shit in the girls forum when 99% of the time they dont know what the fuck they are talking about?????

janjanTRIP_
February 6th, 2010, 11:46 PM
yeah, unless you've had a penis up your vagina, you're a virgin.

harjob
February 7th, 2010, 05:48 AM
My views are girl loses virginity if penis is inserted to have sex. The hymen can be broken in variuos ways actaully knowingly or unknown ways.

dmeek7
February 7th, 2010, 04:05 PM
the simplest way i can pput this is:if penis doesnt enter vagina, you are a virgin

DoveGreySands
February 7th, 2010, 04:14 PM
You're only a non-virgin if you've had a penis inside your vagina. As you haven't you're a virgin. It's really not that complicated

SmileyGirl
February 7th, 2010, 05:03 PM
i'm from philippines and girls who are no longer virgin before they get married is not really accepted here. how do i know if i already popped my hymen?


well if all uve done is masterbate then ur still a virgin.

and idk how 2 tell if ur hymen is broken but im pretty sure that most ppls hymens aren't completely intact anyway.

kentucky girl
February 8th, 2010, 09:02 AM
Of course you are still a virgin. You must have intercourse with boy to lose your virginity

Lisa2995
February 11th, 2010, 09:06 PM
You have to get fucked 1st

CrazyL29
February 17th, 2010, 06:22 PM
no ur cherry must be popped

Fliyte
February 20th, 2010, 06:59 PM
lesbians are always virgins. lol :)

Lalalisa
February 20th, 2010, 10:52 PM
deff yes

Brighteyes
February 21st, 2010, 07:50 AM
ok there is something wrong with all of these.
Yes a penis going into a girls vagina would deffinatly make them lose that v-card but thats not all it takes


if it took a guys penis to lose virginity then a guess all the lesbians out there still have there v-cards, no that is no true

now yes dildos count, as long as it is a 2 person job if it is another person shoving a dildo up there as a sexual act then you lose your v-cards



that is all

i just had to point out that there is more than one way to lose your v-cards, it doesn't always have to be a dick




UTTER RUBBISH

Might I suggest you google the subject, you would then have a much better understanding and your knowledge would definitly improve.

nicolai
February 21st, 2010, 10:26 AM
´You are still a virgin until you have sexual intercourse:D

ashley14xxox
February 24th, 2010, 08:56 PM
as long as u dont have intercourse ur fine

Toearly
February 25th, 2010, 04:56 PM
Well if you were a guy it would be simple, Kyle's answer would be correct. You remain a virgin until you have sexual intercourse.

Being a girl there's also the physical aspect of the hymen to consider. Now in some cultures and in former times if your hymen wasn't intact when you got married it would be assumed that you were not a virgin and that would be very bad news. Depending exactly what you do to yourself there might be a chance or a risk that you have broken your hymen, you would probably know if this had happened.

Now most modern thinking people dont pay any attention to that anyway, it can get broken in other ways like through doing PE, so its not really an indication as to whether you've had sex.

Sorry if this is a confusing answer. Basically what I'm saying is that as far as most people are concerned Kyle's answer is correct. You are a virgin until you have sex.

Quoted for the truth

DarkWingedAngel
February 25th, 2010, 05:23 PM
UTTER RUBBISH

Might I suggest you google the subject, you would then have a much better understanding and your knowledge would definitly improve.
NO YOU are utter rubbish
Lesbians can have sex, and they lose there virginity, why because they are having sex, none of them have a dick involved but they are having sex. end of story.
You lose your virginity by sex, NOT just by a dick.
and if you want me to prove it I will pull up sites.

Brighteyes
February 26th, 2010, 12:03 PM
NO YOU are utter rubbish
Lesbians can have sex, and they lose there virginity, why because they are having sex, none of them have a dick involved but they are having sex. end of story.
You lose your virginity by sex, NOT just by a dick.
and if you want me to prove it I will pull up sites.

Thank you so much for calling ME utter rubbish, if you kindly look at NO TIME have I called you rubbish, only what you have written.

Please continue to think as you will, I have no desire or interest in becoming embroiled in any form of slanging match.

Alx123
February 27th, 2010, 08:28 AM
yh ur still a virgin

DarkWingedAngel
February 27th, 2010, 09:05 AM
Thank you so much for calling ME utter rubbish, if you kindly look at NO TIME have I called you rubbish, only what you have written.

Please continue to think as you will, I have no desire or interest in becoming embroiled in any form of slanging match.
you know what
gtfo
you are fucking pissing me off

Clayburn Chic
March 3rd, 2010, 02:53 PM
You are totally a virgin until intercourse with a male

maczed
March 3rd, 2010, 04:40 PM
yep, you still are

princessBrittany
March 6th, 2010, 09:16 AM
if that was true I would not be a virgin when I was 12..lol
my bestie is a virgin and she rubs herself regularly, dont ask how I know this..
you have to acually get fucked to lose your virginity.. masterbation, girl/girl, fingering, oral sex, will not do it.

redd_
April 17th, 2010, 07:46 AM
i'd say yes until you've had a penis in your vagina!

aimee
April 18th, 2010, 08:43 AM
of course!

Cristina
April 22nd, 2010, 11:28 PM
I consider myself a virgin.

CanYouSeeMe
April 28th, 2010, 12:08 PM
Yes you're a virgin until you have sexual intercourse

gothamgirl
May 2nd, 2010, 12:20 PM
the actual point is the moment the guy puts his dick into you

The Dark Lord
May 3rd, 2010, 04:47 AM
Well yeah you've not had sex with anyone have u?

nickisamazing
May 3rd, 2010, 02:36 PM
yes you can

smalltowngirl
May 6th, 2010, 04:33 PM
oh hun,you will always be a virgin, when you have sexual intercourse with a male, then you will no longer be a virgin:)

Mei-Cindy
May 8th, 2010, 06:27 AM
Ahem. Well, if masturbating caused you to lose your virginity, then I lost mine when I was about 5 :cool: Don't worry, girl, you're still a virgin ;)

Bridgett
May 18th, 2010, 02:48 PM
i was looking on google and there was this website tht considered masturbation as sex. I dont c how its sex tho if ur doing it alone

HellHound
May 23rd, 2010, 05:18 PM
This question is strange.:rolleyes:

brandon6123
May 24th, 2010, 01:58 AM
yes still a virgin

MyNameIsJack
May 25th, 2010, 08:58 PM
For most people, yes.. It's considered as virgin, but you're not virgin physically.

toobig
May 26th, 2010, 11:39 AM
yes ofc you can

jakelongworth
September 12th, 2010, 01:15 AM
you remain a virgin untill u have sexual intercourse

suicidenote.
September 12th, 2010, 08:44 AM
you are a virgin until you have sexual intercourse with somone.

StarryEyedSurprise
September 14th, 2010, 11:06 PM
what everyone else said if you have intercourse you no longer are a virgin

suicidenote.
September 15th, 2010, 05:14 PM
you are a virgin until you have sexual intercourse with another.

patrick99
September 19th, 2010, 06:30 PM
yes because after you have had sexual itercorse it will maked u not a virgin

nicole97
September 19th, 2010, 08:07 PM
I think it started at peneration (so anal counts) but that's me

walpoler93
September 19th, 2010, 08:17 PM
yes, you are still a virgin if you masturbate. you lose your virginity if you have sex with someone else. and sex is anal, oral, or vaginal. so even if you jerk a friend off, you are still a virgin.

The Cali Kidd
September 21st, 2010, 11:05 PM
Yes u can call yourself a virgin

everestclimber
September 22nd, 2010, 12:14 AM
You have to have actual sex

Oxymoron
September 27th, 2010, 10:05 PM
Actually, that's kinda contradictory. I mean, what happens if you broke your hymen after a rough session of horseback riding? Well, that'd be something. That doesn't mean you aren't a virgin anymore. =.= It just means you broke your hymen. I believe until you have sexual intercourse, you will stay a virgin.

prettyprincess
September 27th, 2010, 10:14 PM
In my opinion you are still a virgin because you have never had sex with another person

LoveMyBody
October 5th, 2010, 05:15 PM
Don't worry, you're safe (:

electricfeel
October 5th, 2010, 11:26 PM
Your still a virgen ^_^, and you'll stay that way till you have sexual intercourse!

iMukuro
October 6th, 2010, 09:40 AM
Yes, you're still a virgin.
Until you've actually had sex with some other person, you'll always be one.

missSuzi
October 8th, 2010, 01:09 PM
Hmmmm

astro
October 13th, 2010, 07:56 AM
Yes you are until you have sex

babyhottie
December 26th, 2010, 11:19 AM
yes ur a virgin lol

Fact
December 26th, 2010, 11:34 AM
Please don't bump old threads.

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