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lxl
May 18th, 2006, 06:05 PM
its been bothering me so much
about my sexuality

I'd love to have a good romance with a girl
and go out with them at everything

but the thing is that i am more aroused by male sex
and i dont get aroused by female

it's really confusing
i wanna hear your opinion, or an advice... or anything

Zatch Bell
May 18th, 2006, 06:11 PM
Hmm, some people would claim themselves of being curious or bisexual. If you can't see yourself with another boy, then your not a homosexual. It's really hard to tell, just wait til puberty's over. Most people claim themselves undecided til 18, or atleast all the people I know.

/[{Alex}]\
May 18th, 2006, 06:22 PM
yea the thing is ur only gay if u actually want to 'go out' with another guy
if dont get crushes on girls, and you get them with guys, then you could consider yourself homosexual

other then that, thinkin bout guys is ok
as zatch said, you will REALLY know your orientation when pubety is over(19ish)

me, i have a gf and rarely think about guys, but most of the time i think of girls

no one is 100% hetro or homo
every1 has a bit of both

redcar
May 18th, 2006, 06:32 PM
i used to be the same i would want a relationship with a girl but i was just aroused by guys!

listen mate dont be thinking about all this and trying to put a label on yourself, cause that just makes u think alot and gets you all stressed and stress gives you wrinkles which are bad!

but seriously dude just go with the flow and do what you want. if you want a guy get a guy, do not try and do something that you dont want, like try and force yourself to be with a girl if you dont want. just be yourself and do wat ever you want with who ever you want! its your life and you only live it once, might as well live it happy!:D

Elscire
May 18th, 2006, 08:00 PM
in this age you might be in the curious phase or you might be gay. but there's no problem with being bi. like alex said, go with the flow! and what floats your boat.

TeenInNeed
May 19th, 2006, 04:45 AM
hey man i know the feeling, im prolly bi ionno, but i have my days where i cna only be aroused by guys. i have my days where its just girls also, even the days where it has to be both, but mainly im just curious.

Kev*
May 20th, 2006, 10:39 AM
jus go with what you feelk, if u fancie a girl, then ask her out, dont let your boy attractions hold you back from that