Friends bed

[Theatrekid]

Ok so my friend invites me over to spend the night and h has this king bed and he said we can share it but he sleeps naked like completely butt naked and like I sleep in my underwear... I don't wanna offend him by not sleeping in his bed he is super easily offended.. But I don't wanna get a boner and like be by him and it touches him
should I deal or tell him

[crazycoller]

In a king size bed i doubt you will cross each other's personal space bubbles

[nick]

Ok so my friend invites me over to spend the night and h has this king bed and he said we can share it but he sleeps naked like completely butt naked and like I sleep in my underwear... I don't wanna offend him by not sleeping in his bed he is super easily offended.. But I don't wanna get a boner and like be by him and it touches him
should I deal or tell him

In a king size bed i doubt you will cross each other's personal space bubbles
I think crazycoller has a point here, unless you're cuddled up to him how is he going to feel your boner, and if you are cuddled up to him then presumably he wont mind!

[kdddd]

you should just deal dude
maybe it will be fun!

[jerkoffdude]

its a king size bed those are pretty big and even if you get a boner so what he's not gonna freak out and hate you it was a situation similar to that when i had my first jack off with a bud

[The Batman]

If you don't want to sleep in his bed then don't also if you're not comfy with him sleeping nude don't sleep in his bed. Just sleep on the floor if he gets offended then tell him to put some pants on.

[XxHaViiK]

If he sleeps nude, then I HIGHLY doubt he'd care if you go a boner.

[xSebastian]

If he sleeps nude, then I HIGHLY doubt he'd care if you go a boner.

agreed

[fishdog]

the bed big so its okay
and getting a boner who care everyone gets them

[sildavin]

You shouldn't be worried king size beds are omg huge. Haha and like a few people said if he sleeps naked, even with you there I highly doubt he'd care if you got a boner.

And chances are both of you will probably wake with a lil morning wood ;)

[Billy15]

i have a king bed and when i have a friend over we always sleep in my bed but the bed is so huge that we never get that close to each other even though sometimes i wish we did lol so i doubt your friend will ever know if you strike up a bone

[Commander Thor]

Don't worry about getting a boner man, especially when you're asleep, because chances are, he'll get 2 or 3 during his sleep also. It's normal.
I say "deal" with it man.

[enzenzz]

put a pillow between you too if you are too worried. but it's a big bed as long as you dont move around you wont touch each other and if you do, it's not like you did it on purpose

[Raptor22]

Still though, if you arent into that sort of thing, dont do it. Bottom line.

[markmcw]

No offence but I wish I was you at the moment. Sleeping in the same bed with a guy naked. Perfect. tehe. Sorry back on topic. Ermmm I reccomend the pillow idea. And I highly doubt that he'll mind if you get a little boner. He's sleeping naked with another guy.... Obviously hes going to get one to.. tehe.

[Severus Snape]

Sounds to me like he's hinting at something...

[DareDevil]

Sounds to me like he's hinting at something...

That's what I was thinking. If I were invited to sleep over and someone told me they had a huge bed, wanted me to sleep in it with them, and that they usually sleep naked I would think there was a plan involved.

[blingibong]

go with the flow.... it mite be fun but if he is very easly offended try to be gental when u tell him... and a KING size bed u can sleep in the conor and u wont even go anywhere near him( only if he does come near u)

[Antares]

Youre fine, im sure he will pop a boner too, and you don thave to get completely undressed. If you do and feel uncomfortable just try to hide it from him, i dont htink he will bring it up

[Requin]

i dont htink he will bring it up

Lol, awesome pun. Anyway, yes you'll either be too far away from him to notice or he's trying something anyway, i'm sure you'll be fine. :)

[samshan]

like pretty much everyone else has said,
it's a big bed,
so just stick to your own side,
and so what if you get a boner ?
all guys get them
if you get one, just turn away
i'm pretty sure he'll get at least one :P
hope i was helpful !

[trouble]

its a king size bed.......chances are very low that you will cross.

[charlie w]

Unless you move a lot during your sleep...or if he is sugesting something. i doubt anything will happen.

[jgibbsd]

If he sleeps nude, then I HIGHLY doubt he'd care if you go a boner.

[Raptor22]

I think the people in this thread are giving you terrible advice. If you arent into what he probably has planned, I would stay the hell out of his damn bed. And if you do swing that way, theres nothing wrong with it. Its still a stupid situation to put yourself in if you are not prepared or interested in the repercussions.

[trouble]

I think the people in this thread are giving you terrible advice. If you arent into what he probably has planned, I would stay the hell out of his damn bed. And if you do swing that way, theres nothing wrong with it. Its still a stupid situation to put yourself in if you are not prepared or interested in the repercussions.

raptor is right.
my other view to this question is that if you are not confortable with this, don't do it. you said that he gets offended easily, well he cant get offended if you say no to sleepin on his bed, you get to decide where you get to sleep, or just dont stay at his house

[Raptor22]

raptor is right.
my other view to this question is that if you are not confortable with this, don't do it. you said that he gets offended easily, well he cant get offended if you say no to sleepin on his bed, you get to decide where you get to sleep, or just dont stay at his house

Agreed, you might just look into getting a new friend if this guy is into doing these types of activities.

[John Marston]

LOL i wudnt mind being there ^^. I'd prob be like 'do ya mind if i sleep naked too?' its just always better to do stuff wen its with a friend or girl. basically just doin stuff with sum1 other than urself is betta always. anyway, if you get 1 then i'd say he'll like it and try to bring up jaking off. and yeh i wud say just deal with it. a big king sized bed is way comfy-er then a couch or the floor ANY DAY.

wait i just read what these people have said.(the last 1's) if he duz want to do stuff with u it dosent mean that hes gay. he mite just be curious. THERE IS NO REASON for you to get a new friend. some would consider you luky, like me. im not gay and i wouldnt mind being there. like i sed its always betta to do it with sum1 else
Please don't double post use the edit button to add more to a post ~Empty Misery

[redben2]

Solution:
Don't sleep in your friends' beds!

[Footballkid27]

Sure do it and like pretty much everyone said if he will sleep naked, he probably wants u to get a boner

[MisterAndrews]

I think the people in this thread are giving you terrible advice. If you arent into what he probably has planned, I would stay the hell out of his damn bed. And if you do swing that way, theres nothing wrong with it. Its still a stupid situation to put yourself in if you are not prepared or interested in the repercussions.

I'm sorry, but I think you're putting words in his friend's mouth. (However, I do agree that the calls to "SHAG HIM!" are completely wrong.)

To the OP. It's you're business if you get a boner, and unless he's within 6" of you, he's not going to notice. I've slept in plenty of shared beds before, got a boner, and thought nothing of it.

Stick to your side, act normally (like you should at a sleep over) and in the UNLIKELY situation that he's got a hidden agenda, tell him NO!

I thought that was rather simple :P

[Giles]

Do you know how big King size beds are?
1. He will be quite far away, unless you start hugging. (If you do that then I highly doubt he will care about a boner)
2. Sleeping naked when you have friends sleeping with you (Same bed or not) is a bit iffy. He's either hinting at something or he's really open about things like that. In either case, he might be "expecting" that to happen.

[tom8567]

lol just do it :P if u et a boner he wont notice unless ur like right next to him

[Raptor22]

2. Sleeping naked when you have friends sleeping with you (Same bed or not) is a bit iffy. He's either hinting at something or he's really open about things like that. In either case, he might be "expecting" that to happen.

Agreed.

[enzenzz]

If something happens then react when it does, don't just assume what intentions your friend has for you. It may just be a perfectly normal thing for him and he just gave you the heads up so you won't freak out when it comes time to sleep.

[Pudd]

I had the same situation with a friend at a motel where we were staying during a music fest. We just had a wall of pillows between eachother

[impact_75]

Well it's totally up 2 u:yes:

[MisterAndrews]

If something happens then react when it does, don't just assume what intentions your friend has for you. It may just be a perfectly normal thing for him and he just gave you the heads up so you won't freak out when it comes time to sleep.

Agreed. Can we just assume foronce that he's a completely innocent party who's just warning a friend about a habit he has?

[Zanra]

You'll be fine, he's a teenager a well and if you get a boner he will probably get one as well.

[charlie3322]

:Pi would ask if hes edging on to sumthin

[penguin13]

Don't worry about it!! You'll be find, and if you're not comfortable whatsoever just make an excuse and don't do it.

[crjt]

The simple answer: it's all up to you. If you trust him and think that he will not do anything, then go ahead. BUT, if you think that he WILL try something, then just say that you would rather sleep on the couch. Of course, this is assuming that you do not want him to try anything, because if you do, then it is a whole different answer.

[Baudelaire]

I think he might be curious if hes sleeping naked around you.

[seanyboy16]

i would bite at the opportunity;)

[LatinoMan]

I say you sleep with him defiantely

[Incognito]

It's a big bed, you'll do fine :)

[Obscene Eyedeas]

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