A Guy I Like A Lot (Hes Gay. Just. A Little Note)

[Lifeguard18]

Ok so in another post I made ( http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=61547 ) I have mentioned a guy I like a lot. I mention him about two to three sentences in. This post is a little old. Well we talk all the time on AIM (do not ask me for it or my facebook. After I made the post above in 20 mins I got three requests for my facebook link. I WILL NOT FRICKEN GIVE IT TO YOU. DON'T FRICKEN BUG ME. AND DONT ASK ME FOR HIS EITHER. I also got a request for that.)

Anyway we talk all the time online only. I see him in person a lot but I don't walk up to him and say hi or whatever. We've only talked I'm person twice and it didn't work out to good.

I need advice on how to approach him more in person and how for him to like me more. I know peeps are going to say you can't make him like me. He's a junior and I'm a sophomore. It's his last year next year an when he leaves I'll never have a chance with him. Any advice to bump my courage up to talk to him in person more. And another reason why i don't approach him is he's with people I don't know. Please give me advice that will work out.

[Krazymitch]

if dont have the courage to walk up to some1, which is rare, i will not stare at them but look in the direction and wait for them to look at me, then i 'flick' my head like im indecating for them to come to me, which they always do...im not sure if that will work in the situation but i just thought i would TRY and help you out, good luck!

[Lifeguard18]

if dont have the courage to walk up to some1, which is rare, i will not stare at them but look in the direction and wait for them to look at me, then i 'flick' my head like im indecating for them to come to me, which they always do...im not sure if that will work in the situation but i just thought i would TRY and help you out, good luck!

ill try that. thank you

[Lifeguard18]

I think I may tell him sometime this week how I feel about him. I have to get this out to him. It's starting to get to me a lot. And I'm sorry if I double posted and sorry if I got mad in the Actual message up at top. I don't like people asking me for that stuff and someones they don't even know. Once I got a request form someone asking for his I was like to myself hell no!

Yeah I'm going to tell him sometime this week. Maybe tomorrow. Any more advice?

[Mr. Smithers]

I always use "Hey you look familiar."

Or, "Hey I see you around and I don't have many friends."

You are going to have to be creative. If you can't have the courage to just stand up and just say hello to him, its going to be hard.

[Lifeguard18]

I always use "Hey you look familiar."

Or, "Hey I see you around and I don't have many friends."

You are going to have to be creative. If you can't have the courage to just stand up and just say hello to him, its going to be hard.

I have the courage but he's always around people I don't know. But I do know they are an accepting group he hangs around cause two of the people I see him with are in my 8th period and they doNt talk to me. This is a computer graphics class and one of the girls is like AMAZING and I mean AMAZING at drawing. I complemented her a few times and she said thanks. And there is two gay guys in the class to and they always talk to them. So the people he Hangs out with are accepting.

I may tell him how I feel today. I can't keep it much longer.

[Mr. Smithers]

I have the courage but he's always around people I don't know. But I do know they are an accepting group he hangs around cause two of the people I see him with are in my 8th period and they doNt talk to me. This is a computer graphics class and one of the girls is like AMAZING and I mean AMAZING at drawing. I complemented her a few times and she said thanks. And there is two gay guys in the class to and they always talk to them. So the people he Hangs out with are accepting.

I may tell him how I feel today. I can't keep it much longer.

That's the spirit. Yeah he's probably not going to walk up to you so you are going to have to stand up and just talk to him. I have another suggestion, you can also ask what his favourite tv shows or music groups, or talk about an assignment in the class to break the ice with him. Good luck.

[Lifeguard18]

Thanks alot again guys. Today I'm gonna crack the ice to him. Since he went on aim way too late at night I couldn't even stay up. So what I did was I sent him a message on facebook saying

Hey there's something really important I need to tell you tomorrow. It's been on my mind And I keep it much longer. I would say it now but it's late and in really tired and I'm going to fall asleep soon and right now is not a good time because I know the conversation will last soon. So I'll send you an IM tomorrow. Good night. Ttyt.

He didn't respond back to it but first I'm going to ask of he did read it. And I'll take it from there. Wish me luck.

[Lifeguard18]

The IM started. Wish me luck. Nervous

[xSEBBIE]

what happened?? update please =D
did you speak to him?