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CharcoalHeadphone
January 1st, 2010, 01:04 PM
Girls: will you dance with a guy that is just your friend? About a month ago, I was grinding with a girl at a dance that I know and talk with often. At the end of the night, I suggested we hang out some time, and it seemed like she just laughed it off. For the month since, we have been talking quite a bit, and I get the vibe that she likes me and is nervous. (I am two years older than her). Thoughts?

YesterdaysNews
January 1st, 2010, 01:23 PM
Well dance, as in slow dance, yes I would. Grinding... well that seems like she's more interested in being more than your friend. Talk to her, hang out, ASK HER how she feels towards you, or just ask her out? Because to me, grinding someone is a clear sign of attraction... I could be wrong though

Art_dude
January 1st, 2010, 11:14 PM
I dance with my girl friends at dances and parties all the time - it's pretty normal. We're just having fun and being silly. GRINDING however is something you don't really do with your friends; it's too sexual to joke about. Don't take this the wrong way but just because she grinded with you doesn't mean she wants to date you. Grinding is a pretty sexual 'hookup-ish' thing to do. She probably thought you were hot and didn't really want anything beyond that or else she would've made the initiative: I highly doubt a girl two years younger than you would be intimidated to ask you out if she went up to you and started GRINDING lol