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Sunrider
May 17th, 2006, 06:03 PM
Okay. I'm 13 and the girl is 12.
This girl I like (I've told her that I like her.) 3 days ago just kissed GUY A.
After I told her I liked her a while ago, she said she likes me as a friend (I know thats a lie because her friend is my friend and she told that The girl likes me and The girl acts nervous around me.)
She's tell me she likes GUY B and GUY C, who I hate!
She hangs out with GUY B and GUY C a lot more than me but she really talks about unstable things like kissing and making out and stuff and when she talks to GUY B and GUY C she talks about nonsense and teasing.

I still have feelings for her and I've tried getting over her but It's impossible.
All I can think about in class and school is HER. I feel bad because I can't have her right now and I know that the summer is coming so If I'm to do anything nows the time.

This story is twisted and messed up. Please Give me your Opinion and Thoughts. Maybe Ideas to get over her.

I would rather be with her in a relationship than just forgetting.

kolte
May 17th, 2006, 06:15 PM
how is it twisted if you don't mind?

well, just be yoruself, and don't be overtly dramatic.
I hate it when people get so dramatic with me, it tics me off really.

Sunrider
May 18th, 2006, 04:47 PM
It's twisted because she likes the 2 guys I hate.

And any advice?

Kiros
May 18th, 2006, 04:59 PM
Well first of all, don't say that you know she's lying. You never know if she is or if she isn't, so don't assume that at all. If you think that she likes you, great, but don't let it get carried away. The first thing you should do now is talk to her. Let her know that GUY B and GUY C aren't accepted by you. Let her think about that for a while - even a couple days. Don't provoke her into telling you what you want to hear. I'm serious about this; that's the number one way of someone getting pushed into a relationship that they didn't want to be in. Anyway, if she likes those other guys, then there's nothing you can do, although you could ask her why she likes those guys over you. To be honest, I don't find it at all twisted that she likes two guys - many girls like a couple guys, just as many guys like a couple girls (think about it -.-)... After you've told her everything you think she should hear, maybe you should express your feelings to her by telling her the way you feel about her. Though again, don't lose your sanity if she really doesn't like you the way you think she does (her friend might not always be right).

Fiending_the_freedom
May 18th, 2006, 10:05 PM
to be brutly honest, you just need to get over it.
theres nothing you can do more, you've told her how you feel, she said she doesn't feel the same.
i know, it hurts but its a part of life.