Confused...?

[MMVM_Kaputt]

Eh, I'm gonna sound like a complete idiot but whatever...I don't actually know if I can call myself bisexual...because I get "crushes" (God, I hate that word) on both men and women...and I'm physically female...but alot of the time I feel like a gay man trapped in a girls body and when I feel like that, women in a sexual nature repulse me...I'm confused...What the heck am I...oh and what the heck can I do about it?

[KaelKaos]

Eh, I'm gonna sound like a complete idiot but whatever...I don't actually know if I can call myself bisexual...because I get "crushes" (God, I hate that word) on both men and women...and I'm physically female...but alot of the time I feel like a gay man trapped in a girls body and when I feel like that, women in a sexual nature repulse me...I'm confused...What the heck am I...oh and what the heck can I do about it?

How, may I ask, do you feel like a gay man?

Gay men like men, so would that not make you straight?

And getting little crushes on females is just a natural part of puberty and growing up, I wouldn't worry about it too much, just go with the flow.

[MMVM_Kaputt]

How, may I ask, do you feel like a gay man?

Gay men like men, so would that not make you straight?

And getting little crushes on females is just a natural part of puberty and growing up, I wouldn't worry about it too much, just go with the flow.

Eh its hard to explain...I feel like a guy at times, I want to be one...the gay thing...well I guess its alot to do with the sexual part of it all...I want to feel what gay sex is like...ect.

I'm okay with getting crushes on girls, I'm just confused as to why one minute I feel like a regular bisexual female, and the next I feel like a gay male...

[KaelKaos]

Eh its hard to explain...I feel like a guy at times, I want to be one...the gay thing...well I guess its alot to do with the sexual part of it all...I want to feel what gay sex is like...ect.

I'm okay with getting crushes on girls, I'm just confused as to why one minute I feel like a regular bisexual female, and the next I feel like a gay male...


Hmm..well if you want to know what gay sex is, they have sex with a female. And I also think you shouldn't worry about what you feel like, it's normal for you to feel like that with hormones and all.

[MMVM_Kaputt]

Hmm..well if you want to know what gay sex is, they have sex with a female. And I also think you shouldn't worry about what you feel like, it's normal for you to feel like that with hormones and all.

I know...It's just I want to feel what gay sex between males is like, as well as between females. The thing is... everyone says either its hormones or try to tell me I'm transgender...

[nick]

Well face the fact misty, you cant experience or find out what gay sex between men is like. Obviously there is one aspect of (male) gay sex that you could experience but I dont really think that's what your talking about. It sounds from your last post above as if you dont really feel transexual or wanting gender realignment. It also sounds as if you're more interested in sexual experience with guys than with other girls.

At the end of the day I'm not sure that there's any ready made label that is helpful to you at the moment. The best advice I can give would be for you to try to keep calm and cool about it all and perhaps just experiment a bit when you get the opportunity to help discover things about yourself.

[MMVM_Kaputt]

Well face the fact misty, you cant experience or find out what gay sex between men is like. Obviously there is one aspect of (male) gay sex that you could experience but I dont really think that's what your talking about. It sounds from your last post above as if you dont really feel transexual or wanting gender realignment. It also sounds as if you're more interested in sexual experience with guys than with other girls.

At the end of the day I'm not sure that there's any ready made label that is helpful to you at the moment. The best advice I can give would be for you to try to keep calm and cool about it all and perhaps just experiment a bit when you get the opportunity to help discover things about yourself.

I've considered the gender change surgery...but I'm scared because its such a big step to take. Thank you for your advice though, I really appreciate it :yes: