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hardasrock6
December 31st, 2009, 11:14 AM
have any of you gay/bi guys ever liked a straight guy? i know most probably have but just wondering. me i like a str8 guy and have told him but he said he was str8 lol. so just post if u like a str8 guy and a lil about liking him pls ty :D :cool::rolleyes::P:eek:

sam i am
December 31st, 2009, 01:39 PM
Well im in love with my staight friend Dorian and we still close he don't even care,but he don't roll that way. i just found a way to deal with it,so i told him we need to like not talk for a while and he was more sad than i am =( but yea thats it so far

Kinetic
December 31st, 2009, 02:26 PM
i like this guy too, hes not even that attractive but i just do :P, he knows and sometimes he goes along with it and other times hes pretending to abuse me like we were married or somethin :P for some reason i like it haha my friends at school even had us "married" but im pretty sure hes got feelings but hes straight

ram93
January 1st, 2010, 06:08 PM
omg.
dude i liked this strght guy for a year.
his in football and now his in my choir class.
it was hard for me to get over him.
and i had football guy frnds and this one guy asked me if
i this guy cuz he overheard me sayin that his cute and all.
and i told him and a week later my other football guys asked me
if i liked him.
and i was nervous because all the football players knows and he knows.
but he acts kool around me in choir.
soo we're cool.
:)

Wonder.
January 1st, 2010, 10:46 PM
Yes. I think he might be gay though. I still have to ask him.

I'm not exactly sure why I love him. He's not exactly "cute" or "hot" or "sexy" and we don't have all that much in common but he's funny and charming and nice and strange and different and not all sporty like almost every other guy I know.

I think he might be gay because before holiday break he kept doing that I'm-acting-gay-but-I'm-actually-straight-so-in-other-words-I'm-making-fun-of-gays-in-a-way-but-I-just-don't-realize-it-yet type of thing but near the end of school it started to seem like he was being serious about it. I love him.

Btw, there is a difference between hot, cute, and sexy.

The Joker
January 1st, 2010, 11:51 PM
I don't know if he's straight or not.

KenFisher
January 2nd, 2010, 02:50 PM
Oh, for most the time, yes. :(
One ignored me after he knew. Was my best friend.
One hated me. Annoying squeaking thing, but sometimes, I wanted to snog him just like that.
One might know, but I don't know. He's my stud muffin of his year.
One's fine with it. He's really laid back about just about everything.
One just drifted apart. Not that fit. But cute.
And this one right now is really fit. Cute. Whatever. Probably straight. And yea, also this faux-gayness aura exists. He likes me, He doesn't, he likes me, he doesn't. CONFUSED. But still, :wub: to you, R.
And I stare at guys on the streets, only to find them with their gf/wifes/whateverfemalecreature. :/

Krazymitch
January 2nd, 2010, 10:04 PM
Im in love with this guy, we arent exactly friends, but hes my bestfriends 'body guard' he protects her an sheit. but anyways so i really like him, im not sure if he is str8, i think he might be bi

Silent
January 5th, 2010, 12:09 PM
Im in mad love with one straight guy and like another both of witch we are friends so ya....Maybe they will change their mind :D

Atonement
January 5th, 2010, 12:40 PM
I like a straight guy. But also, I know straight women that like me, but I'm gay, so meh, its a two way street.

Zazu
January 5th, 2010, 01:50 PM
I see it that the bottom line is that if a person is straight, they're straight, you won't turn them, you have no right to at all.

If you know someone is straight and you're gay, then honestly what's the bloody point in perusing them? They're not going to be in a relationship with you.

Reflection.
January 5th, 2010, 03:13 PM
Yeah i'm crushing on this straight boy sooo hard. We're pretty good friends we talk everyday. I think he might be atleast bi but im not sure. he's SOOO CUTE!

confusedboy
January 5th, 2010, 04:05 PM
My life story! let me tell u haha!!

There's a guy @ skool and he's to die for! I'm not sure though if he's gay cuz I've gotten little signs but it's not enough & now he's dating a skanky ho bag (I'm seriously not jealous, anyone else would be fine). Maybe he'll come out sometime soon ;)

thepieman
January 5th, 2010, 05:21 PM
Yep, same here. 2 guys, both with girlfriends, one guy who I'm really close to. Still, you gotta learn to lose...

Zanra
January 5th, 2010, 05:23 PM
I've liked straight guys. I turned some bi and some became great friends

Mr. Smithers
January 5th, 2010, 05:26 PM
No because all the guys that I have been with that I thought was "straight", didn't really turn out to be.

penguin13
January 5th, 2010, 05:50 PM
It seems to me that everyone that I do like are straight. Some I know for certain others I don't have the courage to ask!

CaptainObvious
January 6th, 2010, 01:29 AM
I see it that the bottom line is that if a person is straight, they're straight, you won't turn them, you have no right to at all.

If you know someone is straight and you're gay, then honestly what's the bloody point in perusing them? They're not going to be in a relationship with you.

I agree with this point of view, and I figure it to be almost universally valid, but the almost is a very key word there. I happen to know a person who was straight, and never seemed to be confused by it... and then out of the blue his best friend kissed him (best friend turns out to be gay). And now they've been in a relationship for some time.

So... it's not impossible. Just unlikely. :P

Tatsuya
January 6th, 2010, 04:37 AM
hah yeaa what Captain Obvious said,

anything can happens :P besides, this is mostly crushes.it can happen anywhere, just like me.how the hell did i get a crush on a girl not long ago. LOL.


anyways, yeaa i have.
i do think he's straight from what he always talk about girls, girls and girls.( yes, its hard to show that you're honestly listening to a conversation when they talk about something you're not interested ).

but sometimes, he wants to do gay stuffs with me as a joke.

hesastar18
January 7th, 2010, 03:47 AM
gosh i hate being in "lust" with a str8 guy it kinda suck bkuz u MAY not ever have him but there might be chance that ull get him.

Starlight Blaze
January 7th, 2010, 06:39 AM
yeah i am just about in love with a straight guy
i told him, he was fine, all he said was im not like that...
but we have fun together and stuff, so i just live with it

charlie3322
January 7th, 2010, 05:29 PM
i agree with david. how would u feel if a girl tried to turn u straight u have no right to how other people choose to live.

munchausen
January 8th, 2010, 01:19 AM
I'm a bi guy, and I had a crush on a straight guy thing is I hated him as a person and he actually bullied me. I still thought he was hot though.

theOperaGhost
January 8th, 2010, 01:32 AM
I see it that the bottom line is that if a person is straight, they're straight, you won't turn them, you have no right to at all.

If you know someone is straight and you're gay, then honestly what's the bloody point in perusing them? They're not going to be in a relationship with you.

I agree with this point of view, and I figure it to be almost universally valid, but the almost is a very key word there. I happen to know a person who was straight, and never seemed to be confused by it... and then out of the blue his best friend kissed him (best friend turns out to be gay). And now they've been in a relationship for some time.

So... it's not impossible. Just unlikely. :P

I agree with these. Like the second David said it is possible, but if a person is truly straight, there's a very good chance you're not going to turn them and you have no right to try to.

iamniokekun
January 8th, 2010, 02:14 AM
I'm not gay, but if a gay guy asked me out, and I was friends with him....i would probably say no but agree to spend more time with them.

charlie3322
January 8th, 2010, 05:26 PM
I'm not gay, but if a gay guy asked me out, and I was friends with him....i would probably say no but agree to spend more time with them.


thts very sweet

tbboltz92
January 8th, 2010, 11:46 PM
i cant tell you im in love with like all my straight freinds.. it sucks soo much

xSEBBIE
February 8th, 2010, 04:15 AM
ive been in love with my friend joel for 3 years now. Ive never been completely sure if hes felt the same way cuz hes had a few girlfriends, but i asked him recently and he said the timing was really bad thats all. I told him i doubted he was interested but he said that he had really good self-control and for the first year he was ignorant of my feelings and the other two he was in a relationship. I don't know where to go from here.

boysboysboys
February 8th, 2010, 04:19 AM
ive liked a guy for a few years but he doesnt like me any more cos there was a rumour that i like him.
so now he sort of hates me!

and theres another guy that i like and i think he knows that i like him
he give me these looks and i dont know what to do!!!

Nelson
February 8th, 2010, 08:28 AM
I have liked a straight guy. But i learned my lesson, its best to be friends XD

Cynic
February 8th, 2010, 03:45 PM
I see it that the bottom line is that if a person is straight, they're straight, you won't turn them, you have no right to at all.

If you know someone is straight and you're gay, then honestly what's the bloody point in perusing them? They're not going to be in a relationship with you.


We all know this is true, but some of us just have a hard time accepting it. Like me.