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heyhey27
December 31st, 2009, 12:37 AM
There's this girl that I has me absolutely heels over head. We have A LOT of history. We dated two times before, and really liked each other. Well th elast time we dated was last year, and well I still really REALLY like her, and we have a lot of fun together, and I think she still likes me. Idk what to do, because she had this boyfriend who had to movie to another state, and they did stuff together, and she really can't have a serious reationship because she is still in so much like with him. We had had a little thing for a week this past year, but she explained how she still can't get over him and then things were awkward between us and we broke up. I told her during this time that I was okay with her still liking him, but I'm not. I really want to go back out with her, but it's just going to be weird that she is still likes this guy, and me too if we do go out. What do I do?
XxHaViiK
December 31st, 2009, 12:58 AM
Well, all you can really do is wait until she gets over the guy.
KaelKaos
December 31st, 2009, 01:13 AM
Like Desmond said, the only thing you can do is wait. Give her some time, eventually she will get over the guy and that is when you can make your move.
Nihilus
December 31st, 2009, 04:24 AM
Wait until she stops liking him. Long distance relationships usually don't work in the long run, so just wait.
Art_dude
December 31st, 2009, 06:48 PM
There's a reason you two broke up twice before. Don't go down the road of winning her back. She's clearly moved on and has strong feelings for this guy of hers. She wouldn't have gone back to him after your one week 'fling' if she didn't have a strong bond with him. My advice would be to move on with your life. It would be better for both of you to save the energy and heart ache of dragging this on any longer than you have to.
nutrick
January 2nd, 2010, 01:32 AM
There's a reason you two broke up twice before. Don't go down the road of winning her back. She's clearly moved on and has strong feelings for this guy of hers. She wouldn't have gone back to him after your one week 'fling' if she didn't have a strong bond with him. My advice would be to move on with your life. It would be better for both of you to save the energy and heart ache of dragging this on any longer than you have to.
agreed. as soon as you try and play the waiting game, you're already setting yourself up for disappointment. she already has a boyfriend, why would she go back to you? move on, find another one who deserves you, also learn from your mistakes and figure out why you fucked up in the first place, and then fix it next time around.
Cheers,
Patrick
www.patrickdomingo.com
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