Blind date?

[Art_dude]

As most of you know, I started homeschooling last year which although has been great academically, obviously has its drawbacks when it comes to dating. I've posted before asking on different ways I could try and meet girls and I got some great feedback. I've tried being more outgoing whenever I'm around other teens and I've regained so much confidence in being flirtatious Thanks VT :)

My sister (18) just got back from her first semester in College. During the break she plans on visiting her old highschool at an alumni event (I should mention this is an all girls private school lol) Being the great sister she is she suggested that I come with her and she can introduce me to some girls she knows there that are juniors :P She even showed me a picture on facebook of a particular friend of hers that she thought would be a good match. I think it's a great idea, but I have only one concern... I'm going to SCREW THIS UP....:(

It's not that I'm shy in front of girls, or that I'm not confident. On the contrary all of my friends are girls so I'm very comfortable around them. Also like I said I'm much more confident now at taking the initiative and flirting etc,. However I am still concerned about this girl not taking interest in me...I'm afraid we'll be introduced, we'll talk for a few minutes, have a perfectly nice conversation and then other people will interject and mingle and she won't even remember me at the end of the evening. (It's like a cocktail party type of thing) How can I make sure it's a memorable introduction?

In other words (this is aimed at the ladies here) what was it about a meeting a guy you liked that you found particularly memorable or sexy? Is there anything I can do to boost my chances at hitting it off with this girl? Particular things I should say? Particular things I should stay away from? Any tips are greatly appreciate :)

[cherry_boi]

when i meet guys the first thing that catches my (not in terms of looks) is how interested/focused on me they are, eye contact when u say hello and a flirty smiles gets me interested.

also plan ahead, find out fron us sister what she's into so u have some researched topics of interests, ask ur sister for any funny/embarrassing stories about the girl so u can flirt with her about that, if she'll feel more comfortable around u if u can take her embarrassing/funny moments with good humor and turn them into witty/flirty conversational topics

if she shows interest don't be afraid to grab her by the hand, or nudge her playfully.....just make sure she's flirting back and don't do it too often

aslo if the convo seems to be dying down ask her to introduce u to her other friends, 'm sure they will have a blast making fun of u or her or both of u and they will definitely talk to her about you later so that's a good way to keep her mind on you after u two part

i'm not sure what's guna be going on at this event but it's always fun when the guy suggests u two do some kind of activity...going for a walk, ask her to hang out afterwards, idk lol come up with something the two of u can do

dress well, ooze confidence, and just be generally charismatic.... and don't be afraid to be somewhat of a goof if the situation calls for it (in a tasteful flirty way) it will make both of u more comfortable with eachother

and make sure u get some way of contacting her later...ask her for her number or e-mail

good luck :D

[Art_dude]

Thanks Cherry_boi! You know what's weird, that is EXACTLY how I remember girls after meeting them: I guess the same 'rules of attraction' apply. I don't know why it never occurred to me before lol XD I've always been pretty good at flirting but hopefully this can take it to a new level! Thanks man!