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ddominator123
May 16th, 2006, 06:12 PM
Well I havn't had the time of my life lately I've been sad. Ya see here is the story. I love this girl more then anything in the world and I would do anything for her. I am always there for her and always love her no matter what. She is the world to me. Well I've been stupid and I've messed up before and well I really screwed up. So I broke up with her so she could have a better life. She started dating a new guy and I didnt like it all that much and i showed it but i guess I shouldnt have cuz it just got her mad. We dated for almost a year and loved eachother dearly. I just dont get it. Now she isnt dating anyone and she dont seem like she has givin me much thought. This whole time, every day I think about her. Im madly in love with her. But she dont love me anymore. I just wish i could some how make her happy. I dont know what to do and when I say anything about it she wont talk to me and will wait till the next day to even speak to me. I guess I just screw up too much. What should I do to make her not pissed at me..maybe like me?...but i want her to be happy thats really all I want. With me or without me. Should I give up or just let her be on her way?
TheWizard
May 17th, 2006, 04:44 PM
I'm not a good sourse for that kind of advice. I have no experience with it. Sorry I can't help.
kolte
May 17th, 2006, 05:00 PM
well, i guess don't be so dramatic.
chicks hate it when guys are to dramatic.
just be like you were when you guys met.
remind her of the happy go lucky fun person you were before.
Elscire
May 17th, 2006, 09:01 PM
umm i've never been in a relationship but from all the anime i watch its, appologize to her, telling her that you broke up with her so she could have a better life, also say that you can't stop loving her and you'll do anything to make up.
Sapphire
May 18th, 2006, 11:16 AM
Just act normal around her for a while, make her see why she liked/loved you in the first place. Then as Game Freak said, explain why you broke up and that you still really love her and that youll never stop loving her.
TeenInNeed
May 19th, 2006, 04:13 AM
man that sucks... i know the feeling. my ex-girlfriend broke up with me after dating me for 2 weeks, and i didnt talk to her for as long as we dated. I loved her with all my heart, and i still do. Its been over a year since we broke up too. She in a way is the same type of thing, i still love her, i dont think she loves me. Each time i call her, because were still friends she seems pissed off at me for calling and i don't know why. Her excuse for breaking up with me is that i was the only actual nice boyfriend she ever had, she was used to asshole boyfriends (how screwed up is that?). Just try and be a regular friend, she might start to like you again. Remember lol the girls are the ones that are all emotional and stuff when it comes to this stuff, so give her a bit of space and let her decide for herself, don't try and push her. Hope I helped....
ddominator123
May 20th, 2006, 08:25 PM
Well thanks a lot guys/girls, we are talking a lot again and I'm happy she is talking to me. Thats at least what I want. Thats what makes me happy. Thanks for the help I'm gonna be myself and if its layed out for us to some day be together then I can't wait. Because I love her like crazy and thats never gonna change. But at least she is my friend....I know I said that like 10 times but I'm happy about it. I think we mite go back out some day but yea its ok for now we are doin good not fighting or anything. I'll prolly be back if anything else comes up but it seems like its all turning out good
Sapphire
May 21st, 2006, 02:46 PM
Good for you hun. Hope things continue to go well.xxx
TeenInNeed
May 23rd, 2006, 04:58 AM
glad i could help.
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