Are all step-dads giant fags?

[pol852]

Hey, my step-dad is a stuip piece of ____, and I was wondering if your guy'es step-mom/dads are like mine. I get grounded for the faggish reasons, he thinks he owns me, and my mom loves him. That is what i have to deal with...........

[Malcolm Tucker]

I'm kinda in the exact same situation, I love him and I hate him =\ He can be the worst person in the world at times :(

[Watchfulness]

If you find the nature of you're step-father with distate, have you considered talking with your mother or any other adult relative.
They could provide useful advice on how to not have stressful relationship on any member you are having trouble with.
Try talking with your step-father about any aspect you find offensive that he acts upon you and tell, with reasoning, on how he could have a better relationship with you.

[Sapphire]

My situation is different since I'm older and move between three different residences throughout the year.
But even when I was younger, my stepmum let dad deal with disciplining us and my stepdad-to-be was much the same. That was aided by mum and dad keeping their distinct roles as mother and father.

You should speak with your mum and your stepdad about any problems you have with how you are treated.

[KaelKaos]

As much as I disapprove of your word usage...

No, not all step-dads are jerks. You should be able to answer that question yourself. Yours might be an exception and I agree with Sapphire in that you should discuss this with your mom. But imagine how hard it is for the average step dad, he has to win over the love of his wifes children and really become a replacement dad. I think initially people dislike their step fathers without even getting to know them.

[Lord C]

If it's a massive problem you should not only talk with your mum, but also with him. If you feel that he shouldn't have any disciplinary power over you then make it clear.

[Hatsune Miku]

Not all step-dads are jerks. The lucky ones get the nice step-dads. I had a step-dad and he was a fucking dick. When I was little he would slap my hand. Once till it bleed. He once stepped on my kitten. Then I started yelling at him for stepping on her and he started going all calling me a "fucking fag" and telling me to "shut the fuck up" I mean come on. Stepping on a kitten is like stepping on a crawling baby. Anyways Im ranting here.

You should talk to your mom about how he treats you. I did and my mom finally realized how much of a dick head he was and divorced him.

[Kitty Purry]

Well i have a step mom and shes not like that shes actaually nice. But dud yolu should talk to ur familt besides your mom.

[Rutherford The Brave]

Are all kids who complain about their parents spoiled? Yeah basically. Learn to deal with your step father.

[2D]

Are all kids who complain about their parents spoiled? Yeah basically. Learn to deal with your step father.

This.

[Lord C]

Are all kids who complain about their parents spoiled? Yeah basically. Learn to deal with your step father.

Ok, tell that to some people in the 'Abuse' section. It should go down a treat.

Anyway, it's not true. I've never complained about my parents because they are great, but I can imagine some parents can be crap. A friend of mine is far from spoiled. His parents go on at him so much because he used a slang word that he decided to walk out of his house and go to his grandparents on Christmas Day.

[Rutherford The Brave]

Ok, tell that to some people in the 'Abuse' section. It should go down a treat.

I do not care, honestly my dad put a gun to my head, and Hey you do not hear me complaining about him.

[Sapphire]

I do not care, honestly my dad put a gun to my head, and Hey you do not hear me complaining about him.
Just because you didn't "complain" doesn't mean that anyone who does is spoiled.

[Apparitions]

Are all kids who complain about their parents spoiled? Yeah basically. Learn to deal with your step father.What a short sighted thing to say. I have good parents but some people don't. They get a load of shit from them. Their parents basically bully them. How can you say that these people are spoilt? These kids might have tried to deal with them but their parents keep on being pricks to them. Even if a stepfather has just come into the family and wants respect it is still wrong. If they want respect then they should EARN it by being a real parent, not a prick to their children. Anybody who is going to give their children a step parent should think a lot about what it is going to be like for them as it will affect them a lot.

All that I have said could be a load of bullshit but I think it is right and it is what I feel about this.

EDIT: I'm guessing you are saying that they are spoilt because they actually have parents. I think it is quality not quantity. It is better to have one parent that loves you than one or two that treat their kids like shit.

[Apparitions]

I do not care, honestly my dad put a gun to my head, and Hey you do not hear me complaining about him.
Your dad put a GUN to his own son's head and you did nothing?

[theOperaGhost]

Are all kids who complain about their parents spoiled? Yeah basically. Learn to deal with your step father.

^^This!

But no, if I had step parents, I don't think they would be giant bundles of kindling.

[Rutherford The Brave]

Your dad put a GUN to his own son's head and you did nothing?

Ok stop and think a little. I was 5 right, I was barely 4.5 feet tall. My dad, a 245 pound, 6.7-6.8 guy. Wow, I wonder what he might do if I try to punch him? Ah right overwhelm me.

[Apparitions]

Ok stop and think a little. I was 5 right, I was barely 4.5 feet tall. My dad, a 245 pound, 6.7-6.8 guy. Wow, I wonder what he might do if I try to punch him? Ah right overwhelm me.
I didn't mean violence against him or anything like that. I meant that you didn't tell anyone, even if you were 5.

[BruceWalt]

No, and Yes. When I lived with my mum she was married 4 times, and only one was worth getting to know. Thats why I live with my pop and sisters.

[Rutherford The Brave]

I didn't mean violence against him or anything like that. I meant that you didn't tell anyone, even if you were 5.

What could I do? I was forced to live with this man. He locked me in the apartment, and we had no money. I was 5, most people who are abused at that age. Are so afraid that telling the cops maybe impossible.

[XxHaViiK]

Yup. My step dad is an ASS---HOLE...

[Apparitions]

What could I do? I was forced to live with this man. He locked me in the apartment, and we had no money. I was 5, most people who are abused at that age. Are so afraid that telling the cops maybe impossible.
Hmm to be honest I've never been in that position so I shouldn't really say what I would do or anything. I'm sorry that you had to live like that.

[Bard95]

i know completely wer ur coming from... my step dad is the same way... talk to ur mum and if u can ur real dad... he always gets me through it... BTW when ur calm about it, it makes things a whole heck of a lot better

[iamniokekun]

I do not care, honestly my dad put a gun to my head, and Hey you do not hear me complaining about him.

Yeah you care. The fact that u posted something so dramatic means u want others to sympathize ur pain.
And you've lied to yourself saying that you don't care. Any HUMAN that got held @ gunpoint would have strong feelings, but by your FATHER???

dude, who are u trying to kid?

[Mzor203]

This s almost funny.

People are not jerks because they are step-dads.

Step-dads are not step-dads because they are jerks.

You're creating a cause and effect which does not exist.

Some people are jerks. If you happened to get one as a step-dad, this is a sad thing.

[Englishrose]

Mine personally isn't. He's been in my life since I was 2. He isn't a step-dad, he's my dad. I love him to bits, and I'm a complete Daddy's girl. I can always get my way with him rather than my Mam. The fact he isn't my biological father just doesn't even come into it. He's a better dad than my real father could ever be. Blood totally isn't thicker than water.

[Zero Beat]

Hey, my step-dad is a stuip piece of ____, and I was wondering if your guy'es step-mom/dads are like mine. I get grounded for the faggish reasons, he thinks he owns me, and my mom loves him. That is what i have to deal with...........
Mine is the same, he thinks he owns me, and thinks he can get my life running how he wants it. My mum loves him, which makes me sick. I've moved 5 times, because, my step father wanted to move, because he wasnt happy... Does he think about me, or my mother? Ummm... not one bit.


I HATE MY STEP DAD.

I remember seeing a post saying something along the lines of:

"When a user says: I wish my step dad would die, they dont mean it they just say it in the heat of the moment" - Ant at some point.

:) I wish mine would die. A long painful bloody death. :cool:

[karl]

Are all kids who complain about their parents spoiled? Yeah basically. Learn to deal with your step father.

I wish I was spoiled. My drunken father told my mom to 'get that fucking queer' out of my house. If my mom ever got a new guy in her life, I'd give him a chance, he surely couldn't be any worse. If I'm complaining, well...

[Ryhanna]

Are all kids who complain about their parents spoiled? Yeah basically. Learn to deal with your step father.

you did NOT say that!!!

Believe it or not, some of us have REASONS for hating our step dads! Such as mine being a cheating evil dunce faced pathetic old ye-ha!
And NO ONE believes me. So maybe before you post things, you could consider other possiblities other than labelling everyone else with problems SPOILT

[Dazzle]

He punches me and hurts and the worst part he's not even married to my mom.