It Takes More To Make Myself Cum Now

[mjojo]

I notice that the erections I get from touching myself to bring them on are much harder and fuller than the ones that just happen on thier own.

Like if an erection occurs on it's own it feels normal. But when I touch myself to force an erection to occur it feels really hard and tighter/bigger. Does anyone else notice this?

It seems like the more I jerk off over time, the harder my erections are. Back when I first started getting erections for the first time they were very soft and flexible and it took almost no time and almost no stimulation to speak of to make myself cum. Now my erections are stiff and hard and I have to spend much more time jerking off before I'm able to cum.

Like back when I first started masturbating I could jerk off for 30 seconds and then I'd cum. Now I have to jerk off for at least 10 minutes before I'm able to cum. I guess this is because I've made my dick stronger/more durable from jerking off so much and now I can handle more stimulation and it takes more stimulation to make me cum?

[wofg]

yeah i get what you mean...
i used to only take a minute to cum but now i really have to "work" on it

[mjojo]

i used to only take a minute to cum but now i really have to "work" on it

Exactly. But why is this? Since you put it that way I have to say that yeah I have to be kind of rougher now and "work" at it too. It doesn't just take longer it's harder now then it was before to get enough stimulation. I have to be rough now where as in the beginning I could be gentle and it worked.

[Commander Thor]

It's called 'maturing' mate. ;)
Early on, your sex drive isn't fully developed, and your hormones are raging. These two things in conjunction with each-other is what lets your orgasm happen with very little effort.
As your sex drive develops more, and your hormones are toned down a bit, your orgasm becomes 'harder' to achieve.
It's just a fact of life.

[mjojo]

A lot of times I can't reach orgasm unless I spend an hour or so jerking off rough. Like it doesn't feel satisfying enough unless I do that.

When I cum now it's way more intense than it used to be because I'm jerking off so much more but it takes so much longer to reach the point of cumming than it used to.

Usually I'll have to put some lube under my foreskin because I'm jerking off so long that my pre-cum isn't enough. The lube really helps. If it wasn't for me lubing under my foreskin I don't think I could cum because it gets real red and raw under there after jerking off for more than a few minutes.

[Wiwwm0]

Well it has always taking me 45 seconds to cum so it doesn't make a diffrence

[Tiberius]

3 month old bump :locked: