Jerking with Bro??

[donidoni111]

I posted a while ago that i caught my brother in the act and he ended up saying join in ?? I didnt want to at the time. anyway...i caught him agaiin as my parents are away and LONG story short we watched a porn a jerked off. No touching nothing gay like that... I feel akward now and we havent talked about it. Should I bring it up or just leave it alone !!!

Feeling really bad now !

thanks guys

[KaelKaos]

Why do you feel bad?

What you did was completely normal, I'm sure millions of other teenagers have done the same thing.

Unless you feel like somethings wrong, you don't need to bring it up to him, just dismiss it and move on.

[darkiouz]

Dont bring it up... probly just cause an awkward moment.
Best to keep quiet about these things.

[Lan_Man]

just keep quiet..my cousin and i did the same thing and we have seen each other tons of times since then, and we just act like it never happened

[Ballin2much]

If you fell really, really bad about it maybe talk to him about it, but I would advise you to keep quiet about that, it might ruin your relationship, or just be an awkward situation you don't need to be in.

[Fusion]

As others have said it is probably best staying quiet about the situation and move on, if you can't talk to him about it tell him you feel bad and ask if he does

[blingibong]

personally
let it pass cos if he hasnt talked to u about he doesnt want it brought up so leave it alone he might not want it brought up....

[Giles]

If it's bothering you, then mention it. If it's just something that you'd like to talk about then I wouldn't bother, there's probably a reason he's not talking about it...

[Weather]

Hey. Mention it to him. And it might be after masteurbation guilt.

[Wonders]

just leave it alone... he could tkill you or something!!! LOL!

[joey95]

dont worry about mann!

act like it never happened

[NMon]

If you feel like talking, then do, in private.
It's normal, brothers kind of 'teaching' or whatever they do. (Never happened to me)

[trouble]

just keep quiet....if he brings it up....talk to him about how you feel.....in your case it was probably a one time thing

[enzenzz]

if it really bothers you then talk to him about it, that way you know how he feels, and if regrets it, then forget it ever happened also. best not to ruin your relationship over this.

[wofg]

dont do anything..
i dont know why you even asked a question about this
it seems as if you were trying to brag about yourself jerking off with your bro

[ASk8rDude92]

talking about it with him is probably the best thing to do, just don't be awkward about it. sit him down, be straightforward and just tell him how you feel.

[iamniokekun]

you didn't do anything wrong.

I've never j/o with my bro, but I'll try it for the lolz.

[Giles]

you didn't do anything wrong.

I've never j/o with my bro, but I'll try it for the lolz.

'for the lolz' Yes, it would be very 'lolz' if you tried it and it completely ruined your relationship... Just remember it's incest, and illegal in quite a few countries.

[strata8]

'for the lolz' Yes, it would be very 'lolz' if you tried it and it completely ruined your relationship... Just remember it's incest, and illegal in quite a few countries.

How could it possibly be incest if they didn't touch each other, or even get aroused from one another?

[iamniokekun]

'for the lolz' Yes, it would be very 'lolz' if you tried it and it completely ruined your relationship... Just remember it's incest, and illegal in quite a few countries.

wtf are u talking about??? It's not incest.
And porn is illegal 4 minors but most watch it anyway too.

[SurfDudeJason]

Remember guys...They didnt do anything..Like touching

its not incest....Dam..give the guy a break

[charlie3322]

i am there with ya dude its crazy how many people acuze u uv incest zeeesh!

[WaahZombie]

yeah. itd be good not to bring it up.
just let it happen. ;)

[BigBulge]

i think its wtong

[StraightAcE]

yea like everyone said act like it never happened

[thedisman]

so long as u did no touchin it aint incest

[JayKay13_13]

I don't know why you feel bad if he asked you to join in, but i wouldn't bring it up.

[onitsuka]

leave it, i could get awkward

[Billy15]

my brothers only 10 so i doubt he knows what j/o is lol but even if he was older i would probably feel real awkward to and doubt i would ever bring it up.

[janjanTRIP_]

if you feel bad about it, dont do it again! : P

i know this doesn't really help.. but .. its the first step. lol.

[iJoel]

A lot of people here are saying keep quiet, I disagree. It's going to surface itself some time or another. Best to get it out in the open when your parents aren't there. Just talk about it etc. Bring closure to the subject. You didn't do anything wrong and you both jacked off, big whoop. You'll be fine.

[Boom Pow]

It was awkward but i think it brought you 2 bro's closer together...

[gone]

What's done is done and you feeling this way isn't going to change it so just chill dude, nothing to worry about ;)

[TheFame]

Just bring it up and make it clear that it was no big deal. It will make you feel better if you talk about it to him

[jay123]

talk to him it will help

[HSJock206]

It happens to me and its something that just happens. Perfectly normal. No reason to bring it up or talk about it. Don't need to sit around and try to figure it out. As long as there isnt any touching or stuff like that, then just let it happen. You have to jerk off and no reason to always have to hide it.

[Giles]

Ah right, I misread his post.
I stick by what I said originally though, I still think he should be careful.

[lolboi06]

ya i totally agree dont bring it up unless he brings it up

[darren1990]

Me and my twin brother have jerked off together and stuff, but were still fine, if your that uncomfortable then don't do it again and don't bring it up x

[cherry_boi]

No touching nothing gay like that...

ugg -.-

<hates that everyone dislikes homosexuality and goes to extreme lengths to avoid or justify it>

anyway...

ask urself why u feel worried/bothered by it then talk it out with ur bro...he may be feeling the same way or he may be able to put u at ease

find a way to address the problem and deal with it, ignoring an issue never works out well...

[NMon]

wtf are u talking about??? It's not incest.
And porn is illegal 4 minors but most watch it anyway too.

And pirating is illegal too, but people still do it

but it is incest if you masturbate with your bro. If he just tells you about it it's not, but since masturbation is a technical form of sex, masturbating together is incest.

[james625]

Do NOT keep quiet. This could casue alot of mental trauma in the future. First, talk to your brother and then you might have to get your parents and maybe a therapist involved. The bottom line is: don't suppress!

[flakes]

i think it's cool. atleast you have a bro! I don't.=)talk to him about it and move on.

[Nelson]

Leave it alone.. unless he brings it up

[Freshprince]

Just try to getiou of your head and dont bring it up.

[Jockstrap]

No dude you need to put it behind you and and never bring it up again.

[Billy15]

i dont want to knock anyone here but if two brothers want to j/o together whats the big deal? like i said b4 my brother is only 10 so he doesnt even know he has a penis lol but if he was 14-18 and we watched porn together and one thing led to another i dont think thats the end of the world or anything and especially since all they did was j/o with no other touching. he were teens and teens get the horns and just because i might not do it im not going to knock somebody who does and if after that first time if it bothers you then just dont do it again. i think its just growing up and goofing off lol.

[Bradfloyd]

thats wierd i think it would b awkward

[steezypeezy]

i have never jerked off with my bro, but I would kind of like to
is that weird?

[John_Sharpful]

Personally, I am totally fine that you can masturbate with your brother. My brother is 5 years older than me, so we have never been close enough to do anything like that. If both of your are comfortable with it, then best of luck, but if you are to scared to, then don't bring it up and wait for him to make the next move.

[pageplant77]

Its over. Its done. At least you didn't touch eachother so thats the good thing

[agentv]

you shouldn't feel strange it is natural

[biscuit]

I posted a while ago that i caught my brother in the act and he ended up saying join in ?? I didnt want to at the time. anyway...i caught him agaiin as my parents are away and LONG story short we watched a porn a jerked off. No touching nothing gay like that... I feel akward now and we havent talked about it. Should I bring it up or just leave it alone !!!

Feeling really bad now !

thanks guys

You shouldn't feel bad. You should be happy. Some brothers hate each other. But you guys were able to jack off in the same room.

And like you said, you didn't touch or anything.

So many guys jack off with friends and brothers and cousins and stuff. Maybe you could do it again, see if you guys loosen up some more so that you don't feel this way.

Or talk about it. You may find that it was pretty cool.

[WakeyEr]

OK, Its nothing to be worried about. Some tools have issues with famlies being "Open" with eachother. Most of them are probly Only Childs, so they are jelous. (Ima only Child.. Just FYI) Dont worry about it at all. Its fine, legal, and I would say, fun. If you both dont mind doing it, and there is no touching or anything, then its fine. If its bothering you, yes, talk to him. Keeping shit in and not saying what you have to, mostly if its something thats bothering you, It will make it worse. Because its all going to buid up and sometime, your going to blow, and thats going to come out along with some other things that wasent planed. But then again, its up to you, but I would say something if It was bothering me. Hope this helps

[Psychintraining]

i've done that... it's no big deal.. just if it gets awkward stop

[zach_15]

It's no big deal i've jerked with my bro.

[Jmann]

ummm well i dont have a bro but i want one(to late now cuz i would want one my age) but i wouldnt bring it up but just be normal around him and act like it never happen.good luck with it

[SuperYachtDude666]

be quiet about it

[Jack Naden]

i'd juat not talk about it. i've seen my brothers and cousins things. never did anything with them but we just act like it never happend

[Scarface]

yea its kinda awkward now but i wouldn't bring it up. its normal just go on with your day lol. hope this helps

[LoginLeo]

U really don't have to feel bad!!
It's very common, and it's ok !!

[Mattasaur94]

Bring it up at the dinner table... :D
I'm joking, but seriously, I'd just move on, I have two older brothers, but I avoid anything the relates to sex or masturbation when it comes to talking to them about it or... yea...
Only because it ends up with them saying I'm gay because I don't play football... >_>

[briefboy]

why is this act considered as bad, it is not you love each other.
everybody uses the term incest, it is love, and a natural act of the human species

[insandude]

dont bring it up anymore and try to forget it :)