Why do I feel like this??? >=(

[Don3]

Okay I’m 13 (as you may already know) and I’m confused about my sexuality, I’m not sure if I’m in denial about being gay/bi or if I’m over thinking things. I’m pretty sure I still like girls but the thought of not knowing what/who I am is really pissing me off. I have a girlfriend and I like her a lot. I’ve yet to get a boner from a guy but I notice them more now and I also want to know how it feels to give another guy oral…everyone says I’m str8 and a little curious or that’s it’s just hormones but I think that a straight guy wouldn’t think these types of things… after a lot of consideration, I don’t want to be gay/bi (no offense). The thought of anal with another guy doesn’t really turn me on….I haven’t done anything sexual with a guy or a girl, but when I masturbate I only think of girls( i try doing it to gay gay porn and i don't get up, lesbian porn really turns me on though)….what would you say I am?:confused::confused:

[ktkurbst0mp]

I would say you're straight.
Though, as you're thirteen, you have a lot of time to still figure all that out.
Whether they want to admit it or not, most guys have thought about things with the same sex.
That's why you always see threads on here about guys who have given their friend's hand jobs and blow jobs. It's because everyone at that age has crazy hormones. Who knows, maybe you'll experiment with a friend and realize you're gay. Or maybe, you'll realize it's just the hormones and you really want to be with a girl.
It's too early to tell right now. Especially since you haven't been with anyone yet.
But as of right now, I'd say you're a completely normal straight 13 year old.
:)

[KaelKaos]

You need to stop worrying about it so much.

You're 13, and most likely in the beginning stages of puberty, dealing with hormones, and other complicating things. If asked, I would say you are a straight 13 year old, dealing with the normal effects of hormones.

[2D]

Focus on more important things at the moment. You're most likely straight.

[nina1991]

Don't worry about it right now, you are only 13 and things will get better as you are growing up :)

[Fusion]

It happens to a lot of people mate sorry to say that, its ok.

Its basically your hormone levels, they are a lot higher during puberty (to help you mature) there isn't anything really you can do anything about it, but it seems you are straight to me :)

[nik021]

Lol, your straighter than me and I'm borderline, so yours probs straight :)

[Don3]

Thank you everyone...but idk i got my first kisses (from a girl) and i was hard the whole time...idk if that counts as a sexual encounter but yeah.....does that mean i'm not gay? and i have seen men naked before and a guy i found hot in all but boxers but only liked his abs and face thats it......what do you guys think now.

[Severus Snape]

You are straight. You only get it up around girls and here's the interesting part- you describe traits of guys that are not so much erotic in that they are features you want. you find things attractive that you personally want to have yourself, but may not be able to develop yet. That's why the big buff guy with abs in his underwear is appealing to you, but in a non sexual way. Does that make sense?

[Don3]

anyone else?

[sixinches]

I agree with the last post; sometimes I feel that I might be bi, because of my feelings about one particular guy—my best friend—what I would do with him or stuff, and he is very attractive. Sometime I really just think that I wanna be with a girl like later in life, and would rather have sex (intercourse) with a girl than guy, but I like the features in my friend because he is someone that people would say is hot. I feel like I would be hot if I had those features; therefore, I am attracted to those features—not necessarily in him, but that I would like to have them myself. So I feel that this explanation may apply to your situation.

As for "getting up" during a kiss, your body does that naturally. It may only happen when you think of kissing/doing stuff with a girl, or it may with a guy, too—you don't really know until you've tried, so don't be so quick to label yourself. You're 13 and have plenty of time to grow up and have experiences and relationship with a lot of different people; just enjoy what experiences come your way and learn from them as you grow up—don't worry about what to call yourself; it'll all become clearer later. :]

[greg95]

Okay I’m 13 (as you may already know) and I’m confused about my sexuality, I’m not sure if I’m in denial about being gay/bi or if I’m over thinking things. I’m pretty sure I still like girls but the thought of not knowing what/who I am is really pissing me off. I have a girlfriend and I like her a lot. I’ve yet to get a boner from a guy but I notice them more now and I also want to know how it feels to give another guy oral…everyone says I’m str8 and a little curious or that’s it’s just hormones but I think that a straight guy wouldn’t think these types of things… after a lot of consideration, I don’t want to be gay/bi (no offense). The thought of anal with another guy doesn’t really turn me on….I haven’t done anything sexual with a guy or a girl, but when I masturbate I only think of girls( i try doing it to gay gay porn and i don't get up, lesbian porn really turns me on though)….what would you say I am?:confused::confused:
u talk about being gay/bi like it only revolves around sex.
being straight/bi/gay is about feelings, do u feel attracted to boys ? do u see urself having a long-term relationship with another guy ? like spending time together, going to the cinema, going out to diner as 2 lovers, ... ?

being straight/bi/gay is only words, go where ur heart tells you too, fuck labels

[thepieman]

Okay I’m 13

This is all I needed to read. It's way too early for you to decide what you are yet. Give it time. These things can take people a very long time, and your sexuality can even change as an adult. So, even though you probably don't want to hear this, it is just hormones. Give it time, you'll know what is right.

[penguin13]

Don't be worrying what stereotypical group you're placed in at the moment. Just enjoy your time and after a while what you have in your heart will determine this for yourself. Not any of us!

[Don3]

No, i'm not attracted to boys in an emotional way....at all and so what if i'm 13? i know people who have known they are gay since they were 12 so what about them???

[greg95]

No, i'm not attracted to boys in an emotional way....at all and so what if i'm 13? i know people who have known they are gay since they were 12 so what about them???

I guess that means ur attracted to girls, so the problem is solved, isn't it ? ;)

[Bluearmy]

You're sexually confused because you can't handle the intents rage of teenage hormones. You're also watching pornography at the age of 13.

If your lack of a firm sexual definition bothers you so much, you should talk to someone about it. Somebody that knows what it is all about.

[Don3]

It doesn't bother me that much its just the fact that shouldn't it go away once i know what your sexuality is?