Masturbation and Time.

[Erick]

Hi. Im Erick and I am 17 years old.
Throughout my teenage years I've learned to jerk off once in a while, but when I was 13-15 I simply could not control myself and because of that I jerked off almost everyday.

Nowadays I think that I invested a lot of time with that lifestyle because when I am horny I like to take my time to stimulate myself and then have a masturbation session. Although I was completely conscious about loosing time I simply wanted to have a great time and cum, and thats not fair! We as teenagers need more self control to STOP and move on with our own lives.

Why the ejaculation part is so good that we just like to cum and be happy?
Now I am on a winter break from college and I dont have important things to do (or I forget those important things) and I am horny and I want to j/o.

WHAT DO U THINK?

I think that without my teenage once a day hornyness I would use my time wisely.

[nick]

I dont understand your question.

You feel the need to wank - so do it, its natural, its good for you, and it doesnt need to take very long. I dont see how having a wank once a day means you are not using your time wisely.

[IowaBoy]

Use self discipline, hold back on masturbation until every important task is complete (no cutting corners either). Then after the tasks are complete set back and relax.

[dantay]

See I can't understand how most guys are like "yeah I wank three or four times a day!". I just can't find the time or space. What do you do, wank at the dinner table or in the school toliets or something. I'm lucky if I can get one in per day!

[Erick]

Me too dantay! Once per day is a lot of time invested in that hahahaha.

This is a great topic, comment! THANK YALL.

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[The Joker]

Do it at night, when there isn't really too many productive things you can be doing.

[hiker1992]

Well the need for that kind of stimulation is primal, it's something that we just naturally feel. That being said, it isn't a waste of time to fulfill a basic need. There's no such thing as too much time spent, as long as you, yourself, see it a viable amount. Obviously, in this case you don't, but that's not to say that it is too much, or is wrong. If you have the time to do it, go for it! And the fact that you actually set aside time and have a "session" speaks a lot in terms of your self-control. Normally, guys do it impulsively, but in any magazine or book that talks about masturbation, they all say to set time aside, and actually enjoy it. You should enjoy meeting a basic need. That's why we have gourmet food, that's why we have all the luxuries we have. Why not have luxury while masturbating?

[Erick]

Definitely when I jerk off I enjoy it. Like you said is a luxury and a very nice moment. But then, when I return to my duties I think about all the work that I have to do.

Sometimes I am horny in the middle of my work and it hits me: I need to jerk off! But I loose a LOT of time! And then I feel like an unresponsible person.

Since my 16 year old birthday I try to control my self specially on school weeks and I try to reduce the once per day jerk off to two - three per week.

[Ballin2much]

Compared to a lot of 15 yr olds thats not that much, so I dont really get this question.

[Erick]

The question is that, when you have as an habit to jerk once, twice or more times per day what do you think of your time left?

Is jerkin off interfering with something important in your life?

For me it was, thats why even though I like to jerk I need to control myself, and sometimes is really difficult.

[hiker1992]

I've personally never found masturbation to infringe on my getting anything done. If I'm so busy that I don't have to leisure time to do things like that, then I'm generally too distracted. That being said, try focussing a little more on your work? I know that sounds bad, and almost sounds as though I'm faulting you for it, but I'm not, it's just a suggestion. I think that if you allow yourself to become more involved with whatever it is that masturbation is keeping you from, then you won't find yourself as horny as before.

[captainman]

yehh i can understand that. I do it probably several times a week, nothing like i did wen i was 13-15. As u get older, u get a stronger grasp on it.