A question to girls from a guy

[Unknownguy17]

Yes, Yes, I know I'm posting in the girl's section. Sheesh! This was the only way I'd thought I'd get any answers...

Anyways, my question: What really matters to girls when it comes to love? What do girls really care about? These are some of the questions that comes to mind. Many guys believe that girls care about ONLY how big your penis is. This is why many guys are obsessed about how big we are. I think that if a girl really loved you, she wouldn't care.

So, what do you care about when it comes to a guy. This may help me better understand what girls are thinking when it comes to a guy.

[itzyogrll]

That is true. If a girl really loves you she wont care how big you are. And, besides size isn't always everything.. Preformance is. =) I hope i helped! Rep me if i did!! -

Happy holidays.. <3

[SnowWolf]

well, personally...love....sigh....so many people think they know what it is, but they really dont. Anyways, when it comes to guys, as long as they sweep the girl off her feet and make her feel loved and protected, it wont matter who you are, or how big you are, as long as you treat her right. Now, there are some girls who only go after looks, but you will always find someone genuine...even if it takes time. :)
Size doesnt matter if she loves you!

[DecemberRain]

Personality. Someone caring, understanding, someone who you can talk to, someone who you can trust, someone who knows when somethings wrong even when you don't say anything, someone who will protect you, someone who truly cares about you, someone who is smart, funny, nice, its hard to find but I've found my guy.

[DoveGreySands]

Guys are rediculous if all they think we like about them is their penis and its size. Only the sluttiest of girls would go out with someone for their penis. My ideal guy is attractive, funny, has at least some brains and is into the same sort of things i'm into.

[Unknownguy17]

Thanks everyone, Your posts are helping me a lot.

Amanda, many of us guys are confused that a girl will only care love us if we please her sexually in bed. This is whjy you see all these "male enhancement pills" all over the Internet, the most recent being Vimax. However, I never believed this.

[DoveGreySands]

Thanks everyone, Your posts are helping me a lot.

Amanda, many of us guys are confused that a girl will only care love us if we please her sexually in bed. This is whjy you see all these "male enhancement pills" all over the Internet, the most recent being Vimax. However, I never believed this.

Aww, I wasn't wanting anyone to take offense by it. I just couldn't find the right words to try and show that the penis is really the last thing on our minds when we see an attractive guy.

[Brighteyes]

I truthfully couldn't care less how big a guy is, there are far more important things to consider long before that.

I am I guess, very lucky in being in a very loving relationship (for over 4yrs) even though both of us are at different universities many hundreds of miles apart from each other.

However these are my qualities that I have, or would be looking for in a guy.

Respect for me........treat me no less than an equal.

Be a good and understanding listener........allow me to have my opinions and say in matters.

To be kind, considerate and understanding.......this of course goes without saying as does being loyal and honest at all times.

To have pride in his appearance........and perhaps take a little criticism and guidance from me, as all girls do with their boyfriends lol.

Have a nice personality and be polite.

Someone that you feel truly attracted to and who sweeps you off your feet and you feel safe and well protected with.

There are quite a few more that I could list, but I think they could well be thought out for yourself.

So "Size" is and always will be fairly low down on my list of qualities, as I truly believe it would be with the majority of girls.

Remember love doesn't just happen, you have to work jolly hard at it, and it takes time to know and understand your partner who could well be with you for life.

[Unknownguy17]

Aww, I wasn't wanting anyone to take offense by it. I just couldn't find the right words to try and show that the penis is really the last thing on our minds when we see an attractive guy.

Haha, actually I was trying to point out an important fact there. Sorry if you thought I took offense to that.

I'm glad to see size is the absolute last thing on a girl's mind when they find someone that's attractive.

[DoveGreySands]

Haha, actually I was trying to point out an important fact there. Sorry if you thought I took offense to that.

I'm glad to see size is the absolute last thing on a girl's mind when they find someone that's attractive.

Yeah, stop fretting about your size downstairs and just be funny and shine :D

[Unknownguy17]

Yeah, stop fretting about your size downstairs and just be funny and shine :D

Heheheh...

Hmm... I found this in the boy's section. I decided to quote it and put it here:

Good girls don't care whatsoever about your penis, what it looks like, what size it is, if it's with foreskin or not. The great thing about love is that it truly is blind. Mercifully, girls are more tolerant of us than we are of ourselves, they actually love us with all our insecurities. If you find one who doesn't, rush out the door.

[Blood]

When it comes to love (if its true love), size wont matter.

[LingeringLove]

Girls don't even really care about the size of your pens!!
We [I[ only care about pesonality!! I look for a guy whos : funny, nice, and knows when to listen and when to speak, and has SOME good looks (;

[Kelsie]

a guy who gets shy around me ( i think it;s cute), is sensitive, cares about things that really matter, loving, respectful, doesn't drink or do drugs (though pot is fine), someone who's into the same things I'm into, won't ditch me for his friends, protective, romantic, honest, smart, and at least somewhat good looking... penis size doesn't matter.

[Jenna.]

Ok, let me clear up some of the rumors for you. The GENUINE girls (the ones worth your time) won't care about your size. Because it really doesn't matter. As long as you're a good guy who treats a girl right, they'll love you for you. The sluts on the other hand, are the ones that only care about size. They aren't good to have relationships with. (At least from what I've heard/noticed.)
Most girls love guys who are loyal (NO cheaters), genuine, down to earth and just act like themselves. Don't try to act "different" cause that's not a way to impress a girl. If the girl's really worth your time - she won't need you to pretend to be something that you're not.
I personally like sensitive, somewhat shy, MATURE guys who I can talk to like one of my best friends (like we could talk about ANYTHING.) I also don't like guys who drink or smoke. Or who party alot and stuff. :/ Hope this helped. (:

[Aspiringanonymous]

So, what do you care about when it comes to a guy.
Self-respect. A certain degree of intellectual mastery and self-awareness. Compatibility of beliefs and values on a rudimentary level.

Everything else is secondary and/or completely irrelevant for purposes short of long-time commitment/marriage.

[xluvlyx]

In a guy i care about , how he treats me , i dont like someone who's vain, he's gotta put some effort into making the relationship work. Penis size doesnt matter for a lot of girls.

[IAMWILL]

This thread was bumped, and it shouldn't have been posted here.
So, :locked: