Guys....*sigh*

[JackSecret1]

So here we go again ;)
basically, i've been getting with guys lately purely out of lust. Like i'll meet a guy, we'll get on....then get off (lol) etc.
The problem is, now i'm finding it all abit hollow. What I want now is NOT just no strings fun.
I want a boyfriend, like someone who'll cuddle up to me while sleep and will hold me while we watch tv or whatever, and just want a kiss because they care for me not because they want sex :wub: i mean (not to sound big headed) i have like 3/4 guys who say they have a crush on me, and would love for us to go out. The only thing is i'm not attracted to any of them AT ALL (physically or emotionally).
So really what i'm asking is should I go ahead and go with one of them? or just keeping waiting for mr right?

any advice is welcome thanks all

[MusicallyObsessedBoi]

Go out with one of them. Things change, you know.

[KaelKaos]

Why would you go out with one of them? You have no attraction to them.

You need to wait for "Mr. Right". You'll be so much happier when he comes along, and you'll be dating him because you like him, not because you want a boyfriend.

[thrust of trust]

but how long are you willing to wait for mr. right. take a chance on what is available.

[OstrichAficionado]

Go out with one of them. Things change, you know.

Exactly. I'd do this, if I were you.
Besides, one of them may be mr. right himself.

If it doesn't work out, you can always go out with the rest of them. Now if all of them err...fails, you can always still wait for mr. right to come along.
You've got nothing to lose :/

[KenFisher]

Man, you're lucky that you have someone that kinda fancies you. (oh wait, did I not mention you getting with guys?) *jealous* :P
Well, I know that feeling, wanting a bf that loves you for who you are. And still finding others fit. (oh, also having got with guys quite a while ago.)

Just out of interest, you saying you're not interested in them. Are they moderately fit to you or something still?
Just saying, cuz I'm in love with someone who I don't think I'd fancy at first.:wub::wub::wub::wub:

I'd say, get to know them as friends. Then you'll know if you like them at all and decide. If they don't suit you, don't matter, find other guys that love you.

Oh, and another thing, if you do find someone you love, make sure they love you back before doing anything. I'm dead serious here.

[thepieman]

It's a cliché, but wait for Mr Right. In a relationship, you both need to be happy, so if you aren't attracted to the other person then don't go for it, wait.

[Starlight Blaze]

I'd say, get to know them as friends. Then you'll know if you like them at all and decide. If they don't suit you, don't matter, find other guys that love you.

Oh, and another thing, if you do find someone you love, make sure they love you back before doing anything. I'm dead serious here.

i agree... i cant find the right one
just befriend, then see if u like them
if not just try to find Mr. Right
dont just wait

[Lifeguard18]

i agree... i cant find the right one
just befriend, then see if u like them
if not just try to find Mr. Right
dont just wait

I second that agreement