Bi-curious?

[hollistergirl92]

Heyyy!
Okay so i'm not having a major issue as in on the verge on telling people i'm bisexual etc, as I'm 50/50, perhaps only bicurious BUT i havent closed my mind to the thought of perhaps getting to know a girl, but its not as if ive ever looked for a girl to be with etc and i dont think i would get to the point where we'd do stuff together, but basically just have feelings, although...ive made friends over the years and as Ive become better friends with them i feel so emotionally attached to some of them and want to see them more...but id never think like this with my oldest friends to which i talk about boys a lot - im probably sounding pretty straight at the moment but i am bi curious! which doesnt worry me! I just want to clear it in my mind! I think ive fancied girls before but also boys...

has anyone else had similar experiences? or am i just getting lonely?
i'm 17 and go out to town a lot but never aim to get with guys, actually havent had a boyfriend in a few years, wondering whether I just havent met anyone or im just thinking too much into it? idk - im not butch or anything, totally into fashion and trends etc.

xxxxxxxxxxx

[BeautifulSilence]

Well, first things first. It really doesn't matter, and the fact that it doesn't even bother you kinda proves that.

I think you've answered yourself, you are probably looking into things too much. If you're into girls, you'll know about it when you get into a situation where you take things further. Same if you're into guys.

Don't try to figure yourself out - it just confuses things. You are what you are, that's it.

I'm also loving that little stereotype you managed to squeeze in at the end ;)

[Carter]

Wow... I'm totally going through the same thing. It's totally nothing to worry about. That's for sure! Uh... but I do think you should wait a little bit, to make sure your positive about being fully bi-sexual. Perhaps your just curious... and you want to show your friend how much you care about them. That doesn't necessarily make you bi. Just curious. and until you know for certain... just stick with it.

[Fiction]

I think you should wait! When i was 12 i got a really big crush on this girl. It ended and i haven't had a crush on a girl since. I know i am straight and am glad i didn't decide to tell people i wasn't! I have kissed girls and stuff since and i am absolulty sure i am straight now so there is no need to rush into telling anybody anything :)