What do u think

[Dibzy-Time]

For the last 2 months my bf of 2 years has been promising me hell come over o mine and see me but when the night comes he hasnt turned up. He wont text me back and he wont awnser my calls. He hasnt come over for nights and days at a time and when i ask him aout it he says hes ill or forgot. Or he changes the subject strait away.
Can he be cheating?
Can he be loosing his feelings for me?

[darkiouz]

Cheating maybe. Losing feelings maybe.

But most likely is hes just nervous. Maybe he thinks things will happen and that scares him.

Does he see you and text you outside of this situation?
Do you ever see him anywhere else?

Answer these and I might be able to help more..
:)

[KaelKaos]

You need to talk to him. He shouldn't "forget" that he's got plans to hang out with his girlfriend of two years. He should be making plans with you. Something definitely sounds fishy. I think you should talk to him one on one and tell him how you feel about it.

[Origami]

It doesn't sound like he's cheating. Most guys who cheat are more likely to be all over you, "I love you" every five seconds. They try to hide it, not make it obvious by distancing themselves, because as most my life has proven, distancing yourself leads to her thinking you're cheating.
Losing his feelings- I won't lie, I do it when I lose feeling for someone, as do most of my friends, male and female. It's a chance nonetheless but a relationship is never dead for thos who work for it.
Make him talk about it. If he changes subject, change subjects right back. Figure out why he's being so distant through simple conversation. (:

[AntonioB]

Have you talked to him? He definitely shouldn't be "forgetting" about your plans after 2 years. Something sounds off, but it doesn't necessarily mean that he's cheating or losing his feelings for you. It could be something much simpler than that. You say he keeps changing the subject, well change it back, and don't let it go until you get some answers.

[ErykaInspire.]

Jumping right to the conclusion that he's cheating/losing feelings for you isn't the best frame of though. Perhaps he is ill, or something is going on with his family. Why don't YOU go to HIM and confront him about it. Let him know you care and you're just worried. Don't right off the bat ask him if he's cheating.. that'd just create an argument or make him upset. Go to the movies or to a theme park. Do something really FUN together to maybe get him back to the way he was. Once he realizes that he's being foolish by keeping something from you, he'll come around.
My advice.. don't stress over it TOO much. Maybe you're just over thinking things. You don't have to see each other every single day. Maybe all he wants is a little space. Don't go distancing yourself from him, but just let loose a little bit.
Most guys don't like thinking that they're on chains. Give him time with his friends and with his family. Maybe that's all he needs.

[Dibzy-Time]

Ive tryed making plans with him and everytime for the past month and a half hes "forgotten" about it. we dont see each other everyday we see each other about 3 to 4 imes a week. Hes had loads of space like. Everytime hes sed hes needed it hes had 2-3 weeks on hi own with out a single text from me to him and reverse. The cinema and theme park thing is out of the quetion because everytime i try and ask him if he wants to do something he agrees....forgets or he says nah cant be boverd.

[KaelKaos]

Ive tryed making plans with him and everytime for the past month and a half hes "forgotten" about it. we dont see each other everyday we see each other about 3 to 4 imes a week. Hes had loads of space like. Everytime hes sed hes needed it hes had 2-3 weeks on hi own with out a single text from me to him and reverse. The cinema and theme park thing is out of the quetion because everytime i try and ask him if he wants to do something he agrees....forgets or he says nah cant be boverd.

He's not being respectful to you. He's blowing you off and you deserve to know why. The next time you see him, sit him down, and ask why he's being so disrespectful, and you feel like your relationship is falling apart.

[Dibzy-Time]

so something really bad happend to me a few days ago. I text him what happend andhe text me back saying he would be round as soon as he could.
this happend 3 nights ago. The 1st nite (the night i text him) he said he couldnt come round today because of the snow,fair enough. He couldnt come round last nite because his car broke down. today he cant come round because he has gone into work. His always day off, bering in mind his work he can choose when he works and not. He promised me he would defo come round today no matter what. He also has to find his own way into work, but he said about an hour ago his spark plugs went last nite and because of the snow today he wouldnt beable to fix them. there for he had no other way of getting to work. he text me sayin hes in work and when i text him sayin im confused he then came texting back with "just leave it ok ive had enough now" enough of what!!!!!!
Over the last 3 days ive text him 3 times.
Ive asked him to drop my visa card off when he finishes work and after he leaves thats it. No more sh!t from him ive had enough of it.

Do you guys think im doin the right thing?

ive tryed textin him back alot buh he isnt replyin. Ive text him saying its kool youur not replyin buh if you dont give me my visa cardback by tomorrow mornig, if not with a good excuse y nt, ill get him dun 4 card theft

So i got my dad to drop me over his house just after i posted the reply ontop.
He wasnt in work he hd been asleep most of the day. He wouldnt hug me let alone look at me

[Sapphire]

What did he say when you saw him yesterday?

To be honest, you are probably better off without him. He isn't treating you well and is causing you more grief than is at all necessary.